How do you feel about Natasha?

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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hehehe I like making discussion-heavy topics sooo I'll probably be making a ton here lol

Anyways, what are your feelings towards Natasha currently? She seems to be taking this well, her reactions are very subdued - as if she's been defeated in this game of love but isn't taking any Ekta means of getting Shaan back....yet.

Khushboo and Madhavi are in the process of convincing her to fight for her love. If she does, do you think her actions would be justified?

Is she the "third wheel" in this story? Or is it actually Khanak who came as a third wheel and kind of made her own niche in Shaan's life....

Do you sympathize with Natasha? Or do you feel that as a strong lady who can see that things have changed in her relationship with Shaan, she should confront him and maybe move on?

Thoughts? 😃


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Posted: 15 years ago
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lol Shaz, discussing heavy topics is quite interesting.😉

I am actually liking the way the CVs are potraying Natasha. She is intelligent modern woman (not like Khushboo and Madhvi😡) and she now understands that Shaan is changing.

No, Natasha is not the third wheel, Khanak came in between her and Shaan. But Natasha never cared about Khanak, Khanak was a outsider and Natasha really was never in a mood to fight with an outsider just like other Ekta serial girls.

She just wanted to believe her love "Shaan". But several incidents made her realize that may be Shaan's love for her was not "true love". Thus she is very very upset with Shaan.

I feel bad for Natasha but for me the best thing she can do is to be a strong lady and move on in her life. But I want her to get a sorry from Shaan as well.

Frankly speaking I don't want her to turn a vamp and join Khushboo and Madhvi like Ekta shows.

P. S.: I am telling this but I love Shaan a lot😆

Edited by missfilmy - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I dont know why but i just cant bring myself to feel sorry for Tashu,i try really hard to feel sorry for her but just dont feel it.I know that there are many Shanak fans over here who feel truly sorry for her and rightly so too,i mean, look at what she has gone through.I mean if Tashu was my best friend or sister i would probably support her(but not to run after her married boyfriend) and although she is nice,i mean painfully nice sometimes there is something a little bit off about her.Cant explain it really.At times i feel she is really practical and sensible,she doesn't enjoy and indulge in the cheap and low mentality the other Khandelwal women seem to relish but will not put her foot down out and out...like for example the other day when the 2 BD's were shamefully telling her to fight for her now married ex,she did take it pretty well in the beginning,was not in favour of it but then from the looks of it,ultimately gave in .Then when Shan tells her to keep away for a few months, to remain friends and to meet only at work,does she do that? No.She shows up at his house in the wee hours of the morning with shirts and stuff,if somebody calls her(like Hetal who she doesn't even know actually) she lands up in his house in the late hours of the night.You know what i mean right.I want to feel sorry for her,i really do,but just when i think this girl is made of a different mettle she just proves me wrong.I think what advice her dad has given her so far (although he is pathetic) is the correct advice a father has given his daughter.And as a sister,her own flesh and bood, Khushboo should be ashamed of herself.She should be helping her to move on but is leading her to a very very dark place which could be dangerous.I know many people will blame Shan and say that how could he just switch his feelings on and off like that when he was so madly in love with Tashu and if he has done that to tashu what guarantee is there that he will not do that to Khanak in the future.But Shan had to save his life.He had to do that.He made a huge mistake by killing somebody and had to face the consequences.I wouldn't say it was Tashu's falt in the beginning,coz Shan asked her for her support and companionship but now what this girl is doing ,latching on to him,even after seeing the changes in him is totally totally wrong.The least, the very least she could do is keep her distance for the next 3-4 months .Having a little respect for yourself is important for any woman and she being educated should understand that.I dont know .Tashu is just one of those women who has become a victim to a series of unfortunate events .If Tashu moves on in a respectful way then maybe i would like her character more.But for now i am kind of on the fence here.😕
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I Think Natasha Is Not Wrong.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Shaz di
i dnt noe i mean i like natasha..i feel bad for her..as poor girl the person she loves her and who once loved her back..doesnt love her back anymore it hurts a lot...i respect her character for not acting like a vamp or a drama queen..i respect her as she is very strong and she understands that Shaan has changed!
Please cvs dont turn natasha into a vamp!
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Hi Shockalot ... nice post ....
We have discussed this in the past too .... but then Natasha was in Shaan's house, so the opinions were different ...
I feel Khanak is the 3rd wheel who came in between Shaan-tashu thru a twist of fate ... And this marked a turning point in Shaan's life ... It now seems that Shaan was actually kinda "in love with the idea of being in love" ... and tashu was conviniently his SIL's sis ... Shaan's love for tashu doesn't seem too deep ...
But Tashu on the other hand really loves Shan ... and on the whole she has been quite dignified about Khanak's prescence in Shaan's life / house .....except for the few epis when they showed her living in Shaan's house and kinda behaving like his wife !!!!
Now that Natasha is getting clear signals of the change in Shaan's feelings, what I would like her to do here is have a talk with him ... let him know she realises things have changed and make a graceful exit ... this would suit her char as a strong, independent sensible girl ...
If she listens to Mad-Boo, and agrees to an engagement with Shaan and tries to woo him back ... I think she would be leaving herself open to more censure and hurt ... Its certain that Shaan's is going all out to woo Khanak and show her he's worthy of her love ... So where does that leave tashu ??? .... On the sidelines hurting ...or plotting ... either way she's the loser !!
See ... a person fighting to get back their love is not wrong per se ... but in this case ... she would be figting a losing battle ... unless the CVs have some Ekta stuff up their sleeve .. and at the end of 6 months ...Khanak leaves .. though Shanak love each other .... and tashu comes back into Shaan's life .... maybe even marries him ... leaving Shanak with broken hearts .... and the masochistic satisfaction of having done the "Right" thing !!!
BTW ... Shockalot ... I used to read your posts in Mein Teri Parchaien Hun .. loved them ... of course I was a silent reader then .. never posted anything !
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Well i do feel sorry 4 her but i want shanak union too.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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I just hope she doesnt turn into a Vamp.

And they have a love angle for her with some Nice guy...! They can give her a side track !! Thats the best she can hope for now...LOL...!😆😆
Coz SHANAK are the lead pair...!
But I think they changed the earlier actress and got in Rucha coz they are gonna turn Natasha into a vamp....I think all of the shows Rucha has done earlier,she's played negative characters....!! (Sorry If m wrong...I havent seen her in any positive roles till date)...
Edited by togepe30 - 15 years ago
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Posted: 15 years ago
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Shaz dear, I hope I can call you Shaz...😃 Heavy dicsussion topic indeed....and it really has eben discussed so much...with so many different and varied POV's..but then thats the best thing in life and here too....😆😆😆😆
Hum.....I may feel sorry for her but I truly cannot sympathize or even empathize with her. I know thre is a group of ppl who say shes been dealt a bad blow...etc by fate...but then so had Khanak...losing her husband the very next day of her marriage and even Shaan...for being the one responsible for the casue of a Man's death even though it was not intentional..but an accident which occured due to his carelessness...so all three ppl could have creied all their life bemoaning..the fact that its was not their fault...to be dealt which such cruelty by life...or by fate.
She truly is a nice human being...grantted..b ut then being nice does not make one smart does it...she loves being the victim...she is the only one to blame for her still being stuck in limbo....and not moving on. Her first bad move was moving in with her married ex-faiance cum boyfriend...The question is...if she was so sure of her love for him, would she need to take such a drastic step as moving in with him...to what keep and eye on that person and reminding that very same person of how much she loves and cares and trusts him...now that wa indeed a joke...as when one trust someone completely...one does not need to be there 24/7 to monitor him. One does not ned to tell oneself to reassure ones mind or ego..that I truly love that person and trust him. She could have given the person she loved and who claimed to love her time to deal with the issue...and then get back to her...and the time she had on her hand..she could have used it constructively to give her self a much needed breathing space to think...about her own life.
Fine we had her move out over a fight...her even leaving a letter asking that very person she loved not to follow her as she needed space to think...and time to herself...but...being the insecure person she was ..and a control freak too ...as when someoen is insecure in a relationship they tend to be control freaks too..wanting to control each and every sistuation...wanting to be the attention seeker, etc and she was...she alwasy expected Shan to grovel adn make up with her wiht flowery words etc..
The first blwo of Shan changing came when he followed his wife....his responsibilty for the remaining few months till the divorce for the business and family...her he tried to do the rght thing...then we again saw a change when instead of her making the decisio to remain friedns as she thought up...he sprang the suprise on her by beating her to it...and asking her that till his divorce is finalized they remain friends..again...losing control of the situation...thus..leaving her feeling insecure and lost again.Even after agreeing to be friends and meeting only at work...she ladns up ...in the wee hours of the morning knowing that the person she has come ot meet does not even wake up then...just to gift him a shirt???? The again we have her land up in the same place late at night ...on a call from a complete stranger... agai to what???
This shows us that she herself is her biggest enemy...she herself does not follow what she has been saying so many times to Shaan from the time he marrried...we need to give each other sape, be friends only etc.
Again after the whole confrontation an the big "I Love you Khanak" dialogue...she tells Shaan or more like request him to only talk to her when he has an answer to her question...thats does she mean anything to him in her life...and when we do hae Shaan wanting to talk to her...whats does the woman do...she cuts his calls, does not want to talk or even face him...becasue again her insecurities and wanting to be in control are taking over ..she knows what she will hear and is stpping the inevitable from happening...that is lettin go and moving on with her own life...letting go of the past with dignity.
The talk that she had with Madhvi adn Khusboo was good...seh knows in her heart and nind that Shaan has completely cahnged...but then again she listens to the feeders of her insecurites and we ahve her in the coming up talking to Shaan on helping him with a project...why not talk to him about the main thing she wanted answers too...and then work on being friends or even collegues as she herself said she wont talk to him till her questions were answered.
Thus can one sympathize or even empathize with a person who is her won enemy and hell bent on destroying herself...by losing her own self respect and dignity???
One can only feel sorry for some time..but when a person keeps doing the same thing again and again....then the time to feel sorry is out and making her face her fears and reality is in..she really needs time out to herself to think in peace away from her past...about her future as life doesnot end...with one cruel blow from it..but makes us more stronger after going through it pain and all to face many more such situations in life with inner strength and dignity...and a smile on ones lip and heart...as they say Pain can only make you stronger ...but then depends on the person itself...what they chose to do..in life...remain in the pain and be a victim..or move on and live life.
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Oh my God...I have rambled indeed....hope my ramblings made sense.
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Posted: 15 years ago
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tbh, i do feel sorry for her sometimes becoz whatever is happening is no ones fault, but 3 people r paying the price! but i feel that natasha has subconciously figured out tht shaan luvs khanak now, but she is just not willing to let go of the past nd move on!!
she turned her luv into a competition wid khanak, nd now she realises she has lost the prize (shan)! she wants to let go but she doesnt want to lose to khanak, if u know what i mean! she is a sweet girl, n truly luvs shaan but she needs to understand that she needs to give herself nd shaan some time, to figure things out!! she sould go nd meet new people, meet the guy her dad is askin her to meet, get to know him or someone else!
she should stop being eveone's doormat(SD nd BD) nd be a bit more independent! i really hope she doesnt get engaged to shaan, rightow i wish mr agerwale comes back nd stops an engagement from happening, becoz there is no hope for natasha of stopping it!!
all she does is get upset nd runaway, come back, get upset when things aren't goin her way nd runaway again!
girl, try nd forget shaan, nd move on wid ur life, have a change of scenery, meet new people, u have the brains to know that u are fightin a lossing battle! he is not ur shaan anymore, but khanak's shantanu now!!
plzz cv's dont turn tasha into another SD or BD, instead bring in another guy for her!!

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