Originally posted by: SheAish
^^ Minnie, Sanam2 is well on the way to evildom right now...it seems she killed Sulaiman Chacha...
We all knew it was going this way, and now that it has come to this already, the forum can gloat about how evil she is and mock the rest of us for trying to put in some sense at a time when she was not shown to be at this juncture yet...As if the forum has not seen posts about the need for her to be killed even before she was shown to have turned to black magic...and even at that,...indulging in it just for trying to secure Ahil and nothing else then! Also never mind that we NEVER condoned her wrongful actions. We just threw in some home truths in the mix regarding the actions or rather lack of actions by both Sanam and Ahil with regards to Sanam2 and her status as Ahil's publicly acknowledged wife!
Yes, we wanted her killed, just for feeling hurt, seeing the love between Sahil...but seems like EVERYONE has conveniently forgotten all that!
We didn't make those posts defending Sanam2 THEN, because we were great fans of her, but pretty much everyone was blind to the wrongs done to her by Sahil whether knowingly or unknowingly...
And the comparison with Seher and Sanam2 is done because most of us have showed empathy to Seher even during her worst days, while Sanam2 has been thrown to the vultures from the minute the show showed that she fell in love with Ahil! BEFORE she turned to even black magic...
Well, well, all I can say is, by all means...continue the gloating and mocking...because that would make those of us who defended Sanam2 at a time when she was not evil totally wrong...and the rest of you guys totally right..👏
I did feel sorry for Sanam 2 at the start. I thought she got a raw deal. I also thought Aahil was going down a slippery sloap by accepting Sanam 2 as his wife, because I knew it was going to backfire on him badly. That was HIS mistake. Sanam also treated her well, not coz she wanted her to be her Sauten, but coz she realized she had also been used by Tanveer. (Much the same way Tanveer used her, when she got her married to Aahil through emotional blackmail). She knew what it felt like to be used and abused by Tanveer, so she empathize with a fellow victim.
However, soon all her empathy and sympathy would be rewarded by jealousy, lies and backstabbing. Just coz we feel entitled to something, that dosent always mean we are going to get it. Sanam 2 though knowing the truth of the situation, thought that she could use the issues between Aahil and Sanam, to usurp Sanam from Aahil's life. She took advantage of Sanam's trust in her and turned on her. At the same time, she also used Aahil and his emotionally vulnerable state against him, and made him believe she had been intimate with him.
When she was showing sings of falling for Aahil and being jealous of Sanam, I said that she is being pathetic. Because she didn't even know this man from Adam. So to suddenly claim she "Loves" him after knowing him for a few days, I found a bit too far fetched. It was not the same for Tanveer, coz she knew Asad a lot longer than Zoya did. So even if she claimed she loved him (even though her love is not what WE think of as love), it was still believable and acceptable. The reason I found Sanam 2's so called love unacceptable, was because it seemed a bit contrived. So suddenly she gets possessive of Aahil, and she goes from being Chidiya to Dayaan overnight!
Yes Tanveer used Sanam 2, but now she is also using Tanveer. Aahil and Sanam made mistakes with her, but then the situation they found themselves in was unique. How exactly were they supposed to act towards this new women who was thrust on their lives unwittingly? How come no one has any sympathy for Aahil and Sanam's plight, but everyone is thinking so much about Sanam 2 and her plight? She was brought into a situation to make things worse for a couple. Initially, she was guilty at having come between them, but then she decided she likes the view of the man she was brought in to separate from the women, and decided to go for it. Her actions are that of a calculating female who decided to use another women's trust against her, and go after her husband. She herself knows very well that Aahil didnt "Qubool" her at all. But still, she thinks she is his legal wife. Her name is not even Sanam Ahemed Khan. But knowing all this, she is OK with the fact that she conned a man into marrying her.
Accept for her initial situation when Tanveer didnt tell her the truth of the circumstances, once she found out, she was responsible for how she dealt with it. THIS is how she chose to do it. That is why I dont feel bad for her anymore!