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Originally posted by: sshriyaa84

again nitya once u have childrena nd all that ur hubby/wife relationship becomes solid

but before that phase it i always like this most of the times..especially in the early years of marriage..

BTW arent u possessive about shaan?( i am curious if now u are not)

🤣 what? where did that come from?
nooooo! I always kid! I'm never serious about anything! LOL!! OMGGG..😆

@gotcha! see, I'm not married and I have different views about marriage and relationships. I guess I'll understand when I'm married, LOL! no hard feelings, that was a genuine doubt on my side.

dear nitya i knew u were just kidding.. and I wont be surprised if u become one of the most possessive wives once u are married. even i used to be very liberal in my views before marriage..but now all changed... ( that does not mean one has to change i am only talking of me)

@ shriya
I don't have a problem with my hubby going to his female friend's room and spending the whole night talking! Thats not the issue here. The issue is Shaan not coming back to Khanak or even wondering why Khanak is upset. He is acting like he s in some alternative planet.

@ Nitya
Don't think Khanak is insecure. Not as yet. She has no idea what the relationship is between Shaan and Sam. All she knows is that those three words, ILU, are very important and she is not familiar with friends saying that to each other.

Sam is being a bit clueless as well. Does she not know that a wife is different from a friend, however 'best' the friend is?

People, if we start asking questions like- is a friend more or less important than a spouse, can a married person not have a close friend, can a married person not spend night talking to a close friend, can a married person not disclose family problems to a close friend, etc etc, we are getting into a grey area here. The answers are not clear cut.

But there is a general idea... call it a rule if you wish... but generally speaking, if you are married, then you have some expectations from a spouse which you cannot expect from a friend. And you give something to the spouse which you never will to a friend (physical, emotional, etc). A friend is not the same as spouse. Friend can become spouse. Spouse can become a friend. But a best friend is not the same as spouse.

Forgive us married women (and men if there are any married men in this forum) for saying this again and again. We r just saying from our experience. which you blessed unmarried souls cannot question at this point of time😆

Originally posted by: -Nitya-

🤣 what? where did that come from?
nooooo! I always kid! I'm never serious about anything! LOL!! OMGGG..😆

@gotcha! see, I'm not married and I have different views about marriage and relationships. I guess I'll understand when I'm married, LOL! no hard feelings, that was a genuine doubt on my side.

Originally posted by: tvrasika

@ shriya
I don't have a problem with my hubby going to his female friend's room and spending the whole night talking! Thats not the issue here. The issue is Shaan not coming back to Khanak or even wondering why Khanak is upset. He is acting like he s in some alternative planet.

@ Nitya
Don't think Khanak is insecure. Not as yet. She has no idea what the relationship is between Shaan and Sam. All she knows is that those three words, ILU, are very important and she is not familiar with friends saying that to each other.

Sam is being a bit clueless as well. Does she not know that a wife is different from a friend, however 'best' the friend is?

People, if we start asking questions like- is a friend more or less important than a spouse, can a married person not have a close friend, can a married person not spend night talking to a close friend, can a married person not disclose family problems to a close friend, etc etc, we are getting into a grey area here. The answers are not clear cut.

But there is a general idea... call it a rule if you wish... but generally speaking, if you are married, then you have some expectations from a spouse which you cannot expect from a friend. And you give something to the spouse which you never will to a friend (physical, emotional, etc). A friend is not the same as spouse. Friend can become spouse. Spouse can become a friend. But a best friend is not the same as spouse.

Forgive us married women (and men if there are any married men in this forum) for saying this again and again. We r just saying from our experience. which you blessed unmarried souls cannot question at this point of time😆

no, no..I'm not saying Khanak is wrong. and that Shaan is not wrong..that guy is a freakin' idiot, he is going to and better end up apologizing to Khanak for his actions.
I was just trying to make a point that guys and girls can be friends and that Shaan did nothing wrong by going to his friend's room at night.😆😆

hey gaayu nitya shriya n sneha
asneha i guess yr bitten by the rbo n shaank bug i c u here more n more now
gd going sweety b like me only now😆


so sat is one hour special hope u guys read it



i took yesterdays epi as a fun lighht comedy wid mild jealousy n i found it to b nothing serious at all
khanak has seen much tougher situations fr shaan or cause of shaan
she was just funnily jealous shaan shaan can never evr sideline her fr sure

at present sam has not accepted khanak and she will come to know soon that khanak is the best for shaan...we have to just wait.....in all this khanak cannot be blamed as she is right......no wife would accept a gal like sam like the way she spoke.....once khanak and sam become friends everything that is happening now will change.....just wait and watch we have to give time for sam........our khanak is always best...and coming to shaan he should definetly say sry to khanak.......and that will happen today.....

Hehe... Shriya, my husband does not have close female friends, which he is extremely sad about, LOL... but I really wud not have a problem. But I wud ask who the friend is, how they came to know each other and if they have not met in 5-10 yrs, sure they must hav lots to catch up on. I wont mind at all... whether newly married or long married. Cant worry abt small things like that.

But if he left the room bcos i played a CD, then he is out of the room for the next 1 yr!😆

Have never been possessive by nature. except, am not fond of Bipasha Basu😆 Hubby goes crazy abt her and I just dont get it😆

Originally posted by: tvrasika

@ shriya
I don't have a problem with my hubby going to his female friend's room and spending the whole night talking! Thats not the issue here. The issue is Shaan not coming back to Khanak or even wondering why Khanak is upset. He is acting like he s in some alternative planet.

@ Nitya
Don't think Khanak is insecure. Not as yet. She has no idea what the relationship is between Shaan and Sam. All she knows is that those three words, ILU, are very important and she is not familiar with friends saying that to each other.

Sam is being a bit clueless as well. Does she not know that a wife is different from a friend, however 'best' the friend is?

People, if we start asking questions like- is a friend more or less important than a spouse, can a married person not have a close friend, can a married person not spend night talking to a close friend, can a married person not disclose family problems to a close friend, etc etc, we are getting into a grey area here. The answers are not clear cut.

But there is a general idea... call it a rule if you wish... but generally speaking, if you are married, then you have some expectations from a spouse which you cannot expect from a friend. And you give something to the spouse which you never will to a friend (physical, emotional, etc). A friend is not the same as spouse. Friend can become spouse. Spouse can become a friend. But a best friend is not the same as spouse.

Forgive us married women (and men if there are any married men in this forum) for saying this again and again. We r just saying from our experience. which you blessed unmarried souls cannot question at this point of time😆