A pair of shoes & the destruction of Khanak!!! - Page 2

yaa..i also think that this is luv...when she saw that he is tired, she did that...and Shaan also replies that quite well wid luv, and tells that he might do the same.....i think there is nothinh wrong wid puttoff the shoe...

and Aditee..i completely agree wid u wid what is going in the mind of Cvs regarding YM and i m quite sure they have also better plans 4 her regarding her character KHanak.....so dont be disappointed....

I am disappointed with this scene. Because it is not in keeping with the image of Khanak in RBO.

About the debate on whether removing shoes is demeaning, well, we should ask all the men we know why they won't do it if it is not demeaning. We all know how in our culture/society, some social groups have been considered lower in hierarchy precisely because it is considered their job to remove shoes for people believed to be higher to them (caste/class).

That's why a naukar will remove a master's shoes, but a master will not remove naukar's shoes.

That's why when people beg for forgiveness, in our society, they fall at someone's feet. Because the foot is the lowest part in our body and one cannot go any lower. It's symbolically saying, 'I submit to you. I cannot express my sorry more.'

Now , coming to the scene itself, I don't think for a moment that the CVs wanted to show Khanak as a slave or servant of Shantanu. So why show this scene? The clue is in what she said, 'husband comes home tired. wife shld give him comfort'... let us not even get into whose mothers do it and whose don't. But wud Khanak talk like this? thats the most important point. The Khanak we know is not the type to say such lines.

You will all remember how during the ILU sequence Khanak said husbands make rules and wives follow them. We were all aghast and the CVs actually came and apologised saying it had come out wrongly in editing or direction.

Let us hope some such thing has happened. Simply cannot imagine Yash ji and Swapna ji seeing those lines and saying 'yes'.

Gaayu,

i dont find anything wrong in this episode...............................this just way of showing love to each other................i mean no ego clashes.................and shaan also replied her not to do such stuff................i find it very sweet❤️

Originally posted by: shanakrocks

sorry not to hurt you aditee....why this scene is taken as a ego clash between male and female....just see the love and caring attitude that women has for her husband....why everything shd be taken as why shd girls do that why not men.....

there are really ppl who still don have any problem in doing these things and necessarily it may not give as bad image as you are describing.....

is helping a tired husband shd be connected with women rights or ego.....khanak is a strong girl and by what means trying to helping out shaan means coming down from her strong girl image....

I want to know how many "loving" wives would do this for their unemployed bum of a hubby who happens to return from his FIRST day of real work, which happens to be SINGING

I want to know how many middle class or lower middle class girls in India today who happen to have a bum for a hubby like Shaan would gladly do this.............

Originally posted by: tvrasika

I am disappointed with this scene. Because it is not in keeping with the image of Khanak in RBO.

About the debate on whether removing shoes is demeaning, well, we should ask all the men we know why they won't do it if it is not demeaning. We all know how in our culture/society, some social groups have been considered lower in hierarchy precisely because it is considered their job to remove shoes for people believed to be higher to them (caste/class).

That's why a naukar will remove a master's shoes, but a master will not remove naukar's shoes.

That's why when people beg for forgiveness, in our society, they fall at someone's feet. Because the foot is the lowest part in our body and one cannot go any lower. It's symbolically saying, 'I submit to you. I cannot express my sorry more.'

Now , coming to the scene itself, I don't think for a moment that the CVs wanted to show Khanak as a slave or servant of Shantanu. So why show this scene? The clue is in what she said, 'husband comes home tired. wife shld give him comfort'... let us not even get into whose mothers do it and whose don't. But wud Khanak talk like this? thats the most important point. The Khanak we know is not the type to say such lines.

You will all remember how during the ILU sequence Khanak said husbands make rules and wives follow them. We were all aghast and the CVs actually came and apologised saying it had come out wrongly in editing or direction.

Let us hope some such thing has happened. Simply cannot imagine Yash ji and Swapna ji seeing those lines and saying 'yes'.

The Khanak from APRIL will SO NOT DO THIS!

Originally posted by: aditee

I want to know how many "loving" wives would do this for their unemployed bum of a hubby who happens to return from his FIRST day of real work, which happens to be SINGING

Shanakrocks, just because KT looks handsome, everything he does in his on -screen avatar is necessarily not palatable or awesome

This one is totally putrid and bitter!

where have i mentioned that just kt is handsome the scene is awesome...

and just a question your love for your husband is it connected with his employment?? i seriously doubt it so asking and to judge a scene i think its not a point you are married or unmarried..not all unmarried girls fantasize these things or rather do it when they go when they go for sleep..i think its your misconception on some part of girls....

@ gaayu one thing i would like to point out is that time (ghanti bajao/shaan suspicious of ehr

bringing tea etc.,)they were not physically close(no SR ) and also not

If you look at it, frm a neutral non feminist way, she is a girl frm a village, fr her it is probably okay to do this, because that is hw she was bought up, take care of ur husband and stuff.... it's her way of showing love, like an urban girls way wld be to kiss, hug, or mke coffee for him...