How can Sanam forgive Ahil so easily? :/ - Page 3

Sanam found her lost sister after a long time and though she did wrong by her, she did forgive her. Even though in Seher's case Seher's wrongs are tied only to her and not to anyone else. While I don't have an inssue with what she did during the swap and why, I do have an issue with how she behaved after the swap(remorseless) But Sanam did forgive her.

In case of Aahil, he did have a slight abusive bent, a certain streak where he continued to want to break her ego, in different ways. So his repentance can only be for subjecting Sanam to emotional abuse after he brought her back home. I'd been vocal and clear about it.

But if we compare this to the physical abuse she went through during swap, this pales. So she does have it in her to forgive...

Coming to Aahil, he also has already forgiven Seher and was even worried about her too along with Sanam. even though it should hurt his self respect to remember how Seher made a mockery of his love for his wife and how she made him feel unloved, how she was instrumental in separating him from the love of his life. How he showered love on the wrong person. how he repented for his past mistakes and proposed to the wrong girl. No one can accuse Aahil of not respecting the boundaries of relations... and we see that in his relation with Ammi, his sisters, Rehan (when he wasn't being jealous), Nida as his finace(he detested her but still was honourable enough to not jilt her by confessing the brimming love to Sanam) and then Sanam ( a wife he desired, but still kept himself in check to honor her feelings), with Haya, Rahat and Faiz too! For a person like him who is so over-protective of women folk in his family, to realize that he was desiring his sister-in-law is definitely a kind of emotional abuse . A Sister in law by 2 relations- she is his wife's twin and his brother's love😲. He'll feel guilty of something that is not his fault at all!

So he forgave Seher all of that it seems, coz he feels guilty of loving and respecting his mom now.

It'd be heartless of Sanam to leave a man with such a big heart.

Having said that, Sanam totally has it in her to keep his slight abusive tendencies in check... in fact I doubt they'd ever surface now after what Sanam has gone through.

she withheld information, lied to him, chose the silent sufferer route to regain his trust. she put his life at risk in her quest for justice/revenge for her parents' death.

any other hero would have hit the roof and hit the heroine too, he is so magnanimous.

How can Ahil forgive his darling wife Sanam so easily?

How can Ahil forgive his chudail saali so easily?

How can Chudail Seher forgive her lover Rehaan so easily? (I suppose Rehaan also left her once upon a time no!)

How can Rehan forgive Seher so easily?

Answer these questions first then I will answer yours.

The reason I said there is a vandetta against Seher, is coz the reply given to TM's question of "How can Sanam forgive Aahil so easily" is "She can just like she forgave her sister!"

Nowhere does the TM mention Seher. This was about Aahil and Sanam. But everyone right away started to bring Seher into the discussion and said how once upon a time, Sanam forgave her too. So that means, that she should have no issue forgiving Aahil!

I personally have NO issue with her forgiving Aahil, or him forgiving her. After all mistakes were made on both sides and Sanam cant act like she had no part in hiding the truth from Aahil. They may have had "Reasons" for doing what they did, but they still hid things from Aahil which did not help him to get out of the rut he was in.

But my question was, why automatically this whole discussion became about how Sanam forgave Seher, so she should forgive Aahil as well. Aahil and Sanam's relationship is that of life partners and all of us who have one knows, that that relationship is not the same as the one we share with our sibling / siblings! THAT is the reason I said that everyone is using this platform to once again start the "Seher blame game!" But on principle I agree that Sanam should be able to see past Aahil's failures just like she saw past her sisters or anyone else's for that matter!

I knew you were not referring to me when you said some called Sanam a doormat. But I just wanted to clarify anyway that I never did! :)

But Ahil n Sanam does not know dat it was fake. Asad n Zoya went thru hell cuz of dis for a ling time but Ahil is not feeling guilty or showing any remorse while Sanam is being cool teln Sanam 2 dat she does not bcums his wife just by sleeping wid him. Ahil sud at least talk abt dis wid Sanam n they sud think whether he really slept wid her or not. Dats wat I am talking abt.

Jhui, there is a huge diff between Ahil & Asad in sleeping around with women. I didn't watch the witchcraft & fake SR so don't know how it looked to Sanam ..I think Sanam knows it was revenge sex for Ahil if at all he did sleep with S2 and IMO, she was right in throwing that in S2's face for taking advantage of it.

Sanam never made any references to his exs & she would say let's move on like she did on the hillside.

for Ahil,it's like breaking up with another girlfriend/random woman he slept with,No big deal for him.

May be SaHil will go thr' the same hell as AsYa if S2 pulls the fake pregg stunt.