Manmohan 1 gf = Not Ok! Elesh 7 gf = Ok! - Page 4

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Posted: 16 years ago
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Originally posted by: gurl-enchanted

Helllllooooo, people, Elesh freely admitted that he 7 EX girlfriends, not standbys like Manmohan had. If he had really loved Rakhi, he would have told her this himself instead of letting her find out. And Rakhi had truly liked Manmohan a lot, but he broke her heart by lying. And he had no guts at all to stand up in front of his family and say "I wanna marry this gal, and she can do as she pleases." Also, a girl wants her hubby to be protective. He didn't even bother to protect her from the throng of people outside and in his house. Also, his father was downright rude to her, and the conditions in his home was stifling towards females.
It was only right that she dump him cuz he had attitude and no remorse over having a gf as standby. Elesh on the other hand, admitted that he had had 7 gfs, and why not? A person is allowed to make mistakes, a trial and error method to find the gal of his dreams. I had 5 - that doesn't mean my character is bad, or I'm a player. I'm a person whose been trying to find the person who suits me best, and that can't be done without taking chances

Well said, and Elesh is not loving them any more. Manmohan could not tell Rakhi I LOVE YOU . He was scared of Anjali all the time.
It is very difficult abroad to find a suitable boy or a girl. Some families who instills Indian cultures and values and some does not. My sister's daughter she does not speak Hindi at all, She never had boy friends till she completed her 12th, brought up under controls but still she is not the Indian type. Her lifestyle would be different. She eats only American food , very little Indian food she likes. So what would you call her Indian or American.
So may be Elesh had all these issues with the girls we do not know. Why blame him.
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Posted: 16 years ago
#32
difficult abroad to get a suitable boy or girl,no doubt..so get a celebrity frm Mumbai.😆
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Posted: 16 years ago
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i disagree with u COMPLETELY.. manmohan never told her the truth.. even when she asked.. ravi got it up.. and then he pretends like he dint know who anjali was and when he finally realized the truth is out he kept changing his stories.. that he will marry her if things with rakhi dont work out.. and then tells rakhi that she is only a friend.. and when rakhi asked to meet her.. he dint even do that for rakhi..
rakhi earns probably more then eilesh, im not convinved that shes marrying him for money., and as far as ppl outside india know her.. i live in canada and i can tell u one thing... everyone knows her;.. infact i live in toronto and everyone knows her.. so if she had to come here.. there is no aaram for her.. and like u said she wants to live happily outside the country.. well.. she never wanted to leave the industry and always wanted to live in india even if she gets married to eilesh..
eilesh was truthful enough to tell her the truth when she asked him about it.. if he wanted.. he could have hid it too.. but nope.. he told her everything.. i think he is the best for her.. cause manas is really young for her and kshitij dosent love her yet..
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Posted: 16 years ago
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why is it ok for rakhi to openly juggle around 4 men, go to their respective houses and act as if she is their family's bahu without giving guarantee to any of them that she is going to marry one of them? Dont we all get impression Rakhi is in love with all but will marry only one? If this concept is ok then whats wrong in Manmohan be in love with Rakhi as well as Anjali? Rakhi chahe kitne be mardon ko impression de ki wo shayad unse shaadi karegi aur yeh acceptable hai then why she has issues if Manmohan has one GF as standby? She can have many men as standby then Manmohan too can have it naa?

Why is western culture of fooling around with various guys and girls through relationships till they find the 'right one' very acceptable these days? and why is it many NRIs want and Indian Bahu with Indian values for their sons? Abroad ke ladkiyan teek nahi hai kya inke liye? and why do indian girls claiming to have indian values [such as Rakh herself] pose as if they want an indian guy in india yet ultimately chose wealthy nri irrespective of his past?

It's said love only happens once while rest of it is just life going on. Elesh has had 7 lovers before rakhi. Sabke saat wo samay bitaya aur due to some reason break up hua unke saath. is ka matlab yahi hua he gets bored of women after sometime and probably engineers situatins jisse donon break up karen and 'Move On' and change partners. In all probability elesh also had intimate relations with these girls. sab kuch kia hoga isne. An 'experienced' woman like Rakhi who claims 'Meine hazaaron mard deken hai life mein aur unka saccha swaroop dek sakthi hoon' should instantly recognise the true face of Elesh which is of a very charming, broadminded guy on surface while actually being a casanova in reality.

For all those who support guys like Elesh will any of you marry an nri guy girl who has had many relationships in past yet at this point gives u impression he really wants to settle down? aapke dil ko chooke bolo. sach mein shaadi karenge aap log?



Yeh aaj humari society ki double standards hai. Agar ladka yah ladki India mein rehthe hein fir they have to be decent, not have any affairs, should be pure par agar nri ladka/ladki ho tho fir teek hai bhai. Western culture mein tho yeh sab chalta hai bhai

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