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anushreemishra

@anushreemishra

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Posted: 11 years ago

#391

Originally posted by: delena90

I would rather she found her way back to NY. No more cheesy love story. I can't take much more of nikaah conversations.

pri i would have her going back to NY too...

asad chopping off his locks and cutting off all ties with that good for nothing SM house

and humeira setting SM to fire before leaving with zoya for NY

but sadly that will never happen so i am settling for this🤣

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starsinmyeyes

@starsinmyeyes

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+ 3

Posted: 11 years ago

#392

Originally posted by: sowmy18
Who said tht she believed imraan?
she still had doubts eventhough she left him at tht point!
and as far as i going and not informing anyone is concerned firstly the plan was to go and come secretly without being known to anyone!(asad,dilshaad and najma!)
if that fails which she didn't think of at the moment she will tell him definitely!
but the situation she was in she couldn't afford to talk to him much as she should be on guard as gundaas are close to her so she said tht she will explain when she comes home to asad!

And i know tht all of u think tht its for zoyaan but im thinking this is all for asya first!
and then zoya's bonding with sm members!
Asya really needed some sort of separation eventhough i accept tht it was a bit brutal!
by ajmer zoya's trust him was completely restored whee it CANNOT get down!
but what about asad!
i dont see him trusting her as much as she does!
otherwise she need not have begged him for his wishes th she did!
frankly their relationship was not upto the mark and im thinking by thos it will reach the mark!
As i see the situation asad didn't know why she ran away on the day of her marriage!
so this is all because of his mistrust in zoya! and his first priority being his bro!
and we cannot blame him as damaged he was and he can only trust the ones that are very vry close to him and whom he knows from childhood!
that was the case with tanveer and now with ayaan!
the two only people who trusts themost and are not worth hos trust tht much!
first tanveer is gone and now ayaan will be gone!
and he completely knows zoya's value which he didn't before atleast fully in my pov!
this track will show him how much mad zoya is about him and how much trut she should have on her!
and then they will be absolutely perfect couple in the world!
i never saw asya as normal couple where they meet,they quarrel and slowly fall in love and by the ime they accept they get a separation and then will be together for ever and ever!
here asad is not tht simple and is very very damaged to be a normal couple!
and zoya she's worth much more than she is getting and she is sartisfied with silly girl!
and she will get it soon!
tht's all im seeing in this show!
if im proved wrong then ill learn my lessom to never see any daily soaps and waste ur time because this is the only one tht im seeinga and also i have fighted like this for!

U are missing my point again Sowmy...forget Imraan for a second please...if u see the woman who tried to kill u and your family multiple times...hanging around your place and u are told by someone she lost her way..will u really believe that she lost her way? And here I am not talking about believing that person who told u she lost her way..suppose she told that person lies when she got caught lurking around and made this excuse that she lost her way and left...that person tells u what she told him? But will u believe ki woh galti se wahan pahunchi?

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Vashti

@VashH

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#393

Originally posted by: delena90

You mean almost married. 😆

Oh and also make sure that when you are in love you would rather hold hands and braid each others hair. No sexy time ok? 😛😆

I always use this as a fun post on FB
But never realized it's double meaning until now
" Before going to war say a prayer ; before going to sea say two prayers
; before marrying say three prayers ".

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SOWMYA

@sowmy18

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#394

Originally posted by: anushreemishra

I am nt saying she is not hurting but no one can deny she is not having a good time...i have nothing against her enjoying herself no one needs to cry the whole day but instead of blaming everyone and moping remembering asad why can't she just find a way to go to KM and please don't say she can only leave when either asad picks her up or ayaan drops her she is not a kid who needs a 24*7 lookout...and yes right now i do have a problem with zoya's priorities she should be thinking about goig back to KV and not pleasing SM people likewise ayaan should ne with humeira and asad should stop mopping and start acting...these 3 idiots just mope nd do anything had they done somethinga nd taken time to enjoye i wouldn't have had any problems...also zoya decided to stay in SM this time so if i balme asad for not takling her away from SM everytime he promised i blame zoya too...

when the man she has trusted the most and is still asking her to trust him leaves her there with full confidence infront of everybody and is taking theresponcin=bility of taking her back himself then what's the point in her taking the first step!

she should have decided to take things in charge when he ashed her to sign the nikhaanama and she chose to believe him!

now if she suddenly go against him and wont let him do it in his way it means tht she is not trusting him enough!

and as far as her taking the side of sm in the last epi what more can she do!

despite knowing from whose house she cam and all they have been kind to her except mumaani ofcourse and she is actually pitying them!

see she's vry confident even now tht she will go back and she's just thinking about their feelings after she leaves because they r obviously kept in dark about all the situation and tht is what she is not likng!

why should they be kept in dark?

she ashed tht to ayaan also but if their own son chooses to be mum about all this then wht can she do?

and there is also the issue of dignity here?

Asad in a completely dignified mode left her here withou having any dirt on him then whyshould she loose herdignity by runnong away from sm?

he is the one who did this and he shld be the one who shld set it right!

they never gave him any choice in all this and she accepted this for once choosing to trust her love!

so she will not defy it!

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gossipgirlxoxo

@gossipgirlxoxo

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 11 years ago

#395

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

No other way..I told on your post also...I am totally agreeing with u on the necessity of ZoYaan..and the way it played out...for the sake of this argument I am letting go of the stupidity of the accidental Nikah...I will tell u how to keep the dignity of AsYa intact...Ayaan is a character already in the dumps...he says his bro slept with one woman to escape marriage with another...so I have no expectations from him...toh he can make a demand like he did at that time...Asad says he is no one to take that call...because it's truly not his decision to make...if they have got married it's their call..and he cannot ask Zoya to sacrifice for his sister...it's her sacrifice to make ...he steps back with dignity

Zoya...we know how selfless she is...she says...that she knows the repercussions of what she is getting into...and she agrees on her own..because somewhere she holds herself responsible for Nik's state..she leaves with Ayaan and the story proceeds...Ayaan helps her the way he is helping her now...and even he redeems himself...to some extent..and then aapko jo raaz kholna hai kholo...I will watch such a story Amber..ZoYaan included...

Lekin yeh ek character ke kapde utarke doosre ki izzat badhane ka maamla...sorry Amber..not acceptable😊 ..at least to me...this is weak writing

shruti , I still feel that this is one of the best Indian show... That I have heard about !

I will discuss my thoughts one by one... I don't want to lose it again.

I feel that all three of them were in character that night ... They acted exactly how their character was built. Though Zoya's character sketch is totally wrong . Most ABCD's that too educated ones ... Have only one prayer and request , please don't let me be married to a desi FOB. But since she has been set up in a typical modern Indian girl and not a typical NRI Indian girl. I feel that Both Asad and Zoya felt responsible for NikhatS condition and blamed themselves deep down.

Second both Asad and Zoya thought that Nikah was accidental but valid. Harm had been done.

Nobody except the audience knows that it is invalid , not even Ghazia

That fateful night Zoya went through emotional atyachaar , physical atyachaar .. Because of Tanu and accidental Nikah

Asad was worried about Zoya and then that bolt of community nikah and Nikhat's suicide.

They were emotionally vulnerable and did not think it through.

It's like what a tangled web we weave when we first practice to deceive. They thought that immediate concern was saving Nikhat's life , and they are doing it for a few hours... I have more thought butlet me post this first

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bips

@bips

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+ 8

Posted: 11 years ago

#396

Originally posted by: anushreemishra
I am nt saying she is not hurting but no one can deny she is not having a good time...i have nothing against her enjoying herself no one needs to cry the whole day but instead of blaming everyone and moping remembering asad why can't she just find a way to go to KM and please don't say she can only leave when either asad picks her up or ayaan drops her she is not a kid who needs a 24*7 lookout...and yes right now i do have a problem with zoya's priorities she should be thinking about goig back to KV and not pleasing SM people likewise ayaan should ne with humeira and asad should stop mopping and start acting...these 3 idiots just mope nd do anything had they done somethinga nd taken time to enjoye i wouldn't have had any problems...also zoya decided to stay in SM this time so if i balme asad for not takling her away from SM everytime he promised i blame zoya too...

Personally i would love to see her pack her bags and leave foe newyork ...

but anyways, why should she leave on her own ? Asad dragged her by the hand to SM in front of all the guests and handed her over to ayaan like a gift item ... So if he wants her back, he bloody well should stand up and tell everyone on their face that he is taking zoya back ... Why have ayaan sneak her out or have her waiting for him on some road

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SOWMYA

@sowmy18

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#397

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

U are missing my point again Sowmy...forget Imraan for a second please...if u see the woman who tried to kill u and your family multiple times...hanging around your place and u are told by someone she lost her way..will u really believe that she lost her way? And here I am not talking about believing that person who told u she lost her way..suppose she told that person lies when she got caught lurking around and made this excuse that she lost her way and left...that person tells u what she told him? But will u believe ki woh galti se wahan pahunchi?

shru did u read my post completely?

and as far as ur question is concerned i seriously cannot answer it without imraan in the picture?

if there was no imraan then what you said might have been true but with imraan in picture its different!

because she had doubts on imraan first and then it was revealed about tanveer so she'll definitelt think tht its abt imraan-tanveer and not abt them right?

because if it was related to them why is she talking to imraan then without touching any of the family members especially asad or her?

so if she has to say abt tanveer she has to say abt imraan also definitely because with him shw was seen first!

this she cannot do without hurting najma and asad!

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starsinmyeyes

@starsinmyeyes

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 11 years ago

#398

Originally posted by: gossipgirlxoxo
shruti , I still feel that this is one of the best Indian show... That I have heard about !
I will discuss my thoughts one by one... I don't want to lose it again.
I feel that all three of them were in character that night ... They acted exactly how their character was built. Though Zoya's character sketch is totally wrong . Most ABCD's that too educated ones ... Have only one prayer and request , please don't let me be married to a desi FOB. But since she has been set up in a typical modern Indian girl and not a typical NRI Indian girl. I feel that Both Asad and Zoya felt responsible for NikhatS condition and blamed themselves deep down.
Second both Asad and Zoya thought that Nikah was accidental but valid. Harm had been done.
Nobody except the audience knows that it is invalid , not even Ghazia
That fateful night Zoya went through emotional atyachaar , physical atyachaar .. Because of Tanu and accidental Nikah
Asad was worried about Zoya and then that bolt of community nikah and Nikhat's suicide.
They were emotionally vulnerable and did not think it through.
It's like what a tangled web we weave when we first practice to deceive. They thought that immediate concern was saving Nikhat's life , and they are doing it for a few hours... I have more thought butlet me post this first

It's not even close...Buniyaad, Hum log, Siddhant, Sarabhai vs Sarabhai, ek mahal ho sapnon ka...miles ahead in terms of scripting...it's simple Amber..from where I see it..after so much trust issues and separation and problems..AsYa should have known better...Asad was most vulnerable when his mom got shot and when he was caught on the SR night with Tanveer...he still did not lose as much dignity then as he has lost now...for me Asad is irreparable..

Coming to Zoe...she was always the unconventional NRI...a loudmouth but with a brain..functional one...the built up to her dumbness was apologetic to say the least...and this is the same girl who saved Naj from the goons and save Mariam..all with same impulsiveness...she is one who would have stepped up...her father's death was an emotianally vulnerable news for her she still took with her head held high...choosing between Asad and her abbu's truth was another fork in the road...she had almost given him up...and trust me I did not point fingers at her love for Asad then..she did what a human would do when faced with such a dilemma..

QH was as close to real and I hate watching Indian telly now...but I loved QH for it's simplistic and believable portrayal of human emotions...and now I cannot relate with a wimp like Asad, a woman with no self respect like Zoya and a pathetic brother like Ayaan...and something I cannot relate to...I cannot feel any sympathy for it...there were bigger vulnerable moments that were handled with a quiet dignity...this was not the zenith of their problems...they haven't bloody seen the zenith yet

Edited by starsinmyeyes - 11 years ago

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sheilasandhu

@sheilasandhu

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 11 years ago

#399

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

And this is an almost convincing explanation...👏

But the fact remains Sheila...we are discussing a fictional show that is made by CVs...NajRan, FarNik, Zoe's lack of prompt action after sighting Tanveer in KV for the first time which was so unlike her, her saying that Asad may not trust her without proof even after all they went through, her being loaned and now stupid reasons of prolonging her stay at SM, the total butchering of everyone else..Dil included...the miscommunication...is all done for one thing...ZoYaan...is it worth it?

Not worth it. I suppose we are looking at it like a real life situation which most likely would not happen. But if it does than thats how we would react. In this scenario it's a damn serial with stupid illogical writers and to make it worse the producers and channel are not even looking into the logic at all.

Appalled totally appalled 😲😲😲