Did Paro REALLY have to go back?? - Page 4

Originally posted by: kutkut12

I know that normally people would say that Paro should have run away when she had an opportunity but we have to understand her mental state in this case.

Paro saw Rudra following her. She knew that his plan was to catch her and her mamisa as soon as she recognises PAro. So she could not go to her mamisa for her safety. She could not go to Thakursa for the same reason.

An educated girl would have summoned up enough courage to run away but a village girl like her, who had not ventured outside her village would find it very difficult to go to an unknown place. Let's not forget that she does not even have money. She is innocent but she is not a child so she must understand that many bad things can happen to an unprotected girl who does not have money and education. Where can she go and what can she do? Running away to an unknown place is not easy.So she goes to the only other place she is familiar with. Even if it means going back to him because staying with him for so long must have made her realize that even if he is cruel to her at least her virtue was safe with him. Afterall she was totally in his power and he could have done anything to her if he wanted but he did not.

Secondly, she also knew that he won't rest till he finds her. So she thought that it is better to go back and face him and prove her innocence and not try to run because there will always be this fear of being caught. With his experience of the world and her inexperience, the probability of him finding her were more than her probability of successfully running away to a safe place.

Originally posted by: princessunara

well i get what u mean to say.. but i will copy paste what i said to 2 of my friends while we were discussing this in FB..

For me what Paro did made total sense. She is like a 2 year old left in the middle of a strange road! She doesn' t know how to separate left from right and thus she went to the only familiar place she knew other than her home. PLUS there were 2 more reasons. She was broke other than for the pocket change Rudra gave her and she is not educated to know she can survive somehow. Again the 2 year old left in the middle of nowhere situation. She will soon know better to fend for herself, but not yet.
But above all else i think she wanted to prove a point to Rudra. She was heart sick and broken after hearing what he did. That he never intended for her to go home and it broke her all over again. AND it made her furious too at him for playing with her, so she went back to prove a point too. That there was no way in hell that he will get to use her to hurt her loved ones.

Finally - the man threatened that if she killed herself he will kill all the people she loved, and what was to tell that the same wouldn't have been implemented by him had she disappeared. He might not have of course, BUT would she be willing to take that risk? I don't think so, that she would have risked her mamisa.

But her returning to him meant she will know before he hurt her loved ones..n better yet he would turn to her, to hurt her rather than hurt them.

So in all Paro being who she is, it made total sense for her

to go.

Originally posted by: princessunara

yup im impressed at how much courage Paro has shown and im all for character growth.i also hate the same cat and mouse game all the time but isn't it also rather repetitive that the gal always waits for the guy to realise his mistakes,how much he wronged her and when he comes grovelling for an apology she denies him.but if I may make a prediction based on my very little knowledge about tv serials,we all know when the time comes for Rudra to apologise(which I hope won't be for another few hundred episodes) our Paro will forgive him coz by then she will be in love with Rudra.😛😉