Yes Paro, you really do not know Rudra . - Page 6

Originally posted by: DexterRocks

ohh i get you. Lol, leave it. I told you, the forum goes beserk once Rudra is sympathesized or Paro is criticized. But who cares, as long as you yourself are not involving into the ruckus.

the last time Rudra got sympathy was when he lost his job, and you missed the condition of the forum, it was on a hike. 🤣

Originally posted by: .Kiran.

Oh I was here at that time as well and I did witness the entire drama.😆 Oh well, Im just glad we have members like you here 🤗

Originally posted by: ttt1

Originally posted by: DexterRocks

I have mixed feelings about tonight's episode. The episode was filled with melodrama otherwise one or two genuine and high points.

My topic will revolve more around Rudra and his convo with Paro. I think i will and can rewatch this episode only to see the scene when Rudra sees Paro after he regains consciousness. The way he hums her name, and as soon as he sees her feet bleeding, the agony and the restlesness came out so brilliantly onscreen. Like the fact that how CVs keep Rudra and his reflexes so subtle, calm and human, and does not restrict him to any other random heroes we watch on TV.

A special mention to Ashish for the scene, he is so expressive, and his voice modulation is so heavenly, Paro otherwise is a name for us, but whenever Rudra mentions the name, the passion oozes out, the depth of his struggle and intensity which he suffers for Paro, it oozes out the way he calls her. Today it sounded so beautiful and divine that he was still on his death bed and still he took her name, he could see nothing but her bleeding feet. Such awesomeness can only be Rudra, one of the best male characters of TV right now.

Coming back to Paro, i found her better yesterday, yes she broke down, and had asked her major saab some questions, which she normally does not dare to ask. Tonight, all i could see her is back to square again, yes shiv mythology, and her notion of Rudra hating on her.

When Rudra says to her that she still does not know him completely and understand him, he is technically RIGHT. She certainly is unaware of the depth of his wounds, yes she also had an aweful past, but comparing her one with Rudra's one once again shows that how she is yet to get knowledge about his suffering and his inner struggle. The man struggles in his every breath, as he tries to supress his feelings for her and instead behaves in a manner only to color himself black in front of her with the hope that she will hate him and run for her life, which can only have bitterness if his love traps her. But unfortunately Paro is still naive, she still thinks and feels that Rudra hates on her, and he cannot tolerate her presence, thus her last lecture tonight. Yes she can claim to love him and understand him, but UNDERSTANDING is still not there.

Th moment she asked him that how can he hate her and for how long / the look on his face was of relief, he for once felt that the girl is believing which i wanted her to believe.

Lastly, i did not understand one thing, at one side she is advicing him to get away from his past which restrains him to express his golden heart, and on the other side she is preparing to leave him in an isolated state once again ? Why try and nurture his wounds when once again intentionally/unintentionally you are going to make him face the similar situation ?

Plus, it is easy for paro to give a 2 min advice on how life should be lead by moving on, because her wounds had a healing, she had a beautiful upbringing, her mamisa and maala were her two divine mothers, her saheli and nandu jija and now maithili are her friends, support, Rudra is her protector, the man who made her into a strong and independent lady from the delicate village girl she was. But what about Rudra, his life is a net of unanswered questions and nightmares, his mother abandoned him for her reasons, he did not have the opportunity to question her also, and his father brought him up for the sake of it, with all bitterness and the grief which he wanted to get rid off. His only pride, his uniform and job got snatched away from him, blaming him as a women abuser, the very woman whom he protects with all his life and blood. So it is not that easy as paro thinks, i like the fact that Paro wants to heal him, but she is too naive and still does not have the capacity to realize and understand the deep ocean Rudra is.

As i had said earlier, it is easy to love and worship a person when you know completely about him, that how he saved you, your nation, your pride, your honour, and thus Paro's worship towards him has no second thought, But it is equally tough to love a woman as passionately and as intensely when she thinks and presumes you as an abuser, a killer, a man who can stoop at any level for his ulterior motives and such is the case of Rudra. He was happy to recieve her hatred and still love her, as he never feared of losing her, but now he just wishes that she would never fall for him because as much as he loves her, he knows that he cannot tolerate a separation from her, especially when he has become so helpless in his love, he cannot even fake his rudeness and arrogance these days, eventhough he tries a lot.

Originally posted by: NalayakShaitaan

Coming to understanding..yes she doesnt understand him completely but so does he..they both lack in that area IMo..Paro more than Rudra..put that down to naiveness or taking everything at face value unless proven otherwise..that is what she has done since the start
Regarding her understanding or lack of wrt the depth of his wounds..its nit that she doesnt understand her wounds..but her lectures have to do more with her inherent optimism and her firm belief that people can overcome any wou.d and hurt if they want to just like she did in her life..thats how she has been..her first husband was a terrorist..the man she considered like her father was a terrosrist too who killed her parents and her best friend and countless others for his own gain..these are all life altering situations..and yet Paro bounced back as ifnothing haooened..unreal for us..but thats how she is..the problem is that she thinks everyone can do that easily..and herein lies of her lack of understanding

as for her plans of leaving Rudra..I think its stupid

Originally posted by: DexterRocks

ohh i get you. Lol, leave it. I told you, the forum goes beserk once Rudra is sympathesized or Paro is criticized. But who cares, as long as you yourself are not involving into the ruckus.

the last time Rudra got sympathy was when he lost his job, and you missed the condition

Agree with you.

Originally posted by: ttt1

@DR

i have no issues with a male prospective , yes i do feel it is more from rudra's POV because we hardly see anything about paro , her past etc

the hate marriage i would say , and paro i thought accepted it cos she thinks she 'understands him'

but rudra did force the marriage and his inability to accept it (as of now) , there i thought they justified his actions cos of his ruthless nature and bitterness that was due to his past

that i dont quite agree , but again that is the premise of the story , he was never meant to be white

and he is not guilty about that , because the same rudra who is so deeply concerned for paro's leg being hurt is fully aware that he doesnt want this relationship after forcing her into it

he has his 'reasons' rights , those reasoning makes me feel it is rudra's story more than paro's

how he moves on thats the story

Originally posted by: AyeReKhushi

Why am I not surprised that you would see it that way 😊

For starters, I don't agree with Rudra "made her into a strong and independent lady"...uh what? Paro became a strong, independent lady when Tejawat revealed his true face to her and she beat him up and escaped ON HER OWN. She did what even the BSD officers couldn't do.

And one thing I don't understand. When Paro used to ignore his harsh words and refuse to let him go, you all call her clingy and naive. When she listens to what he wants and lets him go, you all still call her naive. She can't win. I think she tried her best with him. She always looked out for him, cared for him and loved him, despite his many threats telling her to get out, she stuck with him. Whatever she does in her life is for him, not for herself.

I for one am glad with the way things are going now. Rudra has been telling her to leave him alone for god knows how long...he calls her shameless, says he wishes he never met her, etc. Now he will get his wish and hopefully understand her worth.