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@-khaleesi-

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Posted: 11 years ago

#21

Absolutely loved your post!

yet when the man returns all he wants his first wife... he doesn't want that little child again! One more attack on this little kid in the subconscious of a grown man.

😭 😭 😭

Couldn't have said any better! 👏

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Divya

@divyabelle

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Posted: 11 years ago

#22

Great Post Sonia. 👏

Dilshad is thinking with her heart. And, sometimes following your heart gets you into trouble.

I feel so bad for Asad. That ultimimation itself is an act of desperation.

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manognasai

@manognasai

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#23

Awesome post!All these three are right in their own way and wrong in other way!Dilshad is a great mother and now she wants to chose her husband over her son as she is longing for her shauhar's love since years and she knows that her son is not alone and Zoya is there to with him no matter wat!Asad is a great son...he took care of his mother form the moment when his father left them.He always protected her form the whole world and never let anything trouble her!Now his ammi wants to leave him for that man who gave nothing but pain to them.He is afraid that the history repeats again and his mother will again be hurt bcoz of that man!So he even want that man's shadow fall on his ammi!Zoya understands her puppi's pain and try to convince Asad.But the thing is Asad is not ready to listen anything as he faced a lot of pain from his childhood and its difficult for him to forget all those...

Edited by manognasai - 11 years ago

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maankigeet4ever

@maankigeet4ever

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+ 4

Posted: 11 years ago

#24

Okay so i am suppose to be working on a assignment right now but it's been ages since i got to put my thoughts on ur posts..

You know why this current situation RDS is so difficult for everyone because there isn't a clear cut answer to it...and u said, thy are all right and wrong in their own way. And u dissected asad-dils and zoya very nicely and thankfully left rashid out of this. ( like asad, i have very little tolerance for that excuse of a man)

Asad...

All i can say is i feel for this man. He loves and hates too strongly...not an emotionally challenged man but rather a man, who feels all emotions too strongly.

Nowadays, he is both a man and a child. As a grown man who has stood by his mother for 17 years as her support, it's instinctive nature to proect her from harm's way and what Asad sees is another heartbreak for his mother so why should just stand by and watch her mother get hurt yet again? But the child has been failed yet again by his parents...not only by his father but his mother..,You brought a valid point that Rashid came back for Dils but not for his son, who still deep down craves for the love of his father he had for so little time in his life. That hurt is channelled through anger he expresses towards Rashid. Asad is broken soul, a troubled childhood, a man who grew up overnight for his family...he still barely those scars. And while he is on the path of healing through Zoya's love, his wounds are continuously scraped open :(

While it is not right to ask a woman to choose between her son and her husband, i am not surprised thou...He deserves more than what his mother is giving him right now. Her firm decision to move out. Some sympathy and a attempt at explaining the situation would be nice, Dilshad.

I am with Asad in this...He has every right to protect his Mama.

Dils

This woman has a heart of gold..and loves and forgives too easily. But as you said, she is foolish in love. She reminds of a teenager who falls in love and believes it will last for a lifetime. Granted that Rashid and Dils truly love each other, Rashid is still unworthy of her love.

She is right because she is a woman in love and decides to choose to be happy with the man she loves, but i wouldn't be surprised if she gets burnt again. But the heart is a foolish thing, hardly sees reason in logic.

She chooses to go back to a man who abandoned her 17 years ago, and abandons a man who stood by her everyday thru those 17 years. And to me, that sounds goddamn selfish. She owes something to the man who stood by her as a son,friend and shared her sorrow. Damn it, she owes her son some loyalty !

I understand her sentiments when it comes to love for Rashid but why do i have a feeling Asad will have step up and pick up the broken pieces for his Mama's broken heart ?

I will not discuss Zoe much as you said pretty much all of it. This situation is to create some differences for asya but yet to be support for one another. They have been thru worse and come out stronger...

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AsadkiDeewani

@AsadkiDeewani

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#25

I shared this post on my fb cz i thought it is one of the most accurate n objective posts that I've read in a long time going past the positive-negative n just looking at characters. I really loved ur post n thought it was bloody brilliant 👏

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Prajakta

@kajen_crazy

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Posted: 11 years ago

#26

nice post... But only one point why everyone is hell bend to bash Asad... He is in very critical situation... He can see a wrong thing was going to happen with his mother but still unable to do anything to save her from that grave situation...

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euphoric

@euphoric

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 11 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: -KSGsmitten-
Absolutely loved your post!

yet when the man returns all he wants his first wife... he doesn't want that little child again! One more attack on this little kid in the subconscious of a grown man.

😭 😭 😭

Couldn't have said any better! 👏

Thanks dear 😊

Sad but true thats how Rashid has come across... a pathetic father!! 🤢

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euphoric

@euphoric

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 11 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: rendezvousvin
Truly said... Awesome post...

thanks 😳

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euphoric

@euphoric

Sparkler

+ 5

Posted: 11 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: divyabelle
Great Post Sonia. 👏

Dilshad is thinking with her heart. And, sometimes following your heart gets you into trouble.

I feel so bad for Asad. That ultimimation itself is an act of desperation.

Yes that ultimatum is like a kid clutching to shreds when he knows he's fighting a lost battle. Dilshad is not thinking thru because as per her Rashid is on death bed... complex situation

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euphoric

@euphoric

Sparkler

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Posted: 11 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: manognasai
Awesome post!All these three are right in their own way and wrong in other way!Dilshad is a great mother and now she wants to chose her husband over her son as she is longing for her shauhar's love since years and she knows that her son is not alone and Zoya is there to with him no matter wat!Asad is a great son...he took care of his mother form the moment when his father left them.He always protected her form the whole world and never let anything trouble her!Now his ammi wants to leave him for that man who gave nothing but pain to them.He is afraid that the history repeats again and his mother will again be hurt bcoz of that man!So he even want that man's shadow fall on his ammi!Zoya understands her puppi's pain and try to convince Asad.But the thing is Asad is not ready to listen anything as he faced a lot of pain from his childhood and its difficult for him to forget all those...

Yes... each one is staying true to their characters here.

I don't think Dilshad would have agreed to stay with Rashid had he not played that last wish card. I feel Asad is right here that emotionally blackmailing Dilshad Rashid has in a way manipulated her. Dilshad is right trying to get hold of the shreds that was once her marriage... while Asad's anger is justified, Zoya is comparing her Phoophi's plight to hers when she was away from Asad.

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