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Originally posted by: Guinea

I dunno if either are in love right now. For paro , its like a devotion and for rudra its attraction converting into something else ...I think their still is a lot of time for love😊

Originally posted by: Jaz1990

U think? Something is defo der n it is building as days pass

Originally posted by: Jaz1990

Rudra has so far shown that he is attracted to paro, he cares for paro, is willing to protect her no matter what!

So my question is was Paro actaully the first person to fall in love or has it always been rudra who fell in love??

Those of u, who will say how can rudra fall in love in a day flat?? Has he really??? Hasn't he always been pulled towards her?? cares for her, is attracted to her, protects her like his own? What is dis? N dis has been shown since da beginning ??

I don't know anything about love shove but isn't dis love dat has been building from da initial days ??

Tvbug?
Naps???
MKM ?
Eve? And all other brilliant analysers in da forum do share ur views??

I'm kind off confused? lol den again I always I'm 😆

Originally posted by: tvbug2011

Hey Jaz!! 🤗Sorry for the late response, butjust read your post.

I still maintain that Rudra fell in love with Paro long before she fell in love with him. You could say that he's loved her for 15 years because he's loved her since she threw him the doll.

But the Paro he met as an adult, he's loved her without knowing it and without admitting it to himself much before Paro. After all what is love: caring for the other person, not being able to take their pain, putting them before your own self, being sexually attracted to them, the need to be close to them and missing them when they are away.

So when did Rudra feel all these:

The need to protect: when he saved her from the goons and the bullet they fired. Took a bullet for her in fact before she was in his charge. When he pulled her back to the cell after her Mamisa refused to recognise her and her village abandoned her, because he could not take her plight.

To care: When she twisted her ankle and he tended to it while she was asleep. He had no need to. Not to that extent, but he did.

Feeling sexually attracted: Right from the start, from when he rescued her from the goons, but felt cheated when he was told she was getting married. Whenit took him so long to recover from the merest touch of haldi to his cheek.

Wanting to keep her close/Missing her: When he could not stomach the fact that she might actually prefer going away with Tejawat to staying with him.

Possessiveness/Jealousy: He was never happy about the hold Varun and his memories had over her. Nor of the value she placed on that mangalsutra.

I have deliberately picked examples pre the Mahashivratri Mela and Paro's realisation, because he exhibited all of the signs of love even then. Yes the intensity was different, the complexion of the love was different. But where does it say that love is an absolute and must be felt to this particular degree. Love grows, deepens, changes with time. But that doesn't mean that what you had when you started out wasn't love, just that it was a different kind of love.

For that matter, when Paro saved Rudra from the bullet in the Mela despite not having any logical reason to save him and then asked if he was okay when she had no reason to care for him, for that matter when she returned to him after almost meeting her Mamisa, you could say that she was a little bit in love despite having every reason to and telling herself that she hated him.

Actually, Dilsher had it right - he knew from when Rudra helped Paro off the cupboard that this was a match meant to be. 😃

Originally posted by: napstermonster

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">How far is attraction from love? And what do you do with instant attracton, the one that makes you drive away, then stop, then put your life at risk for a woman you have glimpsed for five seconds? I am not saying Rudra would not have stopped for Bindi, had she been there. For a man who hates women yet the sight of one being abused makes him then take a bullet shot for her-- I dont think Paro's beauty or helplessness was a factor in him being himself--heroic.


But the look he gives her, when he finds out she is to be married--that is not the reaction of a man who is not instantly pulled towards the girl. Staring at her in the rear-mirror when she is just someone being taken back to her village--again the same instinct. Pull. And finally, his reaction when Varun tries to shoot Paro--the look not just of disgust at the terrorist, but rage--that one bullet shot must have felt real good to Rudra!
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Hoe far is protectiveness from love? There is a reason the man reacts like he does at the very thought of her physical hurt---it literally cannot be tolerated in his world, that Paro be hurt. For now, he even wants her NOT to love him bevause he knows himself, and he knows he will hurt her, because he truly belives he is incapable of love. That is also protectiveness, in his own twisted way. If he did not already care for her, and need her safe and whole for his own peace of mind-- he would not care about her loving a patthar, he would not push her away this hard.</font>

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Love needs several components, and Banna has fulfilled most of them well before today. You must find the other person attractive. Yeah. No discussion needed on whether Rurda burns for her. You have to trust--and now he has proved to her, and to himself, that he does with the vidence of the poisoning. He must care more for her than for himself--and no one who has watched RR can deny the CVs have changed everything else here and there--but not the fact that this man will happily sacrifice his life for her safety. And finally,he must RELY on her, know, infact, that he can do this.


And today, this was proved again and again, from the prasad, to the medicines, to the fact he is comfortable enough to sat...haath...to her, and not even admit his vulnerability to his father like he did to his wife. His vulnerability can be shown to her, because her care is a given for him now. Its something he has come to not just accept as something he must tolerate, but has become something he expects, and will look for and ask for if he wants it.
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Today, I dont think he has come to a realization of his love so much as a realization that he is completely immersed in her already. His father's words--first the aadat, the habit. Then the sweet obsession. And then love. I think those stages were long passed by. He has done those already- and Rudra's terror, his vulnerability, even his pain and fear in the unguarded eyes is the realization that he is not hovering at the start of the path to love. Unbenowst to himself, fighting with himself, against his own instincts--he has raced down that path to the end line well before his hate marriage.


He married Paro knowing he would not let her go. She knows it, too, which is why she changes her instructions to him in the last scene. Hold on to me as tight as you can, because you wont let me go today or ever. And that is when his hands curl into a grip, not the thought of doing his job against criminals, or capturing his enemies. The thought of keeping her makes him physically react. And today, he realized that the "dye" of love, the rang of prem had been cast before he could have seen it be thrown into his life, or prevented it from covering him in its color. Rang char gaya, and wohi uss rang mein Rudra bheeg bhi gaya. And that terrifies him.</font>

Originally posted by: tvbug2011

Hey Jaz!! 🤗 Sorry for the late response, but just read your post.

I still maintain that Rudra fell in love with Paro long before she fell in love with him. You could say that he's loved her for 15 years because he's loved her since she threw him the doll.

But the Paro he met as an adult, he's loved her without knowing it and without admitting it to himself much before Paro. After all what is love: caring for the other person, not being able to take their pain, putting them before your own self, being sexually attracted to them, the need to be close to them and missing them when they are away.

So when did Rudra feel all these:

The need to protect: when he saved her from the goons and the bullet they fired. Took a bullet for her in fact before she was in his charge. When he pulled her back to the cell after her Mamisa refused to recognise her and her village abandoned her, because he could not take her plight.

To care: When she twisted her ankle and he tended to it while she was asleep. He had no need to. Not to that extent, but he did.

Feeling sexually attracted: Right from the start, from when he rescued her from the goons, but felt cheated when he was told she was getting married. When it took him so long to recover from the merest touch of haldi to his cheek.

Wanting to keep her close/Missing her: When he could not stomach the fact that she might actually prefer going away with Tejawat to staying with him.

Possessiveness/Jealousy: He was never happy about the hold Varun and his memories had over her. Nor of the value she placed on that mangalsutra.

I have deliberately picked examples pre the Mahashivratri Mela and Paro's realisation, because he exhibited all of the signs of love even then. Yes the intensity was different, the complexion of the love was different. But where does it say that love is an absolute and must be felt to this particular degree. Love grows, deepens, changes with time. But that doesn't mean that what you had when you started out wasn't love, just that it was a different kind of love.

For that matter, when Paro saved Rudra from the bullet in the Mela despite not having any logical reason to save him and then asked if he was okay when she had no reason to care for him, for that matter when she returned to him after almost meeting her Mamisa, you could say that she was a little bit in love despite having every reason to and telling herself that she hated him.

Actually, Dilsher had it right - he knew from when Rudra helped Paro off the cupboard that this was a match meant to be. 😃

Originally posted by: SherryGS

I absolutely agree! No one truly falls in love in a day. It builds and builds and it did for both Paro and Rudra even if neither is aware. If we all rewatch all the episodes we are sure to see this.