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Posted: 16 years ago
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I do agree with some of you but I have the following to say:-

1.Dont know if one can say Elesh is truly honest or forthcoming about his past. To my knowledge it was only after Rakhi asked him did he casually i repeat casually tell her he had 7 gfs and then coolly say they were all serious relationships. I dont remember any dramatic editing effects such as camera focusing immediately on Rakhi's face [if I remember she didnt seem bothered when he said it] nor was any special music or sound effect used when he said it. all in all the producers of the serial chose not to make it a big issue unlike in regard to earlier contestants whenever someone had some controversial stuff in regard to him they used special music, sound effects, camera etc etc to achieve dramatic effect. also whenever some contestant revealed the presence of a woman in his life he was usually reject. First was that guy who told he had an ex russian girlfriend and spoke to rakhi on her date and in mann ki baat section of that day she told ram how upset she was with him in regard to it of him devoting most of the date time about her and not concentrating on her. That guy was also asked to have rakhi's name tatooed on him which raKHI said not to. he was rejected that day. Next was that policeman parvez who said he was already married and had 3 kids and was still prepared to marry. Later luv was rejected. although reason given was he chose to eat the garva chaud prasad from rakhi's hand than his mother fact remains in one of his earlier episode he said he had an ex named sheetal and even gave her bible to rakhi on the date. then it was manmohan's turn when he was confronted by ravi kishan about anjali whom he had hidden and he almost got rejected that day and but somehow he escaped elimination that day. i found it strange that elesh been a gentleman type chose never to tell rakhi earlier on during the show about his past life of having 7 serious relationships. if he was really honest shouldnt he have told her much earlier on than wait for her to ask and when done so answered in a cool casual manner without showing any sense of remorse or guilt or shame on his face? he chose to reveal it only when he came to top 4 list and only after raKHI asked him about it.
Real men dont wait for women to ask about their past and instead chose to tell her voluntarily as early as possible. Elesh never did this. know why he didnt do it? it was because he would have got rejected. thats why!he is damn smart to tell u truth. he knows how to charm his way with women [7gf experience hai iske pass] so he knows what works to win over women.

2.one of u said rakhi is known in canada to my saying she is really unknown. what i meant to say was rakhi is not tthat well known in canada as compared to india. over here she cant go to local market without being mobbed by ppl and also here lots of mawaali lafanga guys r there who think of her as sex symbol n will try to touch her [had she got marrriued to manmohan she wouldnt have any privacy at rishikesh as she is too well known and her stigma of being an item girl will stick with her all life in india] compared to that in canada she can lead a normal life and go out without ppl; recoginisng her as compared to india. i was merely poiting out privaCY issues for rakhi than about fame.

3.contrary to popular belief rakhi is not that filthy rich as some of u think. yes she has a few crores to her name but to maintain her lifestyle thats not enough. per month she spends probably over a lakh rupees on things like beauty parlour, rent for her expensive flat, fitness, clothings, food bills. none of these come for free. morever she has no big acting career. some films she did item girl, vamp role. also she did reality shows such as big boss and also that dance show with kids from orphanage [with whome she wore skimy dress and did dance]. if she has some real claim to fame it has to be her swayamvar show! and she knows she doenst have long innings here compared to other heroines. soon she will be jobless and she needs hubby who is malamaal and liberal minded and doesnt ask much questions. she might be infatuated by guys like manmohan or luv but wo ullu ki patti nahi hai. she will ultimately chose man who give her financial security and freedom which from last 3 dulhas its possible only with elesh

4.on face value elesh's words seem honest but one never knows. these days guys tend to convincigly lie and there are girls who fall for their words, get used by him and later dumped by him. and i ask again whats gurantee he still not having contact with ex gfs or is not having any right now? has rakhi or ndtv imagine done background check on this guy? and it was strange his mother didnt come to see them. first they said sister marriage. then they said visa problem but later it was revealed they didnt want to travel all the way because very tiring. arre inke bete ke shaadi ka sawaal hai and if parents are serious about it shouldnt they have come? kshitij mom who is a patient came but bnnot elesh mommy who seemed healthy.

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Actually Manmohan is currently with Anjali and Elesh says that he had 7 gf's....

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: balmaaaaa

I do agree with some of you but I have the following to say:-

1.Dont know if one can say Elesh is truly honest or forthcoming about his past. To my knowledge it was only after Rakhi asked him did he casually i repeat casually tell her he had 7 gfs and then coolly say they were all serious relationships. I dont remember any dramatic editing effects such as camera focusing immediately on Rakhi's face [if I remember she didnt seem bothered when he said it] nor was any special music or sound effect used when he said it. all in all the producers of the serial chose not to make it a big issue unlike in regard to earlier contestants whenever someone had some controversial stuff in regard to him they used special music, sound effects, camera etc etc to achieve dramatic effect. also whenever some contestant revealed the presence of a woman in his life he was usually reject. First was that guy who told he had an ex russian girlfriend and spoke to rakhi on her date and in mann ki baat section of that day she told ram how upset she was with him in regard to it of him devoting most of the date time about her and not concentrating on her. That guy was also asked to have rakhi's name tatooed on him which raKHI said not to. he was rejected that day. Next was that policeman parvez who said he was already married and had 3 kids and was still prepared to marry. Later luv was rejected. although reason given was he chose to eat the garva chaud prasad from rakhi's hand than his mother fact remains in one of his earlier episode he said he had an ex named sheetal and even gave her bible to rakhi on the date. then it was manmohan's turn when he was confronted by ravi kishan about anjali whom he had hidden and he almost got rejected that day and but somehow he escaped elimination that day. i found it strange that elesh been a gentleman type chose never to tell rakhi earlier on during the show about his past life of having 7 serious relationships. if he was really honest shouldnt he have told her much earlier on than wait for her to ask and when done so answered in a cool casual manner without showing any sense of remorse or guilt or shame on his face? he chose to reveal it only when he came to top 4 list and only after raKHI asked him about it.
Real men dont wait for women to ask about their past and instead chose to tell her voluntarily as early as possible. Elesh never did this. know why he didnt do it? it was because he would have got rejected. thats why!he is damn smart to tell u truth. he knows how to charm his way with women [7gf experience hai iske pass] so he knows what works to win over women.

2.one of u said rakhi is known in canada to my saying she is really unknown. what i meant to say was rakhi is not tthat well known in canada as compared to india. over here she cant go to local market without being mobbed by ppl and also here lots of mawaali lafanga guys r there who think of her as sex symbol n will try to touch her [had she got marrriued to manmohan she wouldnt have any privacy at rishikesh as she is too well known and her stigma of being an item girl will stick with her all life in india] compared to that in canada she can lead a normal life and go out without ppl; recoginisng her as compared to india. i was merely poiting out privaCY issues for rakhi than about fame.

3.contrary to popular belief rakhi is not that filthy rich as some of u think. yes she has a few crores to her name but to maintain her lifestyle thats not enough. per month she spends probably over a lakh rupees on things like beauty parlour, rent for her expensive flat, fitness, clothings, food bills. none of these come for free. morever she has no big acting career. some films she did item girl, vamp role. also she did reality shows such as big boss and also that dance show with kids from orphanage [with whome she wore skimy dress and did dance]. if she has some real claim to fame it has to be her swayamvar show! and she knows she doenst have long innings here compared to other heroines. soon she will be jobless and she needs hubby who is malamaal and liberal minded and doesnt ask much questions. she might be infatuated by guys like manmohan or luv but wo ullu ki patti nahi hai. she will ultimately chose man who give her financial security and freedom which from last 3 dulhas its possible only with elesh

4.on face value elesh's words seem honest but one never knows. these days guys tend to convincigly lie and there are girls who fall for their words, get used by him and later dumped by him. and i ask again whats gurantee he still not having contact with ex gfs or is not having any right now? has rakhi or ndtv imagine done background check on this guy? and it was strange his mother didnt come to see them. first they said sister marriage. then they said visa problem but later it was revealed they didnt want to travel all the way because very tiring. arre inke bete ke shaadi ka sawaal hai and if parents are serious about it shouldnt they have come? kshitij mom who is a patient came but bnnot elesh mommy who seemed healthy.



Please use paragraphs at least! 😕

Kuch to break do yaar itni lambi text aur beech mein ek line break bhi nahin! Hurts the eyes you know..😆

Only thing I wanted to comment is, yeah, he could have told her earlier, and maybe he did off camera. That could be why she didn't react so much to it. And the other thing is, in the West not only is this a common fact that people have relationships (it would be very strange for a 30 year old man to not have any relationship, as if there is something wrong with him!), it's also not "confessed" as if having relationships is a sin. In India it's a bit like that.. because all relationships are serious and head towards marriage. In the west people simply date, doesn't mean they have a "past" or were necessarily in love. I think there is a cultural gap here we should keep in mind. So this in itself doesn't say whether Elesh is honest or a gentleman or not. According to Indian-Canadian standards, he has been a total gentlemen. Purely by Indian cultural standards, maybe not.

Sure, Rakhi is not that rich, but she is relative to non-showbiz people. Obviously there will be those who are multimillionaires. We can't compare her to Rani Mukherji or someone. But if she has that much money, as you say, she is not ullu ki patthi, she knows her money will run out and she doesn't have a lifetime of actress jobs ahead. So maybe she invests her money right. Usko itna to pata hoga how to maintain financial security, yaar. Chhote mote jobs karne waale log bhi invest karte hain to laakhon rupaay ek ya do stage shows mein nikaalti hai to usko kuch to karegi, instead of just spending it on beauty salon or whatever else we might think..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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May be in West Elesh could not find the type of girl he wants. So he found now with Indian base .
Besides Elesh is not having currently, past is past. But Manmohan is having right now and he never told Rakhi that he does not love her and loves Rakhi. He was in fact indirectly and directly saying all things to his present girlfriend through television to show her how much he loves her. It was all meant for her whatever he said to Rakhi. Rakhi could make out and so was her outburst.
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i think elesh was honest enough to tell the truth that he had 7 girlfriends....but this dishonest and cheap guy manmohan has a girlfriend as a standby..agar rakhi nahi mili to anjali hi sahi....😡...he was in swayamwar just for fame and money and even food😆....he wanted to play with rakhi's feelings...he first told that anjali is nothing but just a friend of his...then why didin't he let her meet rakhi when he knew that rakhi wanted to meet her...why didn't he want rakhi to meet his "just friend" anjali???.....stupid manmohan...logon ka man to moh liya par rakhi ka nahi!!!.....good that he got eliminated nahi to rakhi ko zindagi bhar pachtana padta.....elesh is the most honest person on swayamwar..because he is the only one who had the guts to admit in front of his parents in the presence of rakhi that he loves her and wants to get married to her..has any other contestant done that, that too in front of the whole family....why did ravi kissan have to bring anjali in between??....manmohan shud have already told rakhi about her before if he loved rakhi so much....poor guy...jao aur baitho ganga kinaare anju darling ke saath.....u dont deserve to be in this swayamwar

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: balmaaaaa

Isnt it strange Rakhi rejected Manmohan because he had 1 gf Anjali as a standby while she had no issues with Elesh who officially accepted he had 7 serious GFs?? Even Rakhi said in the show she has worries if he will get bored with Rakhi after a year or so after marriage? Also isnt Rakhi worried Elesh mnight have had intimate relations with his former gfs and that he might be 'Used Maal'?? I think the real reason why Rakhi rejected Manmohan was because of the fact he is not very rich compared to others and also his family is full of nosey people who might be a problem for her in some way or the other. In case of Elesh he is very 'broad minded', friendly, easy going and doesnt ask the kind of controversial embarassing questions [at least for now] others asked or wanted to ask and most important he is rich and an NRI! Also if she marries him she can go to Canada and lead an 'Araam ki zindagi' with lots of privacy [she is unknown outside of India] . Manmohan, Manas, Shittij all have the 'Middle Class' tag on them and foir all the tall claim she makes that she only wants a husband who will love her and doesnt matter if he doesnt have money the truth is she wants a pati who is financially stable and is broadminded .



Rakhi rejected him not because he got 1 girl friend... it is because Manmohan still in love with anjali and Anjali is waiting for him... he lied to her ... she left manmohan for anjali... i feel that MT wanted to keep relationship with Anjali at the same time wanted to Marry Rakhi... . Rakhi knows the fact that, if she marry manmohan, she is breaking anjali's heart... he is not a straight forward person..

where as Elesh said 7 GF that is because he is a canadian not an indian.. if at the age of 30 no GF means something wrong with Elesh (western thinking).. He was honest in admiting that,and he is out of all those relationship and now in love with rakhi.. where as MT keep on saying her he loves her, but never proved his love.. if he loved her as he says, he could have introduced Anjali to her and come out of it.. he could have made a request to her meet Anjali not in the eyes of camera's but outside and cleared the air.. which he didn't..

and she do have a point here that he can come out of her relationship too.. (Elesh)
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: uknaik99



I agree.. But Elesh also has a drawback.. his attention span is very short .. all his previous relationships lasted for 1 or 1 half year... this is bit alarming.. Rakhi can get insecure with just this fact itself..

As for shitij he is secure, got business and good family background.. he can be a very good husband. Rakhi needs family,security and stabitlity in her life Shitij can provide that and yes he does lack spark and excitement

Manas is not in picture as he is too young for Rakhi.. wish Luv was still in the picture..

Let us see what happens next..



i don't think chitij's brother is willing to accept rakhi as his brother's bride.. there is a total change in chitij's behaviour... he proposed to her and now he is asking for time... he become double minded.. i don't think he wanted to marry her.. though he went with that intention, now he is out of that intention.. i had a feeling that when he was showing the fashion designs to her.. may be well planned it to get a promotion for his company... Chitij's brother's body language spoke volumes that he is not willing to take her in so the change in chitij's attitude.. he said he is fall in love with her before leaving fatehpur but totally changed person with his family..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: lats55



i don't think chitij's brother is willing to accept rakhi as his brother's bride.. there is a total change in chitij's behaviour... he proposed to her and now he is asking for time... he become double minded.. i don't think he wanted to marry her.. though he went with that intention, now he is out of that intention.. i had a feeling that when he was showing the fashion designs to her.. may be well planned it to get a promotion for his company... Chitij's brother's body language spoke volumes that he is not willing to take her in so the change in chitij's attitude.. he said he is fall in love with her before leaving fatehpur but totally changed person with his family..

what I assume is that Elesh is a serious person, if committed, he will stick to it..once married he will keep his wife happy..abt Chitiz..yes, i def agree wid d above person that he has change of mind..mayb becz of family pressures...they are uncomfortable with Rakhi's image...Rakhi, def shud not go for Chitiz..this marriage will not last more than a yr...
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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: lats55

i had a feeling that when he was showing the fashion designs to her.. may be well planned it to get a promotion for his company...



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OMG really? It's true, I didn't even think of that angle. Lats aapko lawyer ya detective banna chahiye, if you're not already one!
I thought Chittiz was one of the good ones.. pata nahin, don't know what to believe anymore! Next I'm worried something will come up about Elesh.. 😕


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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: --arti--



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OMG really? It's true, I didn't even think of that angle. Lats aapko lawyer ya detective banna chahiye, if you're not already one!
I thought Chittiz was one of the good ones.. pata nahin, don't know what to believe anymore! Next I'm worried something will come up about Elesh.. 😕



arti.. he proposed to her before and coming to delhi, now he is asking for time, and so many questions left and right from the family members shows that they are not happy in accepting her as his wife.. now why all of a sudden he is showing all designer cloths, that too a short one and says he don't mind rakhi wearing it... which is unbelievable in a family like his.. just look at his brother and sister in law.. and can you imagine rakhi wearing that short dress and moving around in that house.. 😆
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