Originally posted by: --Aishwarya--
Good post!!
I have been mentioning this same nonsense along with other fellow members as well...
I am a SaHil shipper comes secondary...even if Sanam was an unmarried woman, what Shaad is doing is NOT acceptable...who is he to decide how she should live the rest of her life?? First you continued with the lie because you wanted to track Shashi Kapoor through her - SELFISHNESS
Next you suddenly developed be-intehaa mohabbat for her and due to that without a second thought you closed her missing person file, without even thinking she has to know her past and must be safely returned to her family who must be frantically searching for her and must be living with the perception that she is dead...you wanted her in your life, so you gave no heed to that - SELFISHNESS
Next you lost all your family and had no one in the world, but your Jannat...fine, you lose all your family members at a single moment is so heartbreaking, but that doesn't mean you will capture an unknown woman with you and wish to keep her by your side your whole life...in that case all such persons losing their loved ones can go and bring some random person and keep with them, telling I lost everyone, now I want you to be with me - SELFISHNESS
First when Aahil requested them to come with him to Bhopal, while at Dharamsala promising good treatment for Sanam, he refused. But as soon as he got to know Shashi Kapoor is in Bhopal, he nodded a yes. So its because of Shashi Kapoor you agreed, if for Jannat its not required - SELFISHNESS
You wanted to marry her...that too according to you, second marriage...first of all, how can you even think of marrying an amnesiac person dude?? Don't you know its a crime and even getting any legal activities done with a mentally unstable woman is illegal?? And you are supposed to an army officer...holiness!! So, what if one day after marriage, she gains her memory and asks you who are you...you would tell I am the Be Intehaa lover of you who married you while you were under Amnesia?? Her feelings and her life has no importance here - SELFISHNESS
And yes...all these selfish activities will disappear in thin air with a letter and even in that you apologize and expect her to accept your love, but still you don't feel its necessary for her to know who she is...she is your Jannat and you can't live without her is all that matters!! And you are the so called disciplined army officer in "love" according to CVs!!!
Coming to the PDA, Shaad just finds opportunities to get all touchy with her...the fact that she is not his wife doesn't seem to knock his brain only...right now mahaan Shaad has denied from entering into the marital relationship, and gave even mahaanta filled reasons only, instead of the truth...but after this illogical nikaah of theirs, they are planning to enter the marital world...in short an amnesiac woman would be physically harassed and used, with the man knowing she is an amnesiac...
And this man is supposed to be a gentleman and a man in love!!!!