Do they know nothing else other than slapping? - Page 3

Originally posted by: KhatamKahani

I have not stopped watching yet. Even after today, I feel Aahil could never slap Sanam. If they ruin Aahil then I am done. I am just reacting to a spoiler which I hope like hell is incorrect. My heart tells me it's wrong, but that doesn't mean much.

@raingoddess, don't worry keep on defending Aahil unless it happens. I agree that no one should slap, but it's especially henious when they keep showing the hero always slapping the heroine like this.

For the talk that anyone will react that way for talking against their mother, nooo. You react and may shut that person out. But not everyone goes around slapping the person. People can have their physical violence in check, you know. And many people may want to...but would hold themselves back.

Aahil being an abused child. I didn't want to bring it up, but since it's brought up already I will say it. Him being an abused child is what makes it worse. See either he would never do it, or he will have some serious issues. Now if he were to slap, that means he has serious issues, and he should lose Sanam forever, even if he works through his issues with therapy and counselling. If he were to slap Sanam, it means that what Tanveer and what he believes is quite true (barring the Nawab part). It doesn't matter if he will end up working through those issues or not. Damage would be done, and consequences would be/should be permanent.

Originally posted by: KhatamKahani

I have not stopped watching yet. Even after today, I feel Aahil could never slap Sanam. If they ruin Aahil then I am done. I am just reacting to a spoiler which I hope like hell is incorrect. My heart tells me it's wrong, but that doesn't mean much.

@raingoddess, don't worry keep on defending Aahil unless it happens. I agree that no one should slap, but it's especially henious when they keep showing the hero always slapping the heroine like this.

For the talk that anyone will react that way for talking against their mother, nooo. You react and may shut that person out. But not everyone goes around slapping the person. People can have their physical violence in check, you know. And many people may want to...but would hold themselves back.

Aahil being an abused child. I didn't want to bring it up, but since it's brought up already I will say it. Him being an abused child is what makes it worse. See either he would never do it, or he will have some serious issues. Now if he were to slap, that means he has serious issues, and he should lose Sanam forever, even if he works through his issues with therapy and counselling. If he were to slap Sanam, it means that what Tanveer and what he believes is quite true (barring the Nawab part). It doesn't matter if he will end up working through those issues or not. Damage would be done, and consequences would be/should be permanent.

Originally posted by: Raingoddess

No I am saying the same, if someone says something about ur parents u overreact, maybe at most curse at them but not slap lol I completely agree the spoiler killed my mood but def I love QH n I hope it turns out much different! I love Aahil too and hope they don't lose the essence of his character because he is one of the few wonderful heroes! As for him being an abused child, yes def it doesn't make sense for him to do this. So far he has been shown to be repelling violence, even Rehan he never hit. When Sanam read his diary it was heartbreaking to hear what he went thru so unless the CVs have lost it, Aahil is suppose to be scarred but not unstable. His wounds are deep but have never allowed him to lose the humanity in him. CVs def need to rethink what they r showing...

Originally posted by: KhatamKahani

@flora So what if it's fiction? Doesn't mean they can just show domestic violence for the sake of drama and use that as an obstacle.

I don't get it. What does it matter if it's fiction?

It's the fact that people are willing to excuse and be okay with it being used as a drama quotient and as an obstacle to love stories that makers don't think twice before showing such things.

Originally posted by: KhatamKahani

Sorry. I know that's what you were saying. I was only directly replying to you in that paragraph where I mentioned your name. Everything else I was replying generally to various points mentioned within the thread.😆

Originally posted by: flora212

I am not saying that they should show violence. But the way you guys saying sanam should not come back to ahil ever just for slap ! This is hilarious! Without watching or knowing reason you all are jumping.

Originally posted by: flora212

^^ oh yea right! I don't understand what is with relating he is good for her or not this is story and we are supposed to enjoy! And this nari morcha it is seriously annoying . And reason do matter