When neither is right nor are they wrong! - Page 4

Originally posted by: maankigeet4ever

Okay so i am suppose to be working on a assignment right now but it's been ages since i got to put my thoughts on ur posts..

🤗and not to forget no straining ur hand😡😡

You know why this current situation RDS is so difficult for everyone because there isn't a clear cut answer to it...and u said, thy are all right and wrong in their own way. And u dissected asad-dils and zoya very nicely and thankfully left rashid out of this. ( like asad, i have very little tolerance for that excuse of a man)

Yes... there is no straight solution to this. If Dilshad says yes... blow! If she says no and something happens to Rashid... she'll never be able to live with herself and will keep cursing and blaming herself for the rest of her life!

To be honest, I didn't find one thing right to write about Rashid here so i chucked him out 😆

Asad...

All i can say is i feel for this man. He loves and hates too strongly...not an emotionally challenged man but rather a man, who feels all emotions too strongly.

Nowadays, he is both a man and a child. As a grown man who has stood by his mother for 17 years as her support, it's instinctive nature to proect her from harm's way and what Asad sees is another heartbreak for his mother so why should just stand by and watch her mother get hurt yet again? But the child has been failed yet again by his parents...not only by his father but his mother..,You brought a valid point that Rashid came back for Dils but not for his son, who still deep down craves for the love of his father he had for so little time in his life. That hurt is channelled through anger he expresses towards Rashid. Asad is broken soul, a troubled childhood, a man who grew up overnight for his family...he still barely those scars. And while he is on the path of healing through Zoya's love, his wounds are continuously scraped open :(

Asad has always been very sensitive yet very guarded to display his emotions lest someone took advantage of it. So that charade of a tough man... like an oyster shell. And Rashid is becoming the permanent scar and a source of pain in his life... the one he can't ouster nor he can accept him coz the man never stop touching further lows everytime they come face to face.

While it is not right to ask a woman to choose between her son and her husband, i am not surprised thou...He deserves more than what his mother is giving him right now. Her firm decision to move out. Some sympathy and a attempt at explaining the situation would be nice, Dilshad.

I am with Asad in this...He has every right to protect his Mama.

Aptly put. The situation blew up coz Rashid ended on their door step and blew the horn claiming Dilshad! The nerve of that man! But u r right... Dilshad shud have a convo here with Asad and try explaining her POV to her instead of Zoe doing it for her. However devastating Asad wud have been able to cope with it better had Dilshad confided in him about her decision.

Dils

This woman has a heart of gold..and loves and forgives too easily. But as you said, she is foolish in love. She reminds of a teenager who falls in love and believes it will last for a lifetime. Granted that Rashid and Dils truly love each other, Rashid is still unworthy of her love.

Dilshad, like Zoya is delusional. When Rashid kept saying he was trapped... she believed him and kept trusting him and waiting for him. Now when he's calling her, this is turning out to her much awaited moment... when her heart cries... see I knew he'll come back and failing to see the rest

She is right because she is a woman in love and decides to choose to be happy with the man she loves, but i wouldn't be surprised if she gets burnt again. But the heart is a foolish thing, hardly sees reason in logic.

She chooses to go back to a man who abandoned her 17 years ago, and abandons a man who stood by her everyday thru those 17 years. And to me, that sounds goddamn selfish. She owes something to the man who stood by her as a son,friend and shared her sorrow. Damn it, she owes her son some loyalty !

According to me she's drinking sweet poison. She's just indulging on the sweetness and forgetting the poison is ultimately going to kill her!

I understand her sentiments when it comes to love for Rashid but why do i have a feeling Asad will have step up and pick up the broken pieces for his Mama's broken heart ?

I will not discuss Zoe much as you said pretty much all of it. This situation is to create some differences for asya but yet to be support for one another. They have been thru worse and come out stronger...

Originally posted by: AsadkiDeewani

I shared this post on my fb cz i thought it is one of the most accurate n objective posts that I've read in a long time going past the positive-negative n just looking at characters. I really loved ur post n thought it was bloody brilliant 👏

Originally posted by: ZFAAK

nice post... But only one point why everyone is hell bend to bash Asad... He is in very critical situation... He can see a wrong thing was going to happen with his mother but still unable to do anything to save her from that grave situation...

Originally posted by: euphoric

Honestly I don't understand the point of bashing. Tomorrow Zoya will call Asad selfish and the guns will be pointed at her.

But we are forgetting in a moment of rage and uncertainty we all do stupid things and utter horrendous words which we really don't mean. Asad has changed so much. Had it been old Asad he wudn't have given Zoe an opportunity to speak a word. But he listened to her ultimately and then was about to counter and put forth his point too but Dilshad came in. The fact was understood that he understood the pain his mother is facing but going by Rashid's track record he knows this is only going to deepen their scars.

Originally posted by: sheilasandhu

It is sad that everytime a characters short fall is noticed and discussed it is call bashing. These are actors who enact scenes written by someone for someones imagination. Actors enact them and we audience dissect them and if have the right too do so. If the character has not been written well or given the right script then it is not the characters fault it is the CVS fault.

I don't see highlighting any characters short fall as bashing. I see it as a healthy mode of discussion and opinion sharing.