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Posted: 10 years ago
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^^ Minnie, Sanam2 is well on the way to evildom right now...it seems she killed Sulaiman Chacha...

We all knew it was going this way, and now that it has come to this already, the forum can gloat about how evil she is and mock the rest of us for trying to put in some sense at a time when she was not shown to be at this juncture yet...As if the forum has not seen posts about the need for her to be killed even before she was shown to have turned to black magic...and even at that,...indulging in it just for trying to secure Ahil and nothing else then! Also never mind that we NEVER condoned her wrongful actions. We just threw in some home truths in the mix regarding the actions or rather lack of actions by both Sanam and Ahil with regards to Sanam2 and her status as Ahil's publicly acknowledged wife!

Yes, most of us wanted her killed, just for feeling hurt, seeing the love between Sahil...but seems like EVERYONE has conveniently forgotten all that!

We didn't make those posts defending Sanam2 THEN, because we were great fans of her, but pretty much everyone was blind to the wrongs done to her by Sahil whether knowingly or unknowingly...

And the comparison with Seher and Sanam2 is done because most of us have showed empathy to Seher even during her worst days, while Sanam2 has been thrown to the vultures from the minute the show showed that she fell in love with Ahil! BEFORE she turned to even black magic...

Well, well, all I can say is, by all means...continue the gloating and mocking...because that would make those of us who defended Sanam2 at a time when she was not evil totally wrong...and the rest of you guys totally right..👏




Edited by SheAish - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: SheAish

^^ Minnie, Sanam2 is well on the way to evildom right now...it seems she killed Sulaiman Chacha...

We all knew it was going this way, and now that it has come to this already, the forum can gloat about how evil she is and mock the rest of us for trying to put in some sense at a time when she was not shown to be at this juncture yet...As if the forum has not seen posts about the need for her to be killed even before she was shown to have turned to black magic...and even at that,...indulging in it just for trying to secure Ahil and nothing else then! Also never mind that we NEVER condoned her wrongful actions. We just threw in some home truths in the mix regarding the actions or rather lack of actions by both Sanam and Ahil with regards to Sanam2 and her status as Ahil's publicly acknowledged wife!

Yes, we wanted her killed, just for feeling hurt, seeing the love between Sahil...but seems like EVERYONE has conveniently forgotten all that!

We didn't make those posts defending Sanam2 THEN, because we were great fans of her, but pretty much everyone was blind to the wrongs done to her by Sahil whether knowingly or unknowingly...

And the comparison with Seher and Sanam2 is done because most of us have showed empathy to Seher even during her worst days, while Sanam2 has been thrown to the vultures from the minute the show showed that she fell in love with Ahil! BEFORE she turned to even black magic...

Well, well, all I can say is, by all means...continue the gloating and mocking...because that would make those of us who defended Sanam2 at a time when she was not evil totally wrong...and the rest of you guys totally right..👏




this isn't addressed to me, but here I am and by now you are aware of my fetish for quoting you!
I am a rare visitor of forum and I am a fan of Sehan pairing and eve Rehan and Seher in that order.
I do feel that at times Seher has been given a free leeway, because the creative have not done justice to her characterization.
Where did her interactions with Sanam go? Where did she explain to Sanam how she survived with Aahil? Where did she explain to Sanam how she met Rehan?
I see those as loopholes... and Sanam2 until her killing spree was no worse or better than Seher was when she was conning Aahil for money.
There- you had it from a Sehan fan.
I too have my anger against Seher for continuing to con right under Rehan's nose. It does not go too well with the romantic in me.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SheAish

^^ Minnie, Sanam2 is well on the way to evildom right now...it seems she killed Sulaiman Chacha...

We all knew it was going this way, and now that it has come to this already, the forum can gloat about how evil she is and mock the rest of us for trying to put in some sense at a time when she was not shown to be at this juncture yet...As if the forum has not seen posts about the need for her to be killed even before she was shown to have turned to black magic...and even at that,...indulging in it just for trying to secure Ahil and nothing else then! Also never mind that we NEVER condoned her wrongful actions. We just threw in some home truths in the mix regarding the actions or rather lack of actions by both Sanam and Ahil with regards to Sanam2 and her status as Ahil's publicly acknowledged wife!

Yes, we wanted her killed, just for feeling hurt, seeing the love between Sahil...but seems like EVERYONE has conveniently forgotten all that!

We didn't make those posts defending Sanam2 THEN, because we were great fans of her, but pretty much everyone was blind to the wrongs done to her by Sahil whether knowingly or unknowingly...

And the comparison with Seher and Sanam2 is done because most of us have showed empathy to Seher even during her worst days, while Sanam2 has been thrown to the vultures from the minute the show showed that she fell in love with Ahil! BEFORE she turned to even black magic...

Well, well, all I can say is, by all means...continue the gloating and mocking...because that would make those of us who defended Sanam2 at a time when she was not evil totally wrong...and the rest of you guys totally right..👏






I did feel sorry for Sanam 2 at the start. I thought she got a raw deal. I also thought Aahil was going down a slippery sloap by accepting Sanam 2 as his wife, because I knew it was going to backfire on him badly. That was HIS mistake. Sanam also treated her well, not coz she wanted her to be her Sauten, but coz she realized she had also been used by Tanveer. (Much the same way Tanveer used her, when she got her married to Aahil through emotional blackmail). She knew what it felt like to be used and abused by Tanveer, so she empathize with a fellow victim.


However, soon all her empathy and sympathy would be rewarded by jealousy, lies and backstabbing. Just coz we feel entitled to something, that dosent always mean we are going to get it. Sanam 2 though knowing the truth of the situation, thought that she could use the issues between Aahil and Sanam, to usurp Sanam from Aahil's life. She took advantage of Sanam's trust in her and turned on her. At the same time, she also used Aahil and his emotionally vulnerable state against him, and made him believe she had been intimate with him.


When she was showing sings of falling for Aahil and being jealous of Sanam, I said that she is being pathetic. Because she didn't even know this man from Adam. So to suddenly claim she "Loves" him after knowing him for a few days, I found a bit too far fetched. It was not the same for Tanveer, coz she knew Asad a lot longer than Zoya did. So even if she claimed she loved him (even though her love is not what WE think of as love), it was still believable and acceptable. The reason I found Sanam 2's so called love unacceptable, was because it seemed a bit contrived. So suddenly she gets possessive of Aahil, and she goes from being Chidiya to Dayaan overnight!


Yes Tanveer used Sanam 2, but now she is also using Tanveer. Aahil and Sanam made mistakes with her, but then the situation they found themselves in was unique. How exactly were they supposed to act towards this new women who was thrust on their lives unwittingly? How come no one has any sympathy for Aahil and Sanam's plight, but everyone is thinking so much about Sanam 2 and her plight? She was brought into a situation to make things worse for a couple. Initially, she was guilty at having come between them, but then she decided she likes the view of the man she was brought in to separate from the women, and decided to go for it. Her actions are that of a calculating female who decided to use another women's trust against her, and go after her husband. She herself knows very well that Aahil didnt "Qubool" her at all. But still, she thinks she is his legal wife. Her name is not even Sanam Ahemed Khan. But knowing all this, she is OK with the fact that she conned a man into marrying her.


Accept for her initial situation when Tanveer didnt tell her the truth of the circumstances, once she found out, she was responsible for how she dealt with it. THIS is how she chose to do it. That is why I dont feel bad for her anymore!





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Posted: 10 years ago
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^^ IFfreak...well you are a rarity among Sehan fans (I'm sure you are well aware of this 😉)...well even considering Sahil fans ...😆
The majority in this forum is anything, but impartial when it comes to a character played by SJ...

And I have seen enough comments of yours to know that you are not a blind fan of anyone or any ship...You have even picked on Sanam2's case lightly now and then...Good on you mate!

I respect you for that...well enjoy what's in store considering your ship might be in for some seriously romantic times ahead with Rehan being shot 😛!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Mandy, very simply my posts has NEVER been about that Sanam2 has no faults of her own...Her faults have been pointed out by pretty much everyone...but in all that, others actions with regards to Sanam2, (apart from Tanveer's) was getting totally lost. That was the only point being made by us all this while...And of course MAINLY about the comparison with Seher's actions and Sanam2's actions minus the killing spree recently taken on by Sanam2...

I see some of the hardcore Sahil fans have always been against anything and everything that comes between Sahil, including Seher...but our main focus was for those Sahil fans like you, who have always empathised with Seher while going all out "she needs to be killed" mode when it came to Sanam2 before she even DID ANYTHING apart from some pitiful crying...even at this stage you were I totally hate her mode Mandy!
It was only recently that Sanam2 started behaving similar to what Seher was doing during the swap...

If your point is that for you, Seher is different because she was out for money while Sanam2 is worse and undeserving of empathy because she is out to get Ahil,... then I don't think there is anything else that can be discussed between us, because we would just go in circles without an end to this...
I totally disagree that there is any difference between Seher and Sanam2 with regards to what Sanam2 has done so far (minus the killing shown in SbS today)...


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Posted: 10 years ago
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She is saving Tanvir who is her real enemy.
She knows she is not married to Aahil (fake name for sure) still for a comfort life she is trying to justify her act.

My question is why she didn't use her black magic to get money from others. Why she was in a wretched condition having a powerful skill.

So mismatch characteristic of her. Snatching other's husband is real fun for some...









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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SheAish

Mandy, very simply my posts has NEVER been about that Sanam2 has no faults of her own...Her faults have been pointed out by pretty much everyone...but in all that, others actions with regards to Sanam2, (apart from Tanveer's) was getting totally lost. That was the only point being made by us all this while...And of course MAINLY about the comparison with Seher's actions and Sanam2's actions minus the killing spree recently taken on by Sanam2...

I see some of the hardcore Sahil fans have always been against anything and everything that comes between Sahil, including Seher...but our main focus was for those Sahil fans like you, who have always empathised with Seher while going all out "she needs to be killed" mode when it came to Sanam2 before she even DID ANYTHING apart from some pitiful crying...even at this stage you were I totally hate her mode Mandy!
It was only recently that Sanam2 started behaving similar to what Seher was doing during the swap...

If your point is that for you, Seher is different because she was out for money while Sanam2 is worse and undeserving of empathy because she is out to get Ahil,... then I don't think there is anything else that can be discussed between us, because we would just go in circles without an end to this...
I totally disagree that there is any difference between Seher and Sanam2 with regards to what Sanam2 has done so far (minus the killing shown in SbS today)...




Yes Seher and Sanam 2 are the same as in one was and one now IS trying to con a man! One for money, the other for himself I guess. But the issue here is that Sanam 2's motivation which is that she "Loves" Aahil is not justifiable. The CV's have done nothing to justify her so called "Turn" into suddenly loving Aahil. I can only assume this love is nothing more than lust, because lets face it, Aahil is a man worthy of lust by ANY red blooded female! LOL


But does that lust then give her the right to go down the path she has chosen? That is my issue. I never compared her to Seher in this post, coz I honestly think that they are very different people from different backgrounds and circumstances. Both wanted more for themselves and both used foul means to get it. I only had sympathy for Seher as the abandoned sister of Sanam who had to live off her wits without a family. I always felt that it was the fact that she was abandoned that turned her into who she was, coz if she had been with her family she would not have been a criminal. While some criticize people like me and others who felt some sympathy for Seher coz she was Asad and Zoya's daughter, I think us feeling some emotional connect to ASYA's daughter is understandable. I remember meeting certain friends of my parents who they went to university with, and sometimes they had never even seen me before, but start to act all maternal or fatherly towards me. The reason for that is that they know my parents, so they instantly feel a connect of some sort to me as well!


The CV's mucked up Seher's motivation and not enough was shown of her past. But some still felt a connect to her simply because she was Asad and Zoya's daughter and we had spent nearly two years loving them. So even though some feel it is wrong, I think this forms part of the reason why people wanted to forgive Seher. She is also currently trying to turn over a new leaf, so we have to also account for that!


You are totally entitled to your opinion and justified in your beliefs RE Sanam 2. But I still always felt that her so called love for Aahil, and her jealousy was premature and also seemed petty given ALL she knew of SAHIL's situation. I found her constant crying and her victim act irritating. But now of course she has gone to the other extreme and decided to become a perpetrator. So it is a given that no one will any longer feel bad for her.


Edited by MrDarcyfan - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: SheAish

^^ Minnie, Sanam2 is well on the way to evildom right now...it seems she killed Sulaiman Chacha...

We all knew it was going this way, and now that it has come to this already, the forum can gloat about how evil she is and mock the rest of us for trying to put in some sense at a time when she was not shown to be at this juncture yet...As if the forum has not seen posts about the need for her to be killed even before she was shown to have turned to black magic...and even at that,...indulging in it just for trying to secure Ahil and nothing else then! Also never mind that we NEVER condoned her wrongful actions. We just threw in some home truths in the mix regarding the actions or rather lack of actions by both Sanam and Ahil with regards to Sanam2 and her status as Ahil's publicly acknowledged wife!

Yes, most of us wanted her killed, just for feeling hurt, seeing the love between Sahil...but seems like EVERYONE has conveniently forgotten all that!

We didn't make those posts defending Sanam2 THEN, because we were great fans of her, but pretty much everyone was blind to the wrongs done to her by Sahil whether knowingly or unknowingly...

And the comparison with Seher and Sanam2 is done because most of us have showed empathy to Seher even during her worst days, while Sanam2 has been thrown to the vultures from the minute the show showed that she fell in love with Ahil! BEFORE she turned to even black magic...

Well, well, all I can say is, by all means...continue the gloating and mocking...because that would make those of us who defended Sanam2 at a time when she was not evil totally wrong...and the rest of you guys totally right..👏

SA- in my regular avatar, I would talk of S2 exactly like Mandy. But we need ti understand, she is no Sanam with a Badi Ammi to teach good moral values...posting my reply from another post-
Generally I do not sympathise with people who are on the wrong side of law, bad past not withstanding. But this forum has taught me otherwise. 😛 to look beyond the facade. It is OK for a scorned lover to go spoil another man/woman's life.
Seher was deserted by Rehan for all the right reasons, but sigh she had a bad past and did what anyone with a bad past could do. Also, every time, her belief in her bad path, was strengthened by Rehan who said all the right things about her, to her, thinking she is someone else. Also for a person with bad past, it is OK to mock a husband's love for his wife, to hit that same wife and hand her over to goons, to use the same love for 'his' wife for her own betterment and to scheme to take away all of someone else's husband's money to ensure that same husband becomes"daney daney ko mohtaj'😲 (this is what even Tanveer is trying to do😉)
Sanam2 is also on the wrong side of law, but now I am a better person coz of this forum😉. I cannot now go back to my old heartless ways and call Sanam2 a witch and vamp...
But then there's more to the story, that I cannot see😲 same people who wept bucket of tears for Seher are throwing 'ande , tamatar, and abuses ' at Sanam2. she also has bad past na? so KAANPHUUUSED..Am I missing something? Oh yes the genes.. Seher has got the genes and the jeans😆 too!
yeah, As Mandy pointed out above, I feel no connect to Seher coz of her bad past. In fact after her appearance my darling Sanam's life went totally downhill😆 so I am entitled to feel against a character who did this to my Sanam. Also at present she even contemplated going away(well she didn't, but she did think about it) and all without clearing swap truth.
SA Sanam 2 has already killed the debate and Sulieman😛 . No more sympathy after killing.
Edited by minnie2308 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I was just passing by,haven't watched this show since the twin trauma started.

So, the docile woman has become a dangerous woman now?I hope Additi enjoys being the new lead of this wretched show.

I don't see any difference between Sehar and Sanam2. Both want a good life and would do/did anything to achieve their goals, stealing other's husbands and killing are part of the game they chose to play.

No sympathy for both the witches,one on the path of redemption and another on the path of no-return.
I hope Rehan dies and Sehar's romance ends tragically for her to feel the pain she caused her sister.And Sanma2 should be burnt alive like lot of witches are done in even today by foolish people who believe in witchcraft.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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sanam2 should feel happy to have got a woman(sanam) who supports her in the house though she herslef is facing so much from the family .. S2 told many times she knows how much aahil ji loves sanam and how much sahil love each other , overnight she changed herself to be a witch to get her rights , oh well , if getting her rights means hypnotising and cheating her hubby by manipulating his feelings and ppl call that as her love towards her husband then be it ... one or the other day aahil will come to know that and will not be ready to forgive a betrayal from his wife, so wat was she thinking first ? she can be genuine abt her feelings with aahil and should talk to him abt her place and how she wants it in the house and explain wat is paining her and deal with it .. backbiting and cheating on her hubby by hypnotising his feelings and make her love him is just 🤢 can feeling be forced ? is this how a man and woman relationship should be ? a big NO
and ppl who are just defending S2 by comparing with seher a small question , back in those days when they used to bash seher i used to find it genuine cos they looked like they love sanam a lot so i thought their hatred is fine , cos of seher sanam had to go through so much . it was right on their plight to hate seher ... but the same ppl who showed so much love to sanam by bashing seher show their love to sanam2 without even thinking abt sanam ? ? so this makes me think they just dont like any positive character but billi and S2 lol
there are still many sahil fans who bash seher and sanam2 , they are very genuine, they want sahil and dont want to see any1 between them , can see their pain of separation but supporting a witch who was trying to separate sahil with her evil deeds is so meh ... now there is no reason for their hatred towards seher back then cos they are OK with sahil being separated and are OK with anyone taking place of aahil's wife ...

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