How can Sanam forgive Ahil so easily? :/

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GoldenPanda.

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

First of all, Seher is her sister. Second of all, Seher didn't know that Sanam was her sister when she was doing that and I'm pretty sure that was what made Sanam forgive her. However, Ahil has hurt sanam repeatedly and intentionally on several occasions.

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JShukla

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Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: GoldenPanda.
First of all, Seher is her sister. Second of all, Seher didn't know that Sanam was her sister when she was doing that and I'm pretty sure that was what made Sanam forgive her. However, Ahil has hurt sanam repeatedly and intentionally on several occasions.

response to this given 2 posts above.

Sanam is very forgiving. She forgave Seher in a heartbeat. She will do the same with Aahil too.

Besides Aahil has already gone through a redemption during Aher days. He asked for her forgiveness for wrong that he did or did not commit.

I am sure Seher has told Sanam in her heart to heart talks. that's what sisters do.😛

Aahil has also forgiven her for not revealing her twin truth on time and letting him live through the misery of being jilted

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Antara123

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Someone said, if Sanam can forgive Seher, she can forgive Aahil... Like seriously. The problem started from THERE. About the dhaba, she was angry with him... In turn, she burnt his car. I am not justifying... But that is taken care of... What wrong has Aahil done? His wife behaved weirdly with him, agreed he did not recognise her... But, you cant expect someone to imagine a twin. She ran away from the wedding. Supposedly. What else would he believe? Who would harm Sanam at her own house according to Aahil? Contrary to what they claimed, they never once tried telling Aahil about the switch earlier... Aahiil's indecision regarding Sanam 2 I understand and accept. He has not wronged Sanam more than she has wronged him. There isnt a question of self respect at all... And regarding other shows, I have watched this ''historical show'', xD, and trust me, the forgiving track was pathetically stretched. Anyways... Nothing personal. My view... :P

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Esha

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Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: KhatamKahani
Same way she can forgive Seher so easily.

You said it 😆

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Mandy

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Yes Sanam has forgiven Aahil. The reason being that after everything they all went through, holding a grudge now seems petty I guess. I also think that this is less about self respect and more about preserving the relationships that are important to you.

That is my first point. But I have a second point too. For everyone who has a major issue with the fact that Sanam forgave Seher, then they should have an equal issue with Aahil not hating Tanveer. The same principle applies. Tanveer was the women who brought him up. So even though he saw her for what she was, he was not bent on getting revenge from her, nor was he going to hate on her. He said that even though she never thought of him as a son, HE thought of her as a Mother, so he asked Sanam not to kill her.

The same way, despite Seher impersonating her and causing havoc in her life, Sanam chose to forgive her when she realised that Seher was her sister. Forgiveness is not always given to those who deserve it. It says more about the person doing the forgiving than the one receiving it. For everyone that criticizes Sanam for forgiving Seher, they don't seem to understand that Sanam grew up with just her grandma and cousin. Her whole family was gone. Her parents gone, and she didnt even know she had a sibling. So for someone like that to find out she has a sister, means the world. So when she realized who Seher was, she was willing to let go of the past and accept her. I dont blame her for that.

Unlike Tanveer, Seher actually has tried to come on the straight and narrow. So as much as I agree that Sanam is trying to save her relationship with Aahil, and is willing to let go of any past ills, I am equally in agreement with her letting go of the past where her sister is concerned as well. Her sister is her closest living relative. So is she to just turn her back on her? I mean how realistic is that? Is that what everyone wants? I think if we understand Aahil not hating Tanveer, then we also have to understand Sanam not hating Seher! At least she didn't kill anyone!

It's hypocritical of us to be understanding of Aahil's state of mind RE Tanveer, but not be equally understanding of Sanam's mindset RE Seher. The same principle applies here! I dont understand why people STILL hate Seher so much? Just get over it already! She was a criminal in her past and acting as per what a criminal who wants money would do. She is not a criminal anymore, so it's time to move on!

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KhatamKahani

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan
Yes Sanam has forgiven Aahil. The reason being that after everything they all went through, holding a grudge now seems petty I guess. I also think that this is less about self respect and more about preserving the relationships that are important to you.

That is my first point. But I have a second point too. For everyone who has a major issue with the fact that Sanam forgave Seher, then they should have an equal issue with Aahil not hating Tanveer. The same principle applies. Tanveer was the women who brought him up. So even though he saw her for what she was, he was not bent on getting revenge from her, nor was he going to hate on her. He said that even though she never thought of him as a son, HE thought of her as a Mother, so he asked Sanam not to kill her.

The same way, despite Seher impersonating her and causing havoc in her life, Sanam chose to forgive her when she realised that Seher was her sister. Forgiveness is not always given to those who deserve it. It says more about the person doing the forgiving than the one receiving it. For everyone that criticizes Sanam for forgiving Seher, they don't seem to understand that Sanam grew up with just her grandma and cousin. Her whole family was gone. Her parents gone, and she didnt even know she had a sibling. So for someone like that to find out she has a sister, means the world. So when she realized who Seher was, she was willing to let go of the past and accept her. I dont blame her for that.

Unlike Tanveer, Seher actually has tried to come on the straight and narrow. So as much as I agree that Sanam is trying to save her relationship with Aahil, and is willing to let go of any past ills, I am equally in agreement with her letting go of the past where her sister is concerned as well. Her sister is her closest living relative. So is she to just turn her back on her? I mean how realistic is that? Is that what everyone wants? I think if we understand Aahil not hating Tanveer, then we also have to understand Sanam not hating Seher! At least she didn't kill anyone!

It's hypocritical of us to be understanding of Aahil's state of mind RE Tanveer, but not be equally understanding of Sanam's mindset RE Seher. The same principle applies here! I dont understand why people STILL hate Seher so much? Just get over it already! She was a criminal in her past and acting as per what a criminal who wants money would do. She is not a criminal anymore, so it's time to move on!

There is no hypocrisy because the times it's being brought up are in different contexts. You are conflating all different things we say within different contexts into one.

The issue is not that Sanam doesn't hate Seher or has forgiven Seher. It has been said over and over again, that the problem is that her actions have never been acknowledged in the manner it should've been. Nor did Sanam ever let Aahil know, but continued to hide it from him and kept playing Swap game.

The reason Sanam's forgiving Seher is brought up in *this* thread is because it ties into the question of what happened with Aahil and Sanam. Seher factors into it and actually so do Sanam and Aahil themselves in the various situations. They are all at fault and there is plenty of blame to go around. But it's always the question of Aahil doesn't deserve to be forgiven. When others have contributed and have their good blame in this mess.

Again and again, all we've said is simply that, just like people love to say Aahil supposedly *always* puts his mother first, Sanam too put her family first. This has been repeated many times. The blame is not on her for forgiving Seher. We have said over and over Sanam could've easily convinced to Aahil to at the very least be cordial, if not try to forgive, Seher. The blame was for *not* clearing it with Aahil, not being truthful, continuing to put other things first and foremost *even* though she kept saying she wanted to work on and fix the relationship.

Secondly, the complaint comes also from how the narrative, story and characters have not acknowledged Seher. You cannot compare Tanveer's actions with Seher's actions. Because Tanveer is the villain. She is treated as the villain. In the end, everyone acknowledges her wrongs and villainy. All her wrongs are thrown back on her face (well that as well as some 'passing the blame going on'). Seher even till the last episode is still passing the buck, which is refuted by neither the characters nor the narrative.

And Aahil in still loving his mother is not trying to cover up for her or justify or excuse her actions.

Edited by KhatamKahani - 10 years ago

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KhatamKahani

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Posted: 10 years ago

#17

By the way, we pretty much have moved on. But Seher ties in to SaHil, There is only one thing that can be criticized of Aahil right now for which the fault is all his own and no one else's and he alone should shoulder the blame.

Nothing else. So when he is blamed for many things Seher had a hand in, then of course she is going to be brought up. Especially when it's from those who love absolving Seher and calling Sanam doormat, even though she suffered a lot for her sister as well as for Aahil.

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Mandy

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Posted: 10 years ago

#18

@Khatamkahai

I know what you are saying about the whole "Not telling Aahil the truth part!". I guess that was the CV's way of saving it all for the high point! (Which was sometimes coming across as silly). Yes Sanam wanted to get Tanveer, more than she wanted to get back into Aahil's good books. So they hid the fact that they were twins, thinking it would give them some advantage. But once Tanveer KNEW about it, I dont know why they hid it from Aahil? Still beats me!

Yes Aahil continued to love his criminal Mother and that was to be expected. Just as Rehan did to the very end. Their love for her was steadfast, and one she never deserved, but got anyway. She ruined both their lives and they still didnt hate her! Bete ho tho aiyse!

Seher finally did admit to Aahil that she came to his house for the purpose of stealing. That she impersonated Sanam for money. But she also agreed that she was unable to maintain the facade of being Aahil's wife, because she was in love with Rehan. So she did confess her part in things. But they should maybe have had her apologize to Sanam and Aahil? In any story I wrote I always made her do that! But CV's have failed totally in that!

But I maintain that this vendetta against Seher is something that needs to end, coz we can continue to call her "the problem" and just stay hung up on what she did by swapping with Sanam. But since Sanam herself has moved on, it is time for us to do so as well! That is my POV. I have never called Sanam a doormat. I dont belong to that group! Sanam and Aahil are the reason I watch this show. I am a SAHIL fan, not a Seher or SEHAN fan, even though I dont mind them!

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evedallas1

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Posted: 10 years ago

#19

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan
@Khatamkahai

I know what you are saying about the whole "Not telling Aahil the truth part!". I guess that was the CV's way of saving it all for the high point! (Which was sometimes coming across as silly). Yes Sanam wanted to get Tanveer, more than she wanted to get back into Aahil's good books. So they hid the fact that they were twins, thinking it would give them some advantage. But once Tanveer KNEW about it, I dont know why they hid it from Aahil? Still beats me!

Yes Aahil continued to love his criminal Mother and that was to be expected. Just as Rehan did to the very end. Their love for her was steadfast, and one she never deserved, but got anyway. She ruined both their lives and they still didnt hate her! Bete ho tho aiyse!

Seher finally did admit to Aahil that she came to his house for the purpose of stealing. That she impersonated Sanam for money. But she also agreed that she was unable to maintain the facade of being Aahil's wife, because she was in love with Rehan. So she did confess her part in things. But they should maybe have had her apologize to Sanam and Aahil? In any story I wrote I always made her do that! But CV's have failed totally in that!

But I maintain that this vendetta against Seher is something that needs to end, coz we can continue to call her "the problem" and just stay hung up on what she did by swapping with Sanam. But since Sanam herself has moved on, it is time for us to do so as well! That is my POV. I have never called Sanam a doormat. I dont belong to that group! Sanam and Aahil are the reason I watch this show. I am a SAHIL fan, not a Seher or SEHAN fan, even though I dont mind them!

Nice reply Mandy as usual 😉 Actually I still hope to see a discussion between Aahil and Seher... maybe she will apologize tomorrow or before leaving... I have this feeling we won't see her so soon she may leave in order to stay with Dilshad for a while. SJ needs a break it must be exhausting to play 2 characters and it's been months. So I still hope to see Seher apologies for what she did to her brother in law and sister... also I'm curious about the ring Aahil gave her thinking she was Sanam.

We never talked about it and Seher never mentioned it to Sanam ... maybe she may return the famous ring to Aahil and ask him to confess once again to Sanam... this time the right girl won't run away 😉 !

On the other hand I wanted to see the interaction between Aahil and seher now the truth about the twins is out. I always wanted to see Aahil and Seher in a friendly zone like Rehan was with Sanam. They are both quite similar in personality and seher is more modern than Sanam 😊 I want to see what I read in the fanfics a great relationship between both of them. Seher will provide a great source of support for SAHIL in s.3 like rehan was in s.2.

Edited by evedallas1 - 10 years ago

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KhatamKahani

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Posted: 10 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan
@Khatamkahai

I know what you are saying about the whole "Not telling Aahil the truth part!". I guess that was the CV's way of saving it all for the high point! (Which was sometimes coming across as silly). Yes Sanam wanted to get Tanveer, more than she wanted to get back into Aahil's good books. So they hid the fact that they were twins, thinking it would give them some advantage. But once Tanveer KNEW about it, I dont know why they hid it from Aahil? Still beats me!

Yes Aahil continued to love his criminal Mother and that was to be expected. Just as Rehan did to the very end. Their love for her was steadfast, and one she never deserved, but got anyway. She ruined both their lives and they still didnt hate her! Bete ho tho aiyse!

Seher finally did admit to Aahil that she came to his house for the purpose of stealing. That she impersonated Sanam for money. But she also agreed that she was unable to maintain the facade of being Aahil's wife, because she was in love with Rehan. So she did confess her part in things. But they should maybe have had her apologize to Sanam and Aahil? In any story I wrote I always made her do that! But CV's have failed totally in that!

But I maintain that this vendetta against Seher is something that needs to end, coz we can continue to call her "the problem" and just stay hung up on what she did by swapping with Sanam. But since Sanam herself has moved on, it is time for us to do so as well! That is my POV. I have never called Sanam a doormat. I dont belong to that group! Sanam and Aahil are the reason I watch this show. I am a SAHIL fan, not a Seher or SEHAN fan, even though I dont mind them!

Where in this thread is this vendetta against Seher though? No one is hung up on the swapping anymore. it was in reply to the question. The answer fits, in fact it matches your own explanation of letting things go moving on. Just the way Sanam forgave Seher, she can forgive Aahil.

The last time Seher was blamed was in the previous epsiode where once again she passed the buck. It was talked about, and then that was that. No one harped on it, except for discussing the episode the day it aired.

We are all ready to move on. Truly!

As for my last post. I responded to you that we are moving on and explained why I responded as I did to the topic. I didn't call you anything other than a SaHil fan. :) *genuine not sarcastic*

Edited by KhatamKahani - 10 years ago

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