Hey Rup...my post would have been incomplete without comments from you. You and me share that kind of an equation where we agree to disagree yet agree in our disagreements (OK even I didn't understand that 😆)Originally posted by: Rupunzale
Hi Eve...Wonderful post dear...but I am sorry I don't agree. He is an abuser and has been from the time of the interrogation...it eases sometimes and erupts back...it's manipulation at its best..the worst fact is that he has increased his physical proximity with her which is considered molestation and to a degree of sexual harassment and I have no qualms in admitting that I truly hate Rudra's character. He not only needs to be court marshaled but charged with abusing a suspect...I did write a letter to the channel yesterday and have asked them about the glorification of abuse...I also asked them about the military laws of BSF which Mr Tiwari has so aptly admitted in portraying as BSD...how far will an officer go get coerce information/ submission from a helpless suspect or witness? Is raping a woman suspect acceptable as a form of interrogation or gathering information? In my profession that is what Rudra is being doing... Psychologically raping her little by little until she completely breaks down...and all in the name of patriotism/border security. I hope I get the answers soon.
What is abuse? Psychological abuseAny act, including confinement, isolation, verbal assault, humiliation, intimidation, infantilization, or any other treatment which may diminish the sense of identity, dignity, and self-worth.
This is sometimes called emotional abuse. Some researchers refer to it by formal terms such as "chronic verbal aggression".
Psychological abuse can make the person feel "less of a person". It diminishes the person's sense of identity, dignity, and self-worth. Abused people often find that psychological or emotional abuse is the most hurtful form of abuse.
Psychological abuse may make a person fearful or cause the person mental anguish.
This is what abuse is in psychological terms.
Has Rudra being doing this to Paro...Yes, he is. Is he an abuser ? Yes, he is.
You and I come a long way Eve...in the past we have not always agreed but have always had mutual respect and admiration...that will never change for me😊...but I am afraid I cannot agree with you on this. I have seen what abused is too close to not recognize it. You know I am a romantic at heart and have waited for their lovestory even after all the horrific interrogation...but I am afraid I can't accept him as Paro's better half anymore. This was suppose to be a love story and I never had a problem with pain or separation in a lovestory as you have aptly mentioned ...but this is not the case here...it's abuse and I have zero tolerance for that.
Rudra was abandoned by his mother...yes, he had a difficult childhood and that is extremely unfortunate...but there are thousands of children in the world growing up without parents...without a steady home but does that give them the right to be selfish and hurt others...No. It does not absolve him of his behavior towards Paro.
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