Dilshad left Asad, but he couldn't leave her.. Perfect son.. - Page 2

Originally posted by: lovely_lady

I don't know...I don't think its quite as black and white as people think it is.

Dilshad left, but the only reason she did so, and even considered leaving, was because she knew he had Zoya. And even then, Dilshad always left a door open for Asad to come and meet/ talk to her. She never wanted to sever all contact with him.

It was Asad in the first place who tried to simplify the conflict by selfishly choosing she demand one person.

And regarding Zoya, she stopped him because Asad needs to let go of the resentment he feels for Rashid. He needs to move on. And if Asad runs to New York, leaving his mother alone with no suppose, then he's the one who suffers.

The problem with Asad is that he isn't always in the right. But KSG plays him so beautifully with such intensity that he overpowers the other characters occasionally and it seems like he is in the right.

I can see why Asad felt hurt. From his POV, it does seem like everyone left him. But from Zoya's POV, she's helping him. And Dilshad is being a little selfish, but remember, a woman isn't reduced to just being a mother, she's a human being too. She has a right to choose to do things for herself sometimes.

And for the record, I don't think Dilshad was right in going to Rashid, but I can see why she did it. And I don't think Zoya was right in originally letting Asad go, but she somewhat rectified her mistake when she stopped him from leaving.

This entire situation is deep with layers and coloured in grey. No one character is absolutely right.

This is one thing that upset me today a little. Don't get me wrong, I loved the Asad and Dilshad scene, especially when she was talking about him. The way she said "my son will definitely come, he is my gharoor" and he steps into SM and they show his face. I loved that whole scene. Wonderfully done. And right there is where we see the man Asad is, and more importantly the son he is. But, when Dilshad said those words, "he is my gharoor, and he will never let me bow down my head" it felt off because is she forgetting that a few months back she accused him of exactly that. She accused him of the same blood running through his veins as his father. That no matter how well you raise your child, the color of the blood never changes. That's the only thing that upset me today. And it is upsetting to see him used like that. When people want, they can say whatever crap to him, and when he does something they want, they praise him. When the Tanveer thing happened, I had expected at least his mother to stand up for him, to tell the world that her son would never do that. But she didn't. She sided with Zoya blindly. She didn't think to possibly question him, but instead embarrassed him in front of everyone. Said some pretty nasty hurtful things, and never once apologized for it. Idk, unless writers just forgot, but it just upset me.

very well said!
I agree with you
Poor guy I feel so bad for Asad 😔

Originally posted by: LaVita-E-Bella

This is one thing that upset me today a little. Don't get me wrong, I loved the Asad and Dilshad scene, especially when she was talking about him. The way she said "my son will definitely come, he is my gharoor" and he steps into SM and they show his face. I loved that whole scene. Wonderfully done. And right there is where we see the man Asad is, and more importantly the son he is. But, when Dilshad said those words, "he is my gharoor, and he will never let me bow down my head" it felt off because is she forgetting that a few months back she accused him of exactly that. She accused him of the same blood running through his veins as his father. That no matter how well you raise your child, the color of the blood never changes. That's the only thing that upset me today. And it is upsetting to see him used like that. When people want, they can say whatever crap to him, and when he does something they want, they praise him. When the Tanveer thing happened, I had expected at least his mother to stand up for him, to tell the world that her son would never do that. But she didn't. She sided with Zoya blindly. She didn't think to possibly question him, but instead embarrassed him in front of everyone. Said some pretty nasty hurtful things, and never once apologized for it. Idk, unless writers just forgot, but it just upset me.

I really did love the scene though. Her one line was the perfect representation of him. "He might be mad at me, but he can never turn his back on me." It's interesting, because everyone knows, at the end of the day, no matter who turns their back on him, no matter what anyone does to him, he will still be there for them when they need him. He will never let anyone down. He will continue to sacrifice and sacrifice, till he has nothing else to give, and even then, will keep going. I just pray one day everyone realizes his importance. All that he has done.

Originally posted by: LaVita-E-Bella

This is one thing that upset me today a little. Don't get me wrong, I loved the Asad and Dilshad scene, especially when she was talking about him. The way she said "my son will definitely come, he is my gharoor" and he steps into SM and they show his face. I loved that whole scene. Wonderfully done. And right there is where we see the man Asad is, and more importantly the son he is. But, when Dilshad said those words, "he is my gharoor, and he will never let me bow down my head" it felt off because is she forgetting that a few months back she accused him of exactly that. She accused him of the same blood running through his veins as his father. That no matter how well you raise your child, the color of the blood never changes.That's the only thing that upset me today. And it is upsetting to see him used like that. When people want, they can say whatever crap to him, and when he does something they want, they praise him. When the Tanveer thing happened, I had expected at least his mother to stand up for him, to tell the world that her son would never do that. But she didn't. She sided with Zoya blindly. She didn't think to possibly question him, but instead embarrassed him in front of everyone. Said some pretty nasty hurtful things, and never once apologized for it. Idk, unless writers just forgot, but it just upset me.[BR][DIV]I really did love the scene though. Her one line was the perfect representation of him. "He might be mad at me, but he can never turn his back on me." It's interesting, because everyone knows, at the end of the day, no matter who turns their back on him, no matter what anyone does to him, he will still be there for them when they need him. He will never let anyone down. He will continue to sacrifice and sacrifice, till he has nothing else to give, and even then, will keep going. I just pray one day everyone realizes his importance. All that he has done.[/DIV]

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i also hope that day will come