seher's past more dark or aahil's?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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hey guys i think seher's past is worse than aahil's.
what do you think?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hmm I guess it's matter of opinion. So IMO, living with the guilt/ burden that u killed ur own parent is worse, especially if u were innocent all along.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Its Ahil's past which is worst. Seher past was also bad but Ahil's more.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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i feel Seher's past was the worst!
Aahil atleast had parents
Seher didnt have 'em.
Aahil had food to eat and a place to stay
Seher ate from trash cans and slept on pavements.
Aahil was rich
Seher didnt have a penny
And the list goes on...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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In this case I guess having no parents is better than having an abusive father and a selfish mother!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Seher did live a difficult life but there are millions of homeless children in the world, Some work hard to get themselves out of it and some just accept it. My point is, Seher's situation was something that could've been worked on. And to me Seher seemed happy in her life until Rehan broke up with her and then later when she found out about her family from Dilshad.
Aahil on the other hand was living with the burden that he killed his own father, and I don't know how one comes out from that. He had money but that money wasn't able to bring him out of the guilt of killing his own parent.
Again, this is just my opinion. 😊
Edited by Booteefool - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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IMO Aahil did! Like Pragya said, having no parents is better than having abusive and controlling ones. Being able to love yourself is better than self loathe and guilt. Aahil used to be locked up to starve after being beaten, so his money never had any value for him. Despite living in a mansion, he spend nights, hungry and scared. That leaves the mansion with no value for him. Its better to live in a hut with loving parents! Making your own destiny is better than having someone make decisions for you. Aahil was never allowed make his own decisions...he was controlled and abused all his life... Physically by his father, emotionally by his step mother... Also guilt can be very consuming, especially for a crime as heinous as killing your own parent. It can kill someone from the inside... especially for children and young adults (teen). So while Seher had a really bad past, I would still say Aahil's was worse! It had a psychological impact, not to mention those horrid nightmares. All this made him almost destructive and cruel. Def not who he was as a child nor who he is as an adult. His wealth was rather a curse than a boon... This is just my opinion tho lol
Edited by Raingoddess - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Aahil had an abusive father, who he thought he killed. He lived with the guilt that he killed him and that his Mother went to jail for him. He was the victim of a conspiracy. He had demons no one could slay. He was troubled. So Aahil had the worst of it on that level. Even having parents, he had a raw deal. Money cant compensate for it.


Seher had a difficult childhood coz she became an orphan. I wont even pretend to know what that must have been like for a 2 year old kid. I have an almost 2 year old boy and my heart cant even bare the thought of him being in pain for a second. I dont know how a child alone at that age would cope. So her life would have been pretty tough.


So Seher grew up only valuing money, and she wanted money to secure her future. She was not guilty about looting anyone till she met Rehan. Then she started to want more from life than money. But when he dumped her, she decided to go back to her old ways. What she did to Sanam was wrong, but she did have some standards. Like she never intended to stay and take Sanam's place. She wanted the money and she was going to take it and leave! Dosent make it right. But at least she was not interested in sleeping with another women's husband.


But when it comes to battling demons, Aahil had it worse. Seher was at least OK with who she was. But Aahil was never OK with being an abused kid, or a killer. So on that score Aahil. But on the score of difficult childhood with no proper care, Seher.
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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This shouldn't even be a question of course sehar suffered more
she had to eat from garbage
no place to live
no warmth in winter
no kne to care for
not a school or higher education
no luxuries in life

Then she got with people who could throw her into prostitution anytime


And aahil got all luxuries , when his father was killed after that there was no one to abuse him atleast he lived that life way better

I agree he always get this thing that his mother is n jail for him bt still he got a better oh say nest life as compared to sehar


So sehar is the one woth worst past in whole QH
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Posted: 10 years ago
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It's like comparing apples to oranges and sufferings really cannot be measured but since you have made this post, I am going to speak my mind as an impartial person and not as someone who loves Seher. 😊 BTW, you should have made a poll if you wanted to see the real opinion because this forum has many silent members who prefer not to reply in topics but do vote in poll topics. Now this is my opinion of course. I'm not forcing it on anyone, you can agree or disagree with me, fine.

Seher: Abandoned (She must have felt so) at age 2. She had a loving family and then suddenly they were gone. We don't know yet if she witnessed what happened to her family. She must have wandered the streets for hours in the hot sun, not used to searching for food, or water or shelter. Slept on the street to awaken the next day and begin the same journey again, searching for her family, for the necessities that a child from a well to do family expect easily. She must have tried asking and begging for water and food but she must have become filthy by then and people tend to kick out at such children. Bewildered she must have eaten from trash, drunk water from puddles (She was too small to think about water from the government made water stalls(?) ) People also tend to physically hit out at such children; a kick, a slap, a punch. Rosy and Shishupal found her when she was 10. She'd survived 8 years all alone by then, we don't know what she saw in those years. Did people try to sell her, did they try to cut off her limbs to make her beg? Did some pedophile try to take advantage of a pretty child? Rosy and Shishupal took her in but she didn't get any love. The way she addressed them says a lot. She never called them Mum or dad, she probably tried and was shut down and laughed at. It was aunty and uncle. She was used by them, taught to con, taught to steal. I am guessing food and water with other punishments were used an incentives to hone her stealing abilities. She grew up, cynical, all alone, only knowing how to survive and not trusting anyone. She didn't believe good people existed. She had owners when she was little and then partners when she grew up and smartened up but she knew if there came a choice between her and them saving their own hide, her "aunt" and "uncle" will choose their own skin and throw her to the wolves. Are you surprised she found it hard to believe that people like Rehaan and Sanam existed? That people can love truly and not just for gain? And why she treasures Rehaan and Sanam so much? Because she knows these two genuinely love her and will lay their life on line for her. Seher also had no medical coverage if she was sick, there was no one to take care of her if she had food poisoning or a fever or any illness. She had no one to pick her up and take her even to a municipal hospital if she was ill and unable to walk by herself and ask for help.

Aahil: He was beaten up but also saved by Chacha and Billi. Chacha because he genuinely loved Aahil and Billi because she was faking it. He had nightmares and felt guilt for killing his dad and being instrumental in sending his step mom to jail. He felt beholden and compensated by trusting Billi blindly and using women to exhaust himself into sleeping dreamlessly. But he still had people to look after him. He had siblings who truly loved him. He had an adopted brother who understood and loved him just as much. He never starved. He never had to fight to survive. He never had to wonder if today will be his last day on earth. If he was sick, he knew people will look after him. He never wondered if he will survive to see the next day. Even when people tried to use him, he had people to fall back on. If not family members then his family lawyers and trustees(?)

Honestly, some replies from some select members surprised me but I guess as fans it's hard to be impartial. I read many members write that having no parent is better than having terrible ones. I disagree. Even a terrible parents will give basic necessities to their child for them to survive. Even Billi threw Rehaan in an orphanage so he could survive. Nawaab beat up Aahil but he never broke his bones or drew blood. Aahil was always saved by someone by then. He never tried to kill Aahil, just make him stronger and instill fear in him.

So yes, Seher had the darker past. But even after this, you disagree with my post, it's fine. 😊
Edited by In-Sanity-Metis - 10 years ago

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