Originally posted by: chicksoup
Sangeeta,
By and large, I agree with you...😊
Except for learning to be selfish. It is about STANDING FOR WHAT YOU BELIEVE IN.
ZOYA FIRMLY BELIEVES IN HER LOVE...AND SHE WILL STAND BY THAT EVEN IF THE MOST RESPECTED ELDER IN THE SOCIETY CAME AND ASKED HER TO ACCEPT HER FATE.
And when you stand for what you believe in, you should also be careful that you can sacrifice so much as what is required for others, but not so much as to harm yourself. SELF PRESERVATION, rather than selfishness.
For me, this whole track has been about society coming in between TWO love stories...now it has extended to the family also. At the end of this, only Zoya is going to be hauled over, because again, A WOMAN IS MORE ANSWERABLE THAN A MAN.
You know, the the ideals our grandmothers keep drilling into us...
A man can do whatever he wants...it is up to a woman to know where to draw the line...because no one is going to question a man.
This happened in IPKKND too.
Khushi was forced into marrying Arnav, he blackmailed her over her sister's marriage.
At the end of it, when people realised they were not PROPERLY married, ALL FINGERS WERE RAISED ONLY AT KHUSHI.
I hope we are seeing that on a larger scale here...😳
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