I haven't given anyone the right! Seriously Rudra? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

that was utter bullshit today...I seriously want Paro to distance herself from Rudra or better leave him...he can move in with Laila in there little sex pad.

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Is she your wife? Damn right she is! Does she have the right to know about your past relationships...damn right! She does.

Is she too a piece of trash like Laila to you? Use a woman and cast her out as some dirty laundry. I completely don't get you...if you have nothing for Laila WTH are you touching her every chance you get...the holding of her wrist was a longtime for not wanting anyone.
8 yrs is a longtime to have a monogamous relationship with someone. As much as you scream that you aren't committed...it's commitment alright. Maybe deep down you do feel responsible or guilty?

Why else wouldn't you give the woman the right to know your past? She has a right and do does every woman.It seems you are not too keen to disclose your colorful past with your ex lady... and please don't give me the crap that you don't want Paro's innocence to get tarnished? That is utter bullshit. If you don't feel a thing for Laila and have considered her as just your f**k buddy...lay it out to Paro and let her make the decision...to whether she wants to stay or leave.

But, what surprises me is that you will be disclosing the truth not because you want to...but because you have been caught and the whole matter is in front of Paro in tits and bits.

Totally agree with that part in red.
I would have preferred if he had voluntarily disclosed his past to Paro. But he himself is not sure of his feelings for Paro yet, nor has he accepted her as wife...the marriage was something he did in a fit of anger. He is in the process of falling in love with her. So he is still not willingly ready to reveal it to her.
But yes, she does have a right to know his past.
Laila also has a right to a proper and well explained closure to their relationship.
But by painting Laila black, the CVs have taken the easy route...she does not deserve apology or closure.

Hi Rapunzale Long time How are you ?
Sigh I am going to write something the opposite Rudra has experienced for the first time in his life a person who is what she says she is and no shades of grey there is no capriciousness no damn twisted lies no ulterior motives just being herself and time and again proven that she sticks to her beliefs She has put him on this pedestal Now the forum is chafed and wonder when she will see him for a human but dear Rudra is enjoying that status she has bestowed upon him He secretly loves that she cherishes him idolizes him hell hero worships him else he would not have given into her wish of wanting to be married to him no matter how bad his life had become without his precious BSD He could have found other avenues and I am sure Paro even without him marry her would have gladly assisted in damage control but he did not I see a person who grabbed the first chance He shut his mind and went with his heart as the writers wanted to showcase Now the circumstances and the way he went about theatrical yes but then this is TV and am sure another ceremony is on its way probably in front of their favorite Celestial Couple's temple but digressing so tonight I saw a man desperate to protect preserve hell even bubble wrap in a time warp what he is currently feeling for his partner something so precious he does not want it tarnished by his past mistake He does not want to fall in her eyes that is his fear to let her find he has clay feet and what a climb down for a man who never feared anything ever for any body nor felt a care for another humans feelings who wanted to be hated and thought of as a Jallad with no compunction For someone who said you have no right he did come back to clear the air maybe he may have been arm twisted but he could have easily circumvented Laila and Paro is no pushover like other FL in desi soaps I liked the way they portrayed him and ok an aside sick to death of how the forum howls she is going to dump him and go She too has huge feelings hell she feels and shows it a hell of a lot more than him Her physical attraction to him has been shown so clearly and I think she wants to keep it on the backburner till push comes to shove just like Rudra tonight
and no the Grinch did not turn romantic she just saw human emotions in a fictional soap now that is telling 😛
one more thing am bad in analysis of fictional characters so there maybe many loopholes 😳

Originally posted by: Zeeliciousxo

I agree with you. But I think in that scene he just felt cornered, and because of that he felt defensive and right in that moment his old self came back.

I hate confrontations and I know that when I'm scared and feeling cornered by someone, even if it is someone I love, I feel defensive and often end up saying something stupid in order to stop feeling so weak and low, in order to show that I'm still in control because I know, deep down, that I'm losing control.

Don't know if I make any sense. But although I didn't like how Rudra said that to Paro, I understand where he's coming from. I could definitely relate.

I understand that he felt cornered but if things have changed in him...I mean his emotions for Paro then he at least should be respectful towards her. By now he very well knows that Paro has him on a pedestal...she completely adores him...no I am wrong...she actually blindly worships. He in return can dismiss her politely...atleast. His repeated rant...she has no rights on him...seriously needs to stop. It seems he gave enough rights to Laila as a woman than he has to Paro...yes, I mean physically. We can all beat around the bush about how Paro has touched his heart but I have seen enough real people in the real world to disregard the importance of physical aspect of a relationship. It's extremely important and here he has given that right to Laila for 8 long years...it's a longtime...no wonder Laila feels a sense of authority over him. Any normal woman would feel that way.

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

I understand that he felt cornered but if things have changed in him...I mean his emotions for Paro then he at least should be respectful towards her. By now he very well knows that Paro has him on a pedestal...she completely adores him...no I am wrong...she actually blindly worships. He in return can dismiss her politely...atleast. His repeated rant...she has no rights on him...seriously needs to stop. It seems he gave enough rights to Laila as a woman than he has to Paro...yes, I mean physically. We can all beat around the bush about how Paro has touched his heart but I have seen enough real people in the real world to disregard the importance of physical aspect of a relationship. It's extremely important and here he has given that right to Laila for 8 long years...it's a longtime...no wonder Laila feels a sense of authority over him. Any normal woman would feel that way.

Originally posted by: squivi

The way I saw that scene is that he got angry. He felt targeted - by his past and present - and lashed out. For his character, it's completely normal. Then he thought about it and realized, he does owe her an answer because he does care for her deeply (love even?) and she deserves to know their relationship.

As for the holding Laila for a long time, did you all notice that he didn't do it because he likes her? He was holding it tightly and angrily. There was nothing in that wrist hold except anger and fear of what Laila represents and what she'll say/do.

Being angry is one thing and he has been hot headed always...it's understandable but his words to Paro are not.

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Being angry is one thing and he has been hot headed always...it's understandable but his words to Paro are not.

It doesn't matter whether he held her in anger or not actually? On the contrary he has held Paro's hands many a times when he has been angry...is there a difference? I didn't see one. The cvs here needs to be very careful because Rudra has always been shown as a man who shows his emotions physically. They have already shown enough physical intimacy between Rudra and Laila in the beginning. Him touching and holding her just the way he does with Paro is giving mixed signals here. He needs to figure out a way to not touch Laila while he speaks to her. It's extremely indecent.

Originally posted by: Zeeliciousxo

Let's get real, we all get angry and when we're angry we're all mean. Even to people we love. Rudra is a human after all. You're right, Paro worships him like he's a God but he's been telling her repeatedly - he's a human. A flawed human at that. That's it.

Yes in a way Rudra gave Laila some right over him since he slept with her for 8 years. He is at fault there. He needs to give closure to Laila.

Hi there Zee...anger is a killer...we all know that...just like words once spoken can be deadly more than a blow or a wound. All I am stating here is Paro deserves respect ...him lashing out at her now after everything has been cleared...each and every accusation against her. His lashing out at her and reminding her that she has no place in his life is simply inhumane.

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Hi there Zee...anger is a killer...we all know that...just like words once spoken can be deadly more than a blow or a wound. All I am stating here is Paro deserves respect ...him lashing out at her now after everything has been cleared...each and every accusation against her. His lashing out at her and reminding her that she has no place in his life is simply inhumane.

The only way Laila will get closure is if and only Rudra accepts Paro as his wife and not a liability. He married her out of desperation to save his job and that is what he repeatedly mentions it to Paro and the family too. Somewhere Laila believes that too...she feels that there is a chance that he might come back once Tej is arrested. Rudra needs to let Laila know that he is committed to his marriage.

Originally posted by: SanzBarbie

Exactly as I wrote in many other posts the same thing that I want Paro to ask Rudra what values she has in his life now, a proper confession ..
Paro may think now that if he discards Laila after 8 yrs of physical relation then he can very well discard her anytime and it's very rightful of her to think this way ..
I hope she stays aloof from Rudra now till he confesses his love to her !! And if he does not come clear she should leave him with Laila saying now enjoy ur sex life !!!

As much as I love Paro's innocence and her character, it's becoming very hard for me to relate to her character. It saddens me because it was Paro's character/ also the lovestory that attracted me to RR.