seher's past more dark or aahil's? - Page 3

I get that the characterisation of Seher was done badly and that has made it hard to connect to her! I was among the AHER mockers and I had little sympathy for what Seher did to Sanam. But I did try to use empathy coz I knew she was not a home wrecker by nature, but just selfishly trying to grab money the way she has been brought up all her life! She had no real moral compass and that is why I said to many on this forum to not judge her by OUR standards, coz those don't apply to a girl like Seher who lived on her wits most of her life! They have their own set of rules and our rules don't apply to them in their minds. They don't live off the book we live, coz their life has been vastly different and circumstances have sometimes made them make choices that us as "Sharif loag" will not make. So that was always my argument.

I agreed in a previous comment I made on this thread that when it comes to mental toruture Aahil had it worse than Seher did. He was made to suffer all his life for a sin he didn't committ and made to live in guilt and burdened by favour to someone who just used him. He was physically abused by his Dad and mentally abused by his step mother. So yes, on that score he had a raw deal and a worse deal than Seher did. But as far as creature comforts go, Seher values money so much coz she had to make her own. Aahil dosent have any such issues coz he always had money.

As for Sanam 2, well she came into the situation as she too was conned. But then she started to think she can carve a niche for herself in this situation. Now she has gone to the extent of using black magic and also pretending to have been intimate with Aahil. I think maybe people do know of her ability to do black magic, and that may be why they think she is Manhoos. No idea. But she was actually shunned, while Seher lived on her wits, but she was not shunned by people in general. Where as Sanam2 was.

I personally think Sanam2 is a cheap women who cares nothing for anyone but herself. Maybe Seher was the same too, but at least she only wanted to make money and secure a future for herself. I don't know if she would have fallen in love with Aahil? Maybe? But when she found out Sanam was her sister, she would have backed out I think.

As for Sanam2 backing out for similar reasons? If she is not Aahil's biological sister, I doubt she will back out at all. Even if it is proven that Aahil is her step brother, the same way Rehan is, through their mum. Coz technically they are not biological siblings as they don't share a parent. I don't think Sanam2 is the Nawab's daughter. I think Tanveer had another lover, who was the father of her second child.

I doubt that this information will change anything for Sanam2, but make her more determined to take Aahil from the daughter of the women who as her Mother says "stole the man she loves from her". (Asad).