Do they know nothing else other than slapping? - Page 5

Originally posted by: micshy

okayyy thsi all discusiion has made me think now.. i still dont know whether what i ll be writing would make any sense or not...

See i m TOTALLY AGAINST the slapping part .period. I dont like and i also wont like to see it for the purpose of drama... esp incase of Aahil... And let me be honest incase of AsYa after the slap i dint like it but for the sake of future redemption of Asad did not react that strongly to that slap ... but with SaHil i sont know maybe im so much affected by them i just dont want to see that...

But what i m writing now... u wont agree with me ... but please dont take me wrong .. about the slapping and then forgiving part u said .. u know the reaosn i have gathered while trying to be neutral is that they forgive because of the sake of love... Umm like in a matter of rage people do some things which r totally irrational and in a fit of anger such things like slapping abusing or calling bad names... and after wards the other partner forgives because they accept the weakness of their spouse/partner... it happens in real life too... Ppl do tend to forget afterwards and everybody has their own reasons... but marriages should not break because of a slap... Girls mostly are not rigid and they compromise... but if it becomes a habbit then definitely a girl should stand up against it... but a mistake done once can be forgiven if the partner is really really guilty and ashamed of the act... And seriously a guy who is really genuinely nice would be so shameful of his act that he would be forever feeling guilt for that...

as in if a girl is married and have children n all.. n afterwards a guy who is really genuinely good but something of this sort happens n he in a fit of rage slaps her or hits her but later on after learning the truth is so ashamed and guilty ... and hes genuinely asking for forgiveness should he not be forgiven??

and i m not saying that i support this but the only fact is i m just analyzing this thing now generally and in a whole new perspective...

please dont get me wrong.. i still remember my one reply to one of ur post broke into a big argument n all and really dont want it to happen again... Cz this time i really m not writing it lightly or in a humerous way... just this thought has come to my mind...

Lets make it a neutral discussion... i know my perspective could be wrong ... n i m totally open to listen to ur viewpoint...

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

WHY is Aahil going to slap Sanam? Because she was almost killed by his Mother and her cronies? I suppose he slaps her when she tells him that his Sainted Mother is not a Saint, but Satan! He cant hear it, and he slaps her!

That is the ONLY reason I can think of. But to date, my love for Aahil was also based on the fact that, he was a physically very restrained hero. He was never shown as overly aggressive, especially towards females. The manhandling was at a very minimum. I also think part of that has to do with KV, who is not comfortable with meaningless scenes of manhandling for a character like Aahil. (He is NOT playing an abusive husband).

So if there is in fact a slap, I would have thought they would have had to really justify it to KV as well as the rest of the audience. Lets wait and see. But personally I am AGAINST it 100%. No matter the provocation, physical violence against a female should NOT be shown as justified. Hopefully they show him raise his hand, and then think better of it. That way, they can show he was so angry he considered slapping her, but still he stopped himself on time.

That way they dont have to ruin Aahil, for their story telling! Lets hope they use their BRAIN!

Originally posted by: sahil333

I agree!

But still, it is not in his character to use violence. He will not slap Sanam (oh God, I so hope not), 'cause he respects women in general. He loves and adores Sanam and he wouldn't hurt her. Like today's epi, his love for her is above all and going in the right direction.

@blue, I remember the BTS of the jealousy confession where he felt that his character was abusing Sanam. The scene where he grabs her hand and hold it firm behind her back. He wasn't comfortable at all with it and had addressed it to the director. It was so awesome of him. That's why I think he won't slap her. If he does that, then it will be out of his character.

Originally posted by: KhatamKahani

I would be done. He shouldn't have done it in the first place.

Redemption. Pfffttt...what redemption. It ruins all that was great about Aahil and SaHil. Redemption my ass, I would be done.

Originally posted by: FIZK6

We dont like it but in all indian TV shows the hero slaps the heroine

Originally posted by: Raingoddess

Honestly u know I tried so hard to defend him yesterday but if the slap scene is true then honestly I have nothing to say. I was angry at those who were quick to judge but now it makes me feel like i overreacted especially with the cvs hell bent on ruining his character. I feel stupid for trying to defend them lol. While I agree that someone saying something about ur mom, especially one u worship will cause u to overreact but slapping is uncalled for. I dnt care if ur a man or woman. I also hate when girls think its ok to hit a guy. I feel it shows more weakness when we think its ok for a girl to do it but not a guy. The same rules shud apply for both. Women r not weak either that they need to slap and show attitude. We can deal with it maturely as well. So for me it applies to both men and women. Other than self defense, violence cannot b justified. Even when Sanam slapped Aahil n Asad slapped Zoya I was furious. I hope this is false cuz it doesn't go with Aahil's character. Till now I have defended him saying that unlike other heroes, he has a limit n doesn't torture, insult, hit, point fingers, etc... But looks like CVs wanna join the race n make him just like all the others. He can break things or punch a wall to show anger but slapping is extreme. Sanam def shud leave the house. So far she has been so tough n full of self respect unlike other heroines n I hope that remains. I still will remain hopeful n watch the show (I watched when there was no hero in the show lol) But I want Aahil to pay for this. I had so much sympathy for him in the past and even today, I felt for him but the slapping is seriously a mood kill. Well lets see what they have planned for us lol

Originally posted by: KhatamKahani

@flora So what if it's fiction? Doesn't mean they can just show domestic violence for the sake of drama and use that as an obstacle.

I don't get it. What does it matter if it's fiction?

It's the fact that people are willing to excuse and be okay with it being used as a drama quotient and as an obstacle to love stories that makers don't think twice before showing such things.

And no, I don't expect the consequence to be permanent. Which is why if he slaps her, I would be done with the show.