Did Paro REALLY have to go back??

First Previous

Page

Next Last

Frequent Posters

libran90

@libran90

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

#21

Nope...i seriously doubt that they will show any kind of 'marriage' track early in the show...His father claims that Paro is his daughter-in-law,and he will have no choice but to go along with it,cos his chief has already told him that from now onwards he will get no help from BSD for dealing with Paro,he is on his own...

As far as Paro returning to Rudra...she did not want her mami to get caught knowing Rudra's plan...and she could not go anywhere else,as she does not know any other place...so instead of running...she thought lets face him...she is still petrified of him,but she still has gathered courage to face him...

Quote

Sunara

@princessunara

Trailblazer

+ 8

Posted: 11 years ago

#22

well i get what u mean to say.. but i will copy paste what i said to 2 of my friends while we were discussing this in FB..

For me what Paro did made total sense. She is like a 2 year old left in the middle of a strange road! She doesn' t know how to separate left from right and thus she went to the only familiar place she knew other than her home. PLUS there were 2 more reasons. She was broke other than for the pocket change Rudra gave her and she is not educated to know she can survive somehow. Again the 2 year old left in the middle of nowhere situation. She will soon know better to fend for herself, but not yet.
But above all else i think she wanted to prove a point to Rudra. She was heart sick and broken after hearing what he did. That he never intended for her to go home and it broke her all over again. AND it made her furious too at him for playing with her, so she went back to prove a point too. That there was no way in hell that he will get to use her to hurt her loved ones.

Finally - the man threatened that if she killed herself he will kill all the people she loved, and what was to tell that the same wouldn't have been implemented by him had she disappeared. He might not have of course, BUT would she be willing to take that risk? I don't think so, that she would have risked her mamisa.

But her returning to him meant she will know before he hurt her loved ones..n better yet he would turn to her, to hurt her rather than hurt them.

So in all Paro being who she is, it made total sense for her to go.

Quote

Looks like you are new here. Register for free, learn and contribute.

Sunara

@princessunara

Trailblazer

+ 8

Posted: 11 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: squivi
I'm actually glad she came back to Rudra on her own terms. If she continued to hide, he'd find her and then dragged her back, she would continue to try to escape! That would be boring, repetitive and show little to no character growth for both of them. Here, she realized that there's no point in fighting him by running, but instead by facing and challenging him.
She plans to destroy him from within. She's put her hopes in him to become a human being rather than a jallad, and when he finally realizes his errors, she will deny him of any forgiveness. She's facing her major fear - BSD - head on. It shows how much she has changed within a few days (timeline wise) and how she, and even he, will continue to.

very very well said!! she came back on her own terms!! he no longer has ANYTHING to take away from her. and as they say, the one who has nothing more to lose will fe fearless..n that is the point Paro is in.

There has been such tremendous character growth within Paro in such a short time that its fascinating! rudra is still the same person..but with this new equation of her being back like this Rudra's character growth will also happen!

Quote

barsana

@barsana

Inactive

Posted: 11 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: fashionprincess
You're right - She could have gone somewhere else , could have taken Tejawat's protection or committed suicide at the most !!
But maybe Paro is actually a little dumb or a little too innocent , which is why she came back 😆 !
On a serious note, I guess because she underwent serious mental and some physical torture, she wasn't in a state to think very clearly.

my dear if paro had committed suicide RR would have been 1 1/2 mnths wonder...😕

Quote

barsana

@barsana

Inactive

Posted: 11 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: kutkut12
I know that normally people would say that Paro should have run away when she had an opportunity but we have to understand her mental state in this case.
Paro saw Rudra following her. She knew that his plan was to catch her and her mamisa as soon as she recognises PAro. So she could not go to her mamisa for her safety. She could not go to Thakursa for the same reason.

An educated girl would have summoned up enough courage to run away but a village girl like her, who had not ventured outside her village would find it very difficult to go to an unknown place. Let's not forget that she does not even have money. She is innocent but she is not a child so she must understand that many bad things can happen to an unprotected girl who does not have money and education. Where can she go and what can she do? Running away to an unknown place is not easy.So she goes to the only other place she is familiar with. Even if it means going back to him because staying with him for so long must have made her realize that even if he is cruel to her at least her virtue was safe with him. Afterall she was totally in his power and he could have done anything to her if he wanted but he did not.

Secondly, she also knew that he won't rest till he finds her. So she thought that it is better to go back and face him and prove her innocence and not try to run because there will always be this fear of being caught. With his experience of the world and her inexperience, the probability of him finding her were more than her probability of successfully running away to a safe place.

very logical & practical analysis

Quote

Vimal M

@VIMAL.SM

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: kutkut12
I know that normally people would say that Paro should have run away when she had an opportunity but we have to understand her mental state in this case.
Paro saw Rudra following her. She knew that his plan was to catch her and her mamisa as soon as she recognises PAro. So she could not go to her mamisa for her safety. She could not go to Thakursa for the same reason.

An educated girl would have summoned up enough courage to run away but a village girl like her, who had not ventured outside her village would find it very difficult to go to an unknown place. Let's not forget that she does not even have money. She is innocent but she is not a child so she must understand that many bad things can happen to an unprotected girl who does not have money and education. Where can she go and what can she do? Running away to an unknown place is not easy.So she goes to the only other place she is familiar with. Even if it means going back to him because staying with him for so long must have made her realize that even if he is cruel to her at least her virtue was safe with him. Afterall she was totally in his power and he could have done anything to her if he wanted but he did not.

Secondly, she also knew that he won't rest till he finds her. So she thought that it is better to go back and face him and prove her innocence and not try to run because there will always be this fear of being caught. With his experience of the world and her inexperience, the probability of him finding her were more than her probability of successfully running away to a safe place.

Completely second you . I also thought the same she in not educated and does not know other than her village and Rudra's place . She does not have any choice other than going to Rudra's place even she calls him Jallad . Also Rudra will not rest until he finds her.

Edited by VIMAL89 - 11 years ago

Quote

HemaG

@HemaG

Trailblazer

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: vari3241
She will torture him later...wen rudra falls in love with her..she will refuse to meet him
I think thats her plan😊

😆

ahhh...nice view...

Quote

Vimal M

@VIMAL.SM

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

#28

I also wanted Paro to go somewhere not back to Rudra. But the circumstances mad Paro to return back to Rudra. Paro was brought up in such way that she does not know any other place then her village and Rudra's house . If she was educated she could stand on her own leg finding a job. But she is not educated and does not had the money to go to other place and live alone .So she had to come back to Rudra's home.

But I would love to see CV's showing the growth of Paro . From a normal girl to strong independent girl and her journey would take time .CV's laid the first foundation by making Paro say to Rudra she is ready for the war.Slowly CV's will make her strong independent women.

Quote

jaya100

@jaya100

Rocker

+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

#29

Paro really had no other option simply because she believes the BSD is evil. She knows that Rudra letting her go was a trap and she remembers his words that if she does the wrong thing then her family and village will pay for that mistake with their lives...to her mind that's not an idle threat. She actually took a very brave step in going back to Rudra with the intent of proving herself innocent because that would be the only way she could go back home without causing problems for anyone.

I'm glad that she came back and it wasn't Rudra capturing her and bringing her back firstly because that is cliche and secondly because even though she feels her hands are tied she is essentially coming back on her own terms with a goal in mind to prove her innocence.