Originally posted by: sushumna
Taral, I agree with you that Nikunj has a superiority complex and I am not saying she is perfect, honestly nobody is. We have to remember when we are in an unnatural environment we are bound to overdo things. She may have sugar coated her words for the camera sometimes but she has to. When I say fake, what I mean is the girls behave like they are perfectly amicable and very flexible which is not possible for any human being. They all come across as girls without a personality, atleast Nikunj's superiority comes from her accomplishments and is lesser of the two evils. She may not be very humble but atleast she is for real and we cannot expect anyone to be completely natural on television.
You are right swati and priya are accomplished so are many others however Nikunj is better overall and she is not dramatic, emotional or gossipy. (I would have to disagree here.....she has been a part of creating drama with Priya. And if she has not been emotional or gossipy then that is 100% fake, any person in a home with 14 other girls for a month and nothing else to do....they are bound to get emotional and gossipy......those two traits are god given blessing to women......😆😛)
I didnt say Nikunj will not benefit from the marriage. Please note that I said she doesnt stand to gain much if Rahul does not marry her as she is already successful herself and I think she is too proud to want to be on this show so she could make some quick buck. She will definitely benefit from the marriage as Rahul is rich and famous, which is the catch and Nikunj wants to marry Rahul because he is all those things and she has the class and dignity to be a celebrity wife without coming off as nautanki. Also some of the girls specially the other finalists are looking to benefit from the media exposure (its put them on a national platform) even if they dont win.( I think it makes more sense that Mrinmai is a much better choice, I would say she also has class and diginity and is much more closer to Rahul's age, and since everyone is not perfect she is the complainer type, but her other qualities should maker her even a more suitable to be celebrity's wife. I think that is the true essence of this show, these girls have come to be a celebrity's wife, the plastic doll that smiles and stands tall next to their famous conterversy husband...I am sorry but I don't find any diginity or benefits in that. As far as the girls have come for a national platform, there is not doubt in my mind that Nikunj is also not here just to marry Rahul, she is also here for media exposure. Her being successful doesn't prove anything. And what kind of success does she have if you can give insight on that..she is accessory designer..good for her...but she has worked with a few known companies...but she isn't some sort of designer lable.....if she is to proud to want to be on this show for quick bucks well then she should have never came on...these shows are victims of sterotyping...so even if she isn't here for "quick bucks" she will be portrayed that way)
Hima I agree with you that we should nt hold against Rahul's past and remember he did all these things post his dad's demise. He was going through a rough patch already due to his dad's untimely death and probably got into these situations as a result. Hemay be silly and slightly immature however I think he is not a bad person at all and I think he is trying to make amends. We shoudnt judge him too harshly. (I think I can speak for myself alone here, he surely maybe be a good human being, no doubt, but when I judge him I judge him on what he does on the show, I don't find him amending anything while kissing Nikunj on the lips, cuddling with Mrinmai in a odd position, and sleeping in Harpreets lap....I think I judge those things and nothing more) But if not for his celebrity status and money he is not a great catch, well arent a million other celebrities. it is their fame, power and money that make them attractive and we cant expect rahul mahajan to be mature and sophisticated like Rahul Gandhi.
I am not trying to bash Nikunj, but to say that her qualities that she is portraying on the show are better then the other girls is a little bizzar for me to swallow. None of the girls are any better then the rest. They all her on the same platform if you ask me. No matter how good at heart they might be, no matter how nice their personality may be, for them to come on this show and act the way they do with the smallest clothing on earth...even sarees are made trashy......I find that the most lowest quality in these girls...proving that each one of them does not have dignity nor self-respect. I judge what I see in the show like any other soap opera....I am criticizing the "fictional character" because not even one of these girls are for "real".
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