Originally posted by: coolpurvi
There was no such legally recognised right to elect , right ot speech n expression in those days as it exits tody in may of the civilised nations. the existence of such right totally dependent on the will of the ruler. In case of subjects of Raghuvanshi ruler such right existed because of custom or convention of this dynasty. But that too dependent upon the will of the ruler. Danda a suryaanshi was exile because of public complaind against him. Dasrath decided to make Ram king because public wanted that. I agree avadhis had no right in private life of their king. But no king how powerful he may be can ever stop his subject form thinking anything or can stop such thought from getting spread or can ever compell them to truly respect or worship anyone on whom they have doubt. Even Hitler cud not do that.
Why u want to Sita to be like one of those forgotten 350 queens? Public slander affected Ram because Sita was his ego. Sita desrved respect from subjects. Ram wanted to praja to respect her n worship her for her greatness n satitva. Is comfort everthing? Ramayan wud have never been happy ending had it not happened. Did prosecuting all Avadhis for defaming Sita or severe punishment wud have served the purpose? I think no
He rejected public demand to remarry to show them that he abandoned her only because he is king of this country but as husband he respects her. I dont agree with u that he blindly acquiesced to everything his subjects wanted. A good king is one who can foresee future n can take apt decison in present. Lord Ram had a object behind all his decisions. He knew how to react in response to any public demand n waht will be its future results.