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Megha

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Posted: 11 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: babyji
Superb post DextorRocks. Superb. I don't think I would be able to survive this show for long now.

ohh i think your frustation about Paro is speaking. I am all scared that after so much of self pity acts, and self satisfactory acts, Paro will be justified in the name of her evergreen innocence.

I am liking the flow and progress of Rudra, this guy holds the grip of the show now, I am dying to watch his and maala's faceoff..

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Ipkkndcrazy1

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Posted: 11 years ago

#22

Hello DR-sa,

Shaant bai-sa...Shaant! (In Rudra's voice).

Paro's reaction didnt come out as a surprise to me, having known the character for a while, she was bound to react this way! I was expecting her to get excited about sharing a common mother than understand Rudra's effort and honesty...opening up to her about something so painful! She might come around...like u said, even her apology was for something else! But think of it this way, she is somebody who needs everything verbally stated. So probably the CVs saw it as a chance for Rudra to come out with all his emotions and express his extreme hatred for the woman, Maala. Though he cherishes the good times he had with her, Paro had to be told the extent he hates Maala and how hard it is going to be for him to forgive her. We all know that for all the love and understanding Paro declares for Rudra, she makes decisions on his behalf and emotionally blackmails him into doing what she wants ultimately. Maybe that is the right/righteous way to think, the noble act...but my heart doesnt cry, bleeds everytime Rudra has to justify, shout and clarify every action of his with her. I think he even overlooked the fact that she got to enjoy the mother's love that was rightfully his! He is not even jealous anymore after that initial reaction! I liked the fact that Paro's blabbering that way gave Ashish to give us some fabulous expressions...But i am thinking how they are handle Dilsher in this situation, Maa-bete ka milan tho ultimately Paro karaanewali hain, par how will it affect the Papa-son bond? Maala left Dilsher for another man, unless there is a genuine reason for the same, how is Paro going to convince Dilsher to forgive Maala?

The less said about Mala the better...As a woman, i understand her falling in love and leaving a marriage she didnt like, but as a mother i cannot justify anything she says for having abandoned a child.

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Megha

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Posted: 11 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: Ipkkndcrazy1
Hello DR-sa,

Shaant bai-sa...Shaant! (In Rudra's voice).

Paro's reaction didnt come out as a surprise to me, having known the character for a while, she was bound to react this way! I was expecting her to get excited about sharing a common mother than understand Rudra's effort and honesty...opening up to her about something so painful! She might come around...like u said, even her apology was for something else! But think of it this way, she is somebody who needs everything verbally stated. So probably the CVs saw it as a chance for Rudra to come out with all his emotions and express his extreme hatred for the woman, Maala. Though he cherishes the good times he had with her, Paro had to be told the extent he hates Maala and how hard it is going to be for him to forgive her. We all know that for all the love and understanding Paro declares for Rudra, she makes decisions on his behalf and emotionally blackmails him into doing what she wants ultimately. Maybe that is the right/righteous way to think, the noble act...but my heart doesnt cry, bleeds everytime Rudra has to justify, shout and clarify every action of his with her. I think he even overlooked the fact that she got to enjoy the mother's love that was rightfully his! He is not even jealous anymore after that initial reaction! I liked the fact that Paro's blabbering that way gave Ashish to give us some fabulous expressions...But i am thinking how they are handle Dilsher in this situation, Maa-bete ka milan tho ultimately Paro karaanewali hain, par how will it affect the Papa-son bond? Maala left Dilsher for another man, unless there is a genuine reason for the same, how is Paro going to convince Dilsher to forgive Maala?

The less said about Mala the better...As a woman, i understand her falling in love and leaving a marriage she didnt like, but as a mother i cannot justify anything she says for having abandoned a child.

I am shaant, because tonight i was more than happy to see Rudra react appropriately ... i wanted him to blast off Paro as soon as she started the praisworthy speech about Maala.

I know that its useless to expect from Paro, so its good that u didnt expect and got an expected reaction from her. why do i forget she is innocent and naive and thus she gets every damn right to mistrust, misplay with Rudra's emotions..

@red:- could i agree with you more ? As u said, eventhough its she who claims to love and understand him, its he who always tells the truth, puts his heart out in front of her, and still he has to justify that his stand is right. Paro never really gives him a benefit of doubt, she always finds shortcomings in anything he processes.es and facial expressions are so convincing. it was a relief to see Rudradev doing a mini tandaav here, i do want a bigger one though.

Ashish was fabulous in the outburst scene, his body gestur

Moreover, how selfish it would be from her side if she leaves him just like that without telling him about it ? He is the man who told her about all his shortcomings, about his existence, and he does deserve to know that his wife is leaving him. But how ugly it would be when he will learn that paro confided in maithili and not in him.

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Smriti

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Posted: 11 years ago

#24

the entire show is geared to highlight the male lead. Paro's exists to give Rudra's emotions a channel, otherwise, it would seem pretty silly to see a crying Rudra with his monologue.

I am not surprised by the lack of reaction from Paro. The story writers never give the character adequate reaction times or even appropriate reactions.

I imagine if I were in the situation, I'd be shocked to know the duality of Mala, I'd want to find out why my mother figure, whom I revere and love so much would do such a thing. I would be dying to ask Dilsher what happened.

For that matter, since the day she found out that Tejawat is missing, she did not for once wonder how her mother-like thakurain might be or where she might be. Paro exists for one and only one purpose. To please Rudra, to give him an outlet and do everything for him. This character her no emotions, identity or stand of her own.

Sad that a talented artist like Sanaya is completely wasted in this role

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Smriti

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Posted: 11 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: Ipkkndcrazy1

Meri C-dost

The purity in Paro's thoughts and actions have always been geared towards the goal of edifying her relationship with Rudra, ever since she found out the truth about Tejawat. In that respect CVs are very focused and allow Paro as much latitude as needed as long as it goes to support Rudra's story.

We should know that the show has very lopsided and biased characterizations. KakiCumMaasi, Laila, Sumer, even Thakursa are all caricatures and extremes to conveniently support a story arc. It would make no sense to analyse a lopsided character and find it flawed. It was never meant to be perfect in the first place. 😉 did i confuse you enough with my habad dhabad mumbo jumbo analysis?

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angelarabia

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Posted: 11 years ago

#26

To be honest I don't want to comment on today's epi much because it was just... I love Paros character, she is soo kind. But the reaction today was not appropriate, sorry but that's what I think. I mean if you are not going to sympathize with the love of your life, that his mother LEFT him as a child because she wanted to be with another man, atleast feel sorry for your self, that not only did ur father figure tejawat betray you, but the woman who supposedly was like a mother to you, lied and was a hypocrite. What? She taught you how to be a good wife? Told you stories of how to be virtuous? While she knew she left a little boy who was broken. To me her reaction were a bit cruel to be honest. The guy just told you why he is broken, your comeback is he has his torturers eyes? I expected to atleast be in shock and say " she was hypocrite, about everything!" Feel a bit disgust for mala, not tell the son she abandoned that she might have loved his enemy and not his father. I was pissed off, I am not gonna lie. But it's tv, everyone takes it in a different ways.

Edited by angelarabia - 11 years ago

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Opti

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Posted: 11 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: DexterRocks

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Megha

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Posted: 11 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: angelarabia
To be honest I don't want to comment on today's epi much because it was just... I love Paros character, she is soo kind. But the reaction today was not appropriate, sorry but that's what I think. I mean if you are not going to sympathize with the love of your life, that his mother LEFT him as a child because she wanted to be with another man, atleast feel sorry for your self, that not only did ur father figure tejawat betray you, but the woman who supposedly was like a mother to you, lied and was a hypocrite. What? She taught you how to be a good wife? Told you stories of how to be virtuous? While she knew she left a little boy who was broken. To me her reaction were a bit cruel to be honest. The guy just told you why he is broken, your comeback is he has his torturers eyes? I expected to atleast be in shock and say " she was hypocrite, about everything!" Feel a bit disgust for mala, not tell the son she abandoned that she might have loved his enemy and not his father. I was pissed off, I am not gonna lie. But it's tv, everyone takes it in a different ways.

yes the reaction was very much disappointing but kind of expected seeing the way Paro's character took U-turns recently .

But to be honest I think thats how the plot is, i had a deep thought about it, that CVs are doing the blunder, but lateron i could notice that they are actually trying to display an irony between Paro and Maala's characters and how these two characters play essential roles in Rudra's lives. They are trying to juxtapose that both Paro and Maala are very much similar when comes to their own belief system and self destructive decisions in life.

About Paro being all happy and praising Maala in front of Rudra, that came out as very selfish and rude, esp when we consider the delicacy of that very moment, he was already broken, and her words just stabbed his heart . And how regressive was the justification that Maala didnt know about Tejawat's real face, so whats Rudra supposed to do now ? I was happy that he blasted Paro, his every word had significance.

I think i wont blame Rudra if he takes Paro's departure as another abandonment, a guy in his place would go mad , he is atleast surviving .