How do you feel about Natasha? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Komal_Chaudhary

I Think Natasha Is Not Wrong.

Originally posted by: shockalot

Hehehe I like making discussion-heavy topics sooo I'll probably be making a ton here lol
Hi, this is a great post, to discuss
Anyways, what are your feelings towards Natasha currently? She seems to be taking this well, her reactions are very subdued - as if she's been defeated in this game of love but isn't taking any Ekta means of getting Shaan back....yet.

I feel bad for her at the moment, but I like the way Cvs are potraying her character , I'm glad that she isn't like a vamp in Ekta's soaps.
Khushboo and Madhavi are in the process of convincing her to fight for her love. If she does, do you think her actions would be justified?

I have a feeling that Khushboo and Madhavi's plan might back fire because so far Natasha has seen from her own eyes how much Shaan has changed, so I don't think she will listen to them knowing that it will hurt her more
Is she the "third wheel" in this story? Or is it actually Khanak who came as a third wheel and kind of made her own niche in Shaan's life....
I don't see that she is the 'third wheel', instead Khanak is..Natsha never gave any importance or thought to Khanak, but she trusted Shaan as she loved him so much. She never tried to fight against Khanak, instead she tried to be more diplomatic with Shaan
Do you sympathize with Natasha? Or do you feel that as a strong lady who can see that things have changed in her relationship with Shaan, she should confront him and maybe move on?
I feel sad for Natasha, because without any fault she was hurt, and ofcourse that's what destiny has for her, so she need to move ahead her life closing this chapter of her life
Thoughts? 😃
I feel that Khushboo's behaviour is also sort of acceptable, but I hope that Natasha remains positive in this show and the cv's show a different story, than Ekta's vamp styles

I have to agree with all of u with all ur comments.

Originally posted by: kubare

Shaz dear, I hope I can call you Shaz...😃Heavy dicsussion topic indeed....and it really has eben discussed so much...with so many different and varied POV's..but then thats the best thing in life and here too....😆

Hum.....I may feel sorry for her but I truly cannot sympathize or evenempathize with her. I know thre is a group of ppl who say shes been dealt a bad blow...etc by fate...but then so had Khanak...losing her husband the very next day of her marriage and even Shaan...for being the one responsible for the casue of a Man's death even though it was not intentional..but an accident which occured due to his carelessness...so all three ppl could have creied all their life bemoaning..the fact that its was not their fault...to be dealt which such cruelty by life...or by fate.

She truly is a nice human being...grantted..b ut then being nice does not make one smart does it...she loves being the victim...she is the only one to blame for her still being stuck in limbo....and not moving on. Her first bad move was moving in with her married ex-faiance cum boyfriend...The question is...if she was so sure of her love for him, would she need to take such a drastic step as moving in with him...to what keep and eye on that person and reminding that very same person of how much she loves and cares and trusts him...now that wa indeed a joke...as when one trust someone completely...one does not need to be there 24/7 to monitor him. One does not ned to tell oneself to reassure ones mind or ego..that I truly love that person and trust him. She could have given the person she loved and who claimed to love her time to deal with the issue...and then get back to her...and the time she had on her hand..she could have used it constructively to give her self a much needed breathing space to think...about her own life.

Fine we had her move out over a fight...her even leaving a letter asking that very person she loved not to follow her as she needed space to think...and time to herself...but...being the insecure person she was ..and a control freak too ...as when someoen is insecure in a relationship they tend to be control freaks too..wanting to control each and every sistuation...wanting to be the attention seeker, etc and she was...she alwasy expected Shan to grovel adn make up with her wiht flowery words etc..

The first blwo of Shan changing came when he followed his wife....his responsibilty for the remaining few months till the divorce for the business and family...her he tried to do the rght thing...then we again saw a change when instead of her making the decisio to remain friedns as she thought up...he sprang the suprise on her by beating her to it...and asking her that till his divorce is finalized they remain friends..again...losing control of the situation...thus..leaving her feeling insecure and lost again.Even after agreeing to be friends and meeting only at work...she ladns up ...in the wee hours of the morning knowing that the person she has come ot meet does not even wake up then...just to gift him a shirt???? The again we have her land up in the same place late at night ...on a call from a complete stranger... agai to what???

This shows us that she herself is her biggest enemy...she herself does not follow what she has been saying so many times to Shaan from the time he marrried...we need to give each other sape, be friends only etc.

Again after the whole confrontation an the big "I Love you Khanak" dialogue...she tells Shaan or more like request him to only talk to her when he has an answer to her question...thats does she mean anything to him in her life...and when we do hae Shaan wanting to talk to her...whats does the woman do...she cuts his calls, does not want to talk or even face him...becasue again her insecurities and wanting to be in control are taking over ..she knows what she will hear and is stpping the inevitable from happening...that is lettin go and moving on with her own life...letting go of the past with dignity.

The talk that she had with Madhvi adn Khusboo was good...seh knows in her heart and nind that Shaan has completely cahnged...but then again she listens to the feeders of her insecurites and we ahve her in the coming up talking to Shaan on helping him with a project...why not talk to him about the main thing she wanted answers too...and then work on being friends or even collegues as she herself said she wont talk to him till her questions were answered.

Thus can one sympathize or even empathize with a person who is her won enemy and hell bent on destroying herself...by losing her own self respect and dignity???

One can only feel sorry for some time..but when a person keeps doing the same thing again and again....then the time to feel sorry is out and making her face her fears and reality is in..she really needs time out to herself to think in peace away from her past...about her future as life doesnot end...with one cruel blow from it..but makes us more stronger after going through it pain and all to face many more such situations in life with inner strength and dignity...and a smile on ones lip and heart...as they say Pain can only make you stronger ...but then depends on the person itself...what they chose to do..in life...remain in the pain and be a victim..or move on and live life.

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Oh my God...I have rambled indeed....hope my ramblings made sense.

Cant agree with you here.....its not like Shaan had ditched her for khanak or something...she saw his marriage as an accident due to unavoidable circumstances. So it was natural for her to carry on a relationship with shaan....NOT HER FAULT.😊

as per as moving in with her boyfriend goes....well i'lls ay that you cannot trust someone "100%" no matter how much you love him/her..... and the present develeopments show that Natasha was RIGHT not to trust Shaan.

Originally posted by: sshriyaa84

I have to agree with all of u with all ur comments.

but i also feel somewhere deep in her heart natasha has got a bit of negativity hidden.,we all saw how khanak helped her when she had a boil on her had by applying turmeric etc.,even though it was really a snall matter t still she could have appreciated it.,more openly.

She did not.So somewhere she is jealous of khanak., and now even more now since she is becoming the apple of shaan's eyes.,

Hence i think she may turn slightly negative(meaningthat indirectly she maystart to sabotage shanak's relationship,)

she is not so much goody good stuff like many people think she has her won flaws and the most important aspect that i dislike about her is her wavering mind.

she just gets carried away with people saying things around like the other day she came to shaan's house merely at hetal's call hetal whom she hardly ever knew.

she also has money power and i won't wonder if she joins hands with BD,SD,hetal mangal on spoiling shanak's budding romance

.She is not after all not l that large hearted,helping.simple and innocent like khanak.

These are my views and no offence meant.

what do you mean? Of COURSE she should be jealous of Khanak...wouldnt you?

Originally posted by: shockalot

Hehehe I like making discussion-heavy topics sooo I'll probably be making a ton here lol

Fantastic topic Shazia😊.....Don't worry we all have a variety of feelings regarding Natasha and her behaviour....But it's safe to say we all feel sorry for her....Wish she moves on and finds love with someone esle...

Anyways, what are your feelings towards Natasha currently? She seems to be taking this well, her reactions are very subdued - as if she's been defeated in this game of love but isn't taking any Ekta means of getting Shaan back....yet.

Up until last Friday, she was being stubborn and a little defeatist, because she refused to listen to reason or speak to ShaNak....But now she has been brainwashed by SD&DB so she will fight back and try to influence Shaan....But all this will be in a normal way and she will behave as if her realtionship with Shaan can still be saved....Not in a melodramatic Ekta way...One thing I have noticed about Natasha is her honesty in all matters....She is not one to hide her feelings....Self control is a seperate issue

Khushboo and Madhavi are in the process of convincing her to fight for her love. If she does, do you think her actions would be justified?

I think she needs to speak to Shaan and they have a honest discussion....She asked Shaan for answers now is the opertunity for her to listen to him....

Is she the "third wheel" in this story? Or is it actually Khanak who came as a third wheel and kind of made her own niche in Shaan's life....

I don't thinbk she is the third wheel, but nether is Khanak.....It is not as simple as that.....

Do you sympathize with Natasha? Or do you feel that as a strong lady who can see that things have changed in her relationship with Shaan, she should confront him and maybe move on?

As I have said before....She needs to stop taking advice from others and speak to Shaan....Then she needs to graciously move on, because you can't force some to love you....I like her sense in knowing that Shaan's feelings have changed, I want to see her being strong and handling that change....But I know it will be painful for her and I wish she finds love again.......

Thoughts? 😃

Originally posted by: sayali_babes

Cant agree with you here.....its not like Shaan had ditched her for khanak or something...she saw his marriage as an accident due to unavoidable circumstances. So it was natural for her to carry on a relationship with shaan....NOT HER FAULT.😊

Dear no one is saying things are her fault...what everhas happened till now..is no ones fault..thats life...things happen and things and ppl change. Her carrying on a relationship with Shaan after his marriage was wrong ..in my opinion...but then everyone thinks different..you may think its ok for a woman to still have a relationship with a married man...no matter the Man is getting a divorce or...etc...for me ...until he's married..having a relationship with him is wrong..let him be single again...then carry on..if you want.

as per as moving in with her boyfriend goes....well i'lls ay that you cannot trust someone "100%"

True...but can't you trust the person you so call love????? What is love then??? If not based on trust ??? A founding stone of any relationship is trust.

no matter how much you love him/her..... and the present develeopments show that Natasha was RIGHT not to trust Shaan.

Dear thats the thing she did not trust him from day 1...when did she show trust in him?????

Originally posted by: kubare

Underlined 1:

I think youre conveniently letting it pass the fact that ShaNak's marriage was a FALSE one. Regardless of what purists might say, a marriage has no value if the two people involved mean nothing to each other...Marriage cannot be forced upon anyone....ShaNaks marriage was one of majburi, therefore ethically invalid. However, different people think differently....if you think a person should be forced to remain in a marriage even AGAINST his/her wishes....JUST BECAUSE he has taken the rituals...then its your opinion. To my mind, marriage is not a combination of physical pheras and sindoor.😃

Underlined 2:

No you cannot trust anyone 100%...human beings are not gods...they make mistakes and slips. Trust is important...but not BLIND TRUST.😛

Coming to the final point of your post:

Well if you say she did not EVER show any trust in him...then i'll say she was RIGHT. She was RIGHT not to trust him....i mean just look at how he started to "fall in love" with Khanak within just two months of their marriage....forgetting his relationship with Natasha COMPLETELY....would you say now that Natasha should've trusted him? She was right....as we're seeing it now.

Thats my two cents ... . Thanks anyway for the welcome.😊