What is 'confession'?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Curious. Isn't what happened between SaHil in the past two episodes confession.

Is confession just the words of I love you? The talk of wanting to stay married, starting a new relationship, the talk of future, not wanting the contract marriage. Are they not all confessions? One can say "I love You" and not ever want those things. One can say "I love you" before marriage and never get to marriage.

Why is "I love you" what is used to decide if confession has happened or not?

Were they not teasing each other knowing both knew what was coming up? It wasn't a revelation or an attempt to blurt it out emotionally.

Would it have made a difference if Aahil and said the "you" and still left for the surprise and got accosted by Tanveer? His mood wouldn't have been affected? He wouldn't have backed off? Only thing it would do is give Sanam one extra line to argue with him regarding what they both know they both know.

Tanveer's victory isn't in stopping the "ILU." Tanveer's victory is in ruining the night and activities which would have followed.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree, I actually thought why he could not say just "you" nothing else, it 'd ve been lovely, Sanam is a smart gal, she can guess what you means 😉 Frankly I do not think they need any confession now, after all what has happened between them the whole hugging, kissing, nuzzling, I mean what more proof they need, they both are madly in love with each other. Sanam just wanted to hear from him, thats it, but one can already see love in their eyes., the whole shy smiles and all that, according to me they have already passed that confession stage, they are already emotionally connected, I will not be surprised if they come closer physically soon, the whole separation is going to get them on the edge, I do not think they can stay away from each other, specially when they know how much they love each other.. Aahil will be back to his rude self, although he will not be able to stop loving Sanam and Sanam will surely not going to leave him alone..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Totally agree with u ... theres no need of saying that You part... the confession as in the lietral one was not needed... They r past that confessing mode,,,, this was just for the drama they wnated to create... n they have still left the you pasrt to use the confession at some later point... now if they have decided to show it like that then i want a pure angst filled confession not sayong Just i love you... it wont satisfy me.. i want him to tell her how, when n where he fell in love with her,,,,, he had to tell her every damn thing... dont say i love you but do tell her that he has been in love when she wasnt even aware... n then Sanam going to the FBs n realzising whatever he is saying is right... esp the after washing amchine fiasco n the act infront of lawyer...
totally unrelated but Btw there r certain loopholes in thsi story as well... Have they forgotten that Aahil thought Rehan n Sanam loved each other... i know they had to rush rehan sunehri track so copletely forgot to bring a proper closure to that track... 😕
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: fanraya

Agree, I actually thought why he could not say just "you" nothing else, it 'd ve been lovely, Sanam is a smart gal, she can guess what you means 😉 Frankly I do not think they need any confession now, after all what has happened between them the whole hugging, kissing, nuzzling, I mean what more proof they need, they both are madly in love with each other. Sanam just wanted to hear from him, thats it, but one can already see love in their eyes., the whole shy smiles and all that, according to me they have already passed that confession stage, they are already emotionally connected, I will not be surprised if they come closer physically soon, the whole separation is going to get them on the edge, I do not think they can stay away from each other, specially when they know how much they love each other.. Aahil will be back to his rude self, although he will not be able to stop loving Sanam and Sanam will surely not going to leave him alone..


I know, right. What more proof do you need after all of what they've said and done?

Agreed to all you've said. Though I'm not so sure if Aahil will be rude to her. I don't thin he can be rude to her. Even back when he promised to hate her, his rudeness only reached to a point. Hell he was hardly rude most times..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: micshy

Totally agree with u ... theres no need of saying that You part... the confession as in the lietral one was not needed... They r past that confessing mode,,,, this was just for the drama they wnated to create... n they have still left the you pasrt to use the confession at some later point... now if they have decided to show it like that then i want a pure angst filled confession not sayong Just i love you... it wont satisfy me.. i want him to tell her how, when n where he fell in love with her,,,,, he had to tell her every damn thing... dont say i love you but do tell her that he has been in love when she wasnt even aware... n then Sanam going to the FBs n realzising whatever he is saying is right... esp the after washing amchine fiasco n the act infront of lawyer...

totally unrelated but Btw there r certain loopholes in thsi story as well... Have they forgotten that Aahil thought Rehan n Sanam loved each other... i know they had to rush rehan sunehri track so copletely forgot to bring a proper closure to that track... 😕


Yeah if there's going to be any confession after this, you are right pure angst filled confession of everything.

Aahil, I think the night he kicked out Rehan kind of surmised it's Rehan in love with Sanam and not the other way around. Don't know what he's thought about their earlier relationship, maybe he's finally thought back to the times where Sanam has always told him Rehan is a friend. Or, Aahil really doesn't care...😆

But yeah they never brought proper closure to it. And now since Rehan-Sunheri has been rushed, there won't be any Aahil-Rehan scene with any proper closure.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I get what you mean. The words are IMPLIED. But like you said, what would have followed the words is the important part. The final barrier falling between them. Sanam admitting she loves him too, and then the consummation. The final seal on their relationship.


THAT is the part that Billi triumphed in. She successfully made Aahil doubt himself. It is HIMSELF he has the problem with, not Sanam. Billi tried to make Sanam look bad and that DIDNT work. Like I said before time and again, now she is using REVERES psychology to get Aahil to do her bidding! When she didn't succeed in making him give up Sanam by making HER look bad, now tell him HE is bad and that he is bad for Sanam!


Use the whole "don't ruin her life" "she deserves a regular guy, she is a regular girl". "You know what your like and who you are?"."Don't try to pretend that you are something you are not!" "You can NEVER be a good husband Aahil". I just wanted to SLAP her when she said that. There is nothing more damaging to a child than to have their parent or a parent like figure tell them that they are useless. That always leaves a lasting impression and you start to believe the lies! My heart BROKE for Aahil today!


Tomorrow Billi tells Sanam that Aahil will only love her till he gets her in bed! Trashy bitch!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree! those three words means nothing if the two people involved can't accomplish that through their actions. Here Sahil's actions said more than words could ever say. But the way we were left hanging, not once, but twice😆 is making some of us expect a closure.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hear hear sistah!

KK, thank you for this!


*shall revisit when time permits!*
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Posted: 10 years ago
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When I saw post, mind side tracked... Ways to confess awkward, let's look at verbal:

There was a song "angregi me bolu I love u"
Gujarati ma bolu tanu prem karu chu


Bengali Mein Ami tomare bhalo basu




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Posted: 10 years ago
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No need to say 3 words,they know it.
It happens in real life also, like you hear complaints of not saying those words after so many years of marriage.

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