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-Sush-

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hi guys...a short post for today...

So we have all had our share of being CLUELESS...I certainly have had my share...and you only have to look at my thread from yesterday to see the CLUELESS#1, CLUELESS #2, and CLUELESS #3 trio...Sush, Shweta and Sprirt sa...😆

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3991376

But ...the biggest CLUELESS person in the entire world...is our very own Rudra Banna sa...😲

He has no clue about what Paros feels, why does she do what she does, what ticks her,...NOTHING!!!

Here we were, expecting him to be so tuned in intuitively that he finds out just by looking at her in one moment ...that she is in pain...BUT...he gets none of that...NADA!! In fact his radar is so blank that he gets angry at her for taking off her bangles...how dare she? The bangles are his...he put them on...didn't she say she wanted it...? So what's the issue now?

He gets even more upset when Paro...does not have the patience to enlighten him ...and walks away...with her back towards him...He is TOALLY infuriated ...to hell with all the pretense...He screams at her...tells her he is so sick of pretending...of being this good hubby...He never wanted her in the first place...blah blah ...blah...

And when his truth is out in front of everyone...his face loses ...all color...OH SHIT!!! It's out in the open...his job is GONE!!!

And then Paro steps in...but I will talk about Paro in the second post...He listens to her...like he doesn't get what she is saying...This is beyond his comprehension...He is SHOCKED...STILL PROCESSING!!!

And when the social worker declares that Paro loves him more than anything...and asks him if he wants the marriage...all he can muster is a feeble acknowledgement...

After the social worker is gone...He feels totally AWKWARD...doesn't know how to deal with the new reality...escapes...goes to Singh Sir and asks him ...if he can report back to duty...

But Singh sir has other plans for him...he is invited to the ball...in honor of his 25th anniversary...One can never refuse a CEOs wife in the army...not done...he has no choice but to agree...

BUT he is totally at loss at how to deal with this new situation...taking Paro around to the ball as his wife? He never contemplated that...

He tells her awkwardly...Aman is a fool...she shouldn't go...

The Major is now facing a battle...he has no clue how to fight...

Creation credit: Parvati Rangrasia FB page!

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-Sush-

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Posted: 11 years ago

Posting on Paro

Paro was as determined...as clear as ever...but today...she became more real...by saying...she is not the mood to explain to Rudy what he does not understand...and probably won't understand even if she tried to explain..

Then when he says all those hurtful words...to her...thinking nothing about her feelings...she does give it back...saying...and what about my feelings? Don't you think it hurts me to hear everytime you say ...how much you don't want to be married to me? Way to go Parobaisa!👏

Her point about people looking at the same thing from different perspectives and taking different meaning of it...was a sentence out of our posts...so it seemed...😆

The way she talked to Damyanti was AWESOME!! The way she put everything in context was BRILLIANT!!! Who would have thought...A girl would acknowledge and own up her feelings ...honestly and without shyness or fear...with confidence...isn't she more modern than most women who never have the confidence to do that?

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-Sush-

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Posted: 11 years ago

Keeping one for SW and Aman...

Aman is so CUTE!!! ❤️ He actually called Paro ...and told her about the ball...what a cutie pie...!!! And he called her BHABHI! He is the Nanhe...even better...So glad he will be at the ball to help his bhabhi...😳

Damyanti impressed me today...she took command of the situation...recognizing Paros character and Rudra's ...in such a short period of time...she also recognized KCM. ...for who she is and the games she was playing...

Specially loved what she told Rudy about Paro, about his anger, and about love...and then she blessed them...

Also loved that she told Paro to come to her if she EVER needs any help...Thank goodness ...Paro has someone other than that useless mami...

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Tennessean

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hi Sush,

It is a very thoughtful post. These are some of my thoughts. Sorry for posting so late today.😳

1) Major was clueless on some of the parts but when he came back from the office he seemed to be very subdued. He is having various mood swings lately and as the senior lady pointed out that he needs anger control. Also, he doesn't like being ignored. 😛Man, he went ballistic when Bai Sa ignored him and walked away. And he said a faint "yes" today. Well, it has to start from somewhere and may be this is just the beginning point.😛

2) Paro Bai Sa took control of the whole situation today.👏 I loved how she explained to the social worker about her life, her love and about Major.👏 She also talked about everybody having different perspectives and she just drilled this fact into the senior lady's head. Also, she said that she stood on one leg to prove her love and Major never expected anything in return. It was amazing the way she was hurling those bouncers one by one in front of the SW. Mission accomplished.⭐️

3) Maithili seems to have shared the juice of wisdom with the senior lady.😛 Today, the senior lady told Major about understanding the depth of Paro Bai Sa's love, and also saying that she is strong willed. She also told KCM to be the pacifier in case something happens. From where did she get so much knowledge in one night?😛

4) Maithili is, has and will be the greatest supporter of Bai Sa and I hope she picks a good outfit for Bai Sa.😛

5) Aman Sa deserves a big round of applause for sending the message to Bai Sa. 👏 Aman Bai Sa- you are right. Girls need time in coordinating things.😛

6) Parud moment- There was an awkward moment and also when Bai Sa was giving her defenses, Major was looking straight at her.😛 Yes, he is going to get his job back because Paro Bai Sa spoke the truth and nailed it today. What a support from a woman, which is one thing he has missed all his life.

I thought truth would be a good word for an acrostic today.

T- Tremendous composure (Paro Bai Sa had it while telling the truth.)👏
R- Razor sharp( she nailed it today)⭐️
U- Unfaultable( she was flawless today)⭐️
T- Triumphant (at the end made sure that Parud won)⭐️
H- Honesty (Prevailed at the end)👏

When Paro Bai Sa is on fire, then all we can do is admire.😛

Precap- looks like they are going to the ball. Parud will have more one on one time with each other and then hopefully we will get to see Parud moments.😉

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Hope

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Sush, Lovely post. Episode was beautiful. CV's always surprise me in RR. What an ending to the track.

I was not very surprised when Rudra started to blame Paro today. I was in a way expecting him to invent new means to Blame her and he did just that. He felt hurt that she took off the bangles and he snapped. But what I loved was Paro's reaction there. She was not in a mood to explain it to him or take his nonsense and she made that clear. Which clearly hurt Rudra's ego and infuriated him more. What does he then do, follow her, grab her, shout at her and repeat the venomous 'I hate you' to hurt her. This whole scene just shows how much her each action effect him and his behavior. At that point he even forgot about his Job that was on the line. He just thought one thing..."She ignored him and turned her back to him... How could she? How dare she?" She was his center a that point not his Job 😊.

I was nervous and biting my nails as the ladies saw Rudra's viswaroop, was worried for him and also cursing him for making all Paro's efforts go to waste. But Paro baisa again comes to his rescue. Today is a perfect example to show why I LOVE Paro so much. She was as always straight forward. Even her explanation was BRILLIANT... It just left me in an Awww once again... How sweetly she says, "I wanted this marriage. I know what I want and I am happy where I am. I got something which I always wanted. There is lot of love in this relationship." The last sentence made me love her more than ever. Her words as she talked about Rudra's anger were so beautiful. Her words touched my heart so deeply. Paro is a beauty inside and out. Like you said Sush, Paro today felt more modern than many women. She didn't lie anywhere, she just said the truth... about her Rudra being her protector, him being her love and her everything.

I totally liked Damayanthi today. She was perfect with her dialogues... Her sentence about Paro being strong and deeply in love with him touched me so much. At least this lady understood our Paro where Rudra is so clueless. Her dialogue regarding anger and how it hurt people was apt for our major saab 👏. Rudra badly needed someone to say that to him. His rude words towards Paro are very hurtful .

The awkwardness between the duo after the mahila encounter was fascinating. How sweet of Aman to call Paro and inform about the upcoming Ball. Aman ji 🤗 And he calls her "Bhabi" ❤️😳.

Maithili is a best sister Paro can have 👍🏼. She sweetly brushes Paros insecurities and assures her that Rudra will take her. And as Rudra enters the room she excuses herself and before leaving smartly calls to Paro loudly to decide on the jewellery ... Also her smile when Paro was talking to the mahila's showed her love for Paro 😃.

It was hilarious how Mr.Singh was surprised when Rudra infrmed him about the positive review. He was like, That lady let you off hook this fast, how did this miracle happen? Definitely not due to you, it must have been due to Paro...😆 Mr.Singh sa, all I can say is you know Major saab very well.

And Paro's expressions in the last scene. I felt soo bad for her. She was looking forward for it and he just poured water on her dreams yet again. But at least I am very happy with the precap... Can't wait for next week... Rudra and Mohini face off and the Ball... I am already loving it...😛

P.S.. Sush, thank you for appreciating my writing yesterday. It means a lot coming from you...😃

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Jasmin

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Posted: 11 years ago

Hiya sush how damn awkward wer dey both after dat social worker scene! 😆 both lost for words fumbling around!

Aman calls paro, Bhabi how cute <3

I'm going to miss divyanti! Her and rudra sizzled! Lol! Every time I look at my gif I laugh! 😆

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-Shwets-

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Posted: 11 years ago

What an apt title Sush 😆

"As usual, there is a great woman behind every idiot."

John Lennon

Thank You CV's for not dragging this track into next week .

Rudra was dismayed Paro took the bangles off, and later agitated when Paro without giving an explanation walked away . Jub Rudradev tandav pe uttar aate hai then there is no stopping ...repercussion we all witnessed .

"I define myself by helping others. This is what I do.
Those people who want me to abandon my husband are asking me to put myself first and to judge him. The poor man has been judged unfairly by others. Why would I abandon him in his greatest need?"

Deirdre -Elizabeth Parker

Paro spoke collectedly ,truthfully , conspicuously ...her message was received positively by the SW's . SW giving a earful to Rudra was no surprise , I loved the contend what she conveyed . Majorsa got away with a little slap on the wrist .

First time I have seen a FL confessing her love in front of the entire family , well done Paro bhaisa .

Can I give a hug to Aman ...how sweet of him to apprise Paro of the upcoming " BAAL "

Another hug to Mythali for always supporting Paro .

Majorsa was cornered by the boss to attend the Ball / celebration. Majorsa has no confidence in himself being alone with a Khoobsurat aurat . Paro reduces Majorsa burden by refusing to go .

Looking at the pre cap KCM will get Rudra dose ...Major will not trust KCM toh Paro chali " Baal " Ko , can't wait .

A request to the CV's don't want to see Paro wear the heavy Lehenga Mythali offered . Humko chiffon saree mangta ...at the " BAAL " want to see Majorsa drooling 😆

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spirit

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Sorry, took me longer than expected to get back here. My ipad died on me so had to fix that first.. Thanks for posting. You can take a break when its not as inspiring, and come back refreshed!! May be its these fillersThis week has been that sort of a week.

Back to the episode. Let me start with what I have been joking about this entire week, and today when Paro drew that circle to explain her point of view. Followed up by what the senior social worker, D said to explain..it still felt like she was addressing the IF junta...😆

Points to note about the episode in general.

Rudra obviously realized that something was amiss with Paro but he failed to figure out what and basically misconstrued her intentions due to his own deep rooted insecurities and the he did what he does best, lash out saying things that are starting to sound repetitive and made little sense. Never mind the SW might hear and he might lose the job he was working so hard to save...how dare she walk away from me!!

His anger will be his worst enemy someday if it isn't already!

Rudra's almost forced 'yes' to the marriage question, was it convincing? Was it honest and heartfelt as Paro's truth that saved him and his job?? Thats what I liked about how they concluded this track, with truth. It was nice...and the social worker understood exactly where Paro stood. She walks away, hoping that Rudra sees, understands, acknowledges and then treasures what he has before its too late, for their sake, for Paro.

The social worker D's parting words to Rudra and Mohini was a nice touch. Pity both of them wont be thinking too much about that for now, not till something major happens which will force them to go back...

And her words to Paro, if ever the need arises you can count on me. Will there come such a time? methinks it will!

Lastly, the Baal. Will they be kind enough and give us a Baal Dance?? Edit - on second reading, this just reads so wrong...😆🤣

And something has been playing on my mind since they brought up Jaipur, will Paro get a clue or better yet, stumble upon Nandini there?

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Posted: 11 years ago

I went to see 2 states.. So my mind was more in the movie than Rr.. Yesterday... What I could only think is they are looking too much to this forum for clues... So there is a definite change in their story..

I really don't know what twist the story will take.. Yes paro saved rudra... Rudra did not understand paro..

Thankfully the SW track wrapped up with a rap on the knuckles to Rudra...

I had mentioned that paro should get entry in the army club .. Because armay families are very social and balls and pageants..are a part of their lives...so we should get to see some of Paros social life with major.. How she adjusts.. How major adjusts to having a missus attached to him..what else cN happen in jaipur..?

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Lipstickqueen

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Posted: 11 years ago

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Hey Sush,

Guess I'm the only one without a busy evening for a change :) Love days off! Anyway thanks for posting because I wanted to write about this particular episode.

I really love, love, loved it. Paro was fantastic! She was so clear about what she wanted and how she felt that there can never be any doubt how much she loves Rudra. I have never seen a heroine on a desi soap stand up for herself and her feelings and beliefs the way she did today and Rudy boy owes her more than he can ever repay. She has saved Rudra from a lifetime of bitterness and hate. Rudra doesn't see it yet and as the SW mentioned he can't understand the depth of love that she has for him. The day he realizes how much she loves him he will be so very sorry for the pain he has caused her through his harsh words and anger.

I liked how Rudra listened to the SW (sorry forgot her name) when she was telling him that things said in anger can never be taken back and words can do much damage. Rudra doesn't realize this but I hope he really heard what the SW was saying because he will never be able undue the damage he causes. Paro loves him and will forgive him a tremendous amount but I'm really hoping that Rudra learns and learns quickly.

I'm hoping on Monday Rudra gives it to KCM - the precap has me hopeful as does the ball that Aman called Paro about.

Edited by habs - 11 years ago