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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan
The reason I said there is a vandetta against Seher, is coz the reply given to TM's question of "How can Sanam forgive Aahil so easily" is "She can just like she forgave her sister!"Nowhere does the TM mention Seher. This was about Aahil and Sanam. But everyone right away started to bring Seher into the discussion and said how once upon a time, Sanam forgave her too. So that means, that she should have no issue forgiving Aahil!I personally have NO issue with her forgiving Aahil, or him forgiving her. After all mistakes were made on both sides and Sanam cant act like she had no part in hiding the truth from Aahil. They may have had "Reasons" for doing what they did, but they still hid things from Aahil which did not help him to get out of the rut he was in.But my question was, why automatically this whole discussion became about how Sanam forgave Seher, so she should forgive Aahil as well. Aahil and Sanam's relationship is that of life partners and all of us who have one knows, that that relationship is not the same as the one we share with our sibling / siblings! THAT is the reason I said that everyone is using this platform to once again start the "Seher blame game!" But on principle I agree that Sanam should be able to see past Aahil's failures just like she saw past her sisters or anyone else's for that matter!I knew you were not referring to me when you said some called Sanam a doormat. But I just wanted to clarify anyway that I never did! :)
They've both made mistakes, although, in my opinion, Ahil more so than Sanam. But he did apologise to Sanam and made it up to her in more than one way. The whole 'burning her dhabba'-thing is history. Ahil was a different person back when he did those things. He was emotionally detached and a 'player', Sanam's love changed him (as cheesy as that may sound). However, what I do have a problem with and what I find hard to forgive is the fact that Ahil believed Tanveer's words over Sanam's each and every time. Granted, he saw Tanveer as his mother. But I feel like Ahil's character was dumbed down aswell. A lot of the times the truth was right there in front of him but he refused to believe it and instead acted like his mothers puppet and wanted to throw Sanam in jail, threw her out of the house etc. He refused to believe in the woman that he loved so much. And that made me think 'hey, maybe he doesn't love her enough?'.
I don't see where Seher fits in all of this to be honest. Like you said; the relationship that siblings share are different from that of a husband and wife. And that's why I pointed out in my previous post that Seher is her sister, and the situation was completely different. I feel like whenever you bring up issues between SaHil here there's always someone who somehow makes it about Seher, SeHan, Rehaan/Ahil, Sanam/Seher and other things that are completely irrelevant to the topic.
