Yes Paro, you really do not know Rudra . - Page 3

Originally posted by: .Kiran.

I somewhat agree and somewhat disagree with your post. But kudos to you for at least sticking to your views in a forum where male lead's fans get judged all the time.😆

I myself was patting my back about the same. Yes i have enough guts. I won't simply support a character because i am a fan of any actor here. and i can claim it because i was neither a Ashish fan or sanaya fan.

Anyways coming back to your post, I agree that she doesn't fully understand him as she claims to. But her advice was from her personal experience. She has had her share of past experiences but she tries to move on and live her life. That's how she's been able to enjoy her life and happiness. And she's asking Rudra to do the same. Sure, easier said than done but it's not like she's forcing him to. It's just an advice. Rudra can take it or leave it!😆

yes thats what i said, i do like the steps she takes to heal him. and trust me i dont have a problem with her, because she has been always shown a bit innocent, naive who does not understand 4 sides but only two sides of a coin, she does not understand complexity and thats what paro is. she will try her level best and thus she claims she understands him completely. and thus he eplies to her in a mocking manner that you definitely don't understand me, and he is right in here. Paro is stubborn, she does not want to accept stuffs which she does not believe in, she does not give a second though, atleast Rudra gives a second thought and then he fails to deal with it and just buries the matter in his heart. In case of Paro, she never considers others opinions, she puts dots from her divine beliefes and tries to conduct the life according to that.

About her leaving him, well she stuck with him all this while come what may. And now he's been constantly telling her to go away from him. So she might as well leave him for his sake if that's what makes him happy. And that's exactly what she's doing. She can't win either ways but if her going away from him will make him happy then why not? If that's what will keep him alive, then she's ready to sacrifice her happiness for him.

yes from her POV ofcourse he wants her to leave. Thus i said she still does not understand him. Obviously the man who cannot see your feet bleeding even when he himself is in a critical cndition, how can you still think that the man HATES you. i personally felt the hate word was too much today, because she was somewhat preparing him to be strong when she leaves him. and as i said she can still be content that finally she has listened to god and given major saab his life, but he will be the one to be left with questions, hurt, mockery and incomplete affection/love again.

I think being a village girl Paro is more matured and she knows that hanging on to things which makes your life miserable doesn't bring you any peace.

Rudra on the other hand who got BSD training is still clinging to the past and making his life a living hell for himself and for Paro.

He seriously has to move on. It's time for him to move on before he loses his Paro. I think Paro completely understands him and its Rudra who doesn't understand himself or Paro.

Originally posted by: kantamistry

sorry but i dont agree to a majority of your opinions...its not always a woman's duty to understand a man...just becoz majority of women do it doesnot make it a compulsory aspect in the characterization of women...and how and why shud Paro understand Rudra...Rudra has never really opened up to in front of her to tell her what he went through...and even if he has, it is never to make her understand that he' s a hurt person but more to carry out his anger on her...all Paro had in her hand to know Rudra's pain was his letters to his Mum and the explanations of Dilsher... and yes...the way he reacted when Kaki cum masi mentioned her mother...but is it all enough to make her realize the pain he has?????? no...i dont think so...it is not Paro' s fault if he went through all this ...and Paro had not less to suffer...no doubt she had a good bringing up by her MamiSa but the loss of one's parents cannot be compensated by ANYONE... and if every person starts hating a whole gender for the fault of one...then Paro is the one who shud also hate the whole Male gender due to the wicked Thakursa...but no she doesn't...bcoz she knows that it is not appropriate to punish everyone for the fault of one...she is the one who always has tried to show her love to Rudra and he is the one who always rejects it...so why only she shud keep on trying endlessly...inspite of the endless rejections and insults...already she has given too much chances to Rudy to improve and endlessly hurted her self- respect...but now its enough...but one thing...the Paro is not doing this to make Rudy understand her importance...she is doing this out of love for him...and she herself isn't happy doing it...and yes...it is not Rudra who has made her strong...anybody else if kept in such protection as like Paro wud surely go lazy and weak...but Paro has never really needed Rudy physically present to help her get out of a situation.

Originally posted by: KushiKumarising

I understood one thing after reading some of the posts today.

Whatever Paro does, some of members will always find fault in it. I mean common.

Why do you think that Paro loosing her Parents did not have a a major impact on Paro. Even though she is surrounded with good people you think she might have forgot her parents or she is not missing her parent. Rudra atleast has her dad.

i think the premise of the story itself is like that , one who tackles the situation , the other who get more and more into the darkness

i am not a fan of it , bit i guess that is rudra for you , he is bitter cos of his parenting and he doesnt want to tackle it

I think being a village girl Paro is more matured and she knows that hanging on to things which makes your life miserable doesn't bring you any peace.

but she doesnt know if that is his issue ,that is a wild guess based on some things she heard at home , she just feels she understand him , does she really but the advice was based on her experience , appreciable

Rudra on the other hand who got BSD training is still clinging to the past and making his life a living hell for himself and for Paro.

that is GH's concept of dark hero buddy , rudra was never meant to be understanding , one moment of kindness he will go back into the shell

He seriously has to move on. It's time for him to move on before he loses his Paro. I think Paro completely understands him and its Rudra who doesn't understand himself or Paro.

couldnt agree more , he needs to move on , but that is the story , so it will take time

Originally posted by: DexterRocks

Originally posted by: KushiKumarising

I understood one thing after reading some of the posts today.

Whatever Paro does, some of members will always find fault in it. I mean common.

Why do you think that Paro loosing her Parents did not have a a major impact on Paro. Even though she is surrounded with good people you think she might have forgot her parents or she is not missing her parent. Rudra atleast has her dad.

I think being a village girl Paro is more matured and she knows that hanging on to things which makes your life miserable doesn't bring you any peace.

Rudra on the other hand who got BSD training is still clinging to the past and making his life a living hell for himself and for Paro.

He seriously has to move on. It's time for him to move on before he loses his Paro. I think Paro completely understands him and its Rudra who doesn't understand himself or Paro.

Originally posted by: ttt1

two people one who want the relationship to work , other who doesn't

logically the one who wants the realtionship would take up the understanding part right

saying that this is purely from a story POV , if it is real life , i cant imagine a guy like rudra or a girl like paro

hey dexterrocks 😊