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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: bheegi


asad and ayaan still have the same relationship

ayaan asks, asad gives...


Exactly! Like I said a while back Asad and Ayaan have a give and take relationship: Asad gives and Ayaan takes!!!! 😃 A whole new meaning to the age old phrase!! Waiting for the dynamics to turn around!
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Posted: 12 years ago
Sangeeta,
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Does it pay to be shareef?😆 No it doesn't. 😭 Never in real life.😆

What about promises? Are you supposed to keep them?


This is what I feel about this :

We don't exhibit sharafat to get anything out of it. Being nice to someone, is not with the expectation of getting something in return. It is purely a goodwill gesture...sometimes the person at the receiving end of that gesture, might not thank you or might even go against you at a later date.

Nikhat showed some sharafat too. She should have boldly stood up and said that Imran had hurt her, and it is upto Asad to decide whether to send another sister with a man who had made an alliance with her while still in love with another woman. What was his (Imran's) sharafat?

But she did not. Because she cared for Najma, Imran and her brothers, in spite of her pain.

That night, Asad had made a promise- TO HIMSELF. That he would make sure he did ALL IT TOOK, to save THIS SISTER, if it ever came to any situation so demanding.

When that demand came, he had to deliver his promise..that is the only way I see this now.

What about the promise he made to Zoya? Never to let her go...He holds on to that...keeps reminding her at every juncture- Have faith in our love.

Not letting go of ever, does not mean only physically. She is there with him, every waking and sleeping moment...it is unfortunate that separation came, but he can only wait for the promise to Nikhat to be fulfilled, before he gets Zoya back. In the meanwhile, Ayan has promised him that he will make sure Zoya is welcomed and made to feel at home in SM...and he knows he will try his very level best.

Why I feel Asad will not solve the mess:

He has not even registered Imran and Tanveer. And she has had a twist so ironic that she has forgotten about everything else...And this situation can only end with Nikhat's marriage...

Going by viewer's expectations in Gul's previous shows...since I really do not have any attraction for a knightđŸ„± in place of a devdas😳😆...I feel Asad will be a suffering hero until the ambulance moment comes...so until Zoya is really in trouble, he will continue to be blind and inactive in his own sorrow...he was cheated too..by muqaddar. And he has done her a great wrong, for the sake of a life he had sworn to protect.

Logic and action: I expect it only from Gul's female leads..😆..at least for the first half of the love story.😉

The second half should be different.😆

Plenty of knight and damsel in distresss...





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Posted: 12 years ago
maybe he will soon realize it that its not paying him at all to be shareef
i hope its sooner rather than later
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: bheegi



what a price these guys have to pay to be together...phew😆

dese guys r paying a price wich dey r nt even able to tolerate ...dard bardaast karne ki bhi hadh hoti h ... dese sm people r nt realising wat asya r undergoing ...dey r too selfish to realise ...
but i want asad to take sum strict action now ...
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Sangeeta,

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Does it pay to be shareef?😆 No it doesn't. 😭 Never in real life.😆

What about promises? Are you supposed to keep them?


This is what I feel about this :

We don't exhibit sharafat to get anything out of it. Being nice to someone, is not with the expectation of getting something in return. It is purely a goodwill gesture...sometimes the person at the receiving end of that gesture, might not thank you or might even go against you at a later date.

Nikhat showed some sharafat too. She should have boldly stood up and said that Imran had hurt her, and it is upto Asad to decide whether to send another sister with a man who had made an alliance with her while still in love with another woman. What was his (Imran's) sharafat?

But she did not. Because she cared for Najma, Imran and her brothers, in spite of her pain.

That night, Asad had made a promise- TO HIMSELF. That he would make sure he did ALL IT TOOK, to save THIS SISTER, if it ever came to any situation so demanding.

When that demand came, he had to deliver his promise..that is the only way I see this now.

What about the promise he made to Zoya? Never to let her go...He holds on to that...keeps reminding her at every juncture- Have faith in our love.

Not letting go of ever, does not mean only physically. She is there with him, every waking and sleeping moment...it is unfortunate that separation came, but he can only wait for the promise to Nikhat to be fulfilled, before he gets Zoya back. In the meanwhile, Ayan has promised him that he will make sure Zoya is welcomed and made to feel at home in SM...and he knows he will try his very level best.

Why I feel Asad will not solve the mess:

He has not even registered Imran and Tanveer. And she has had a twist so ironic that she has forgotten about everything else...And this situation can only end with Nikhat's marriage...

Going by viewer's expectations in Gul's previous shows...since I really do not have any attraction for a knightđŸ„± in place of a devdas😳😆...I feel Asad will be a suffering hero until the ambulance moment comes...so until Zoya is really in trouble, he will continue to be blind and inactive in his own sorrow...he was cheated too..by muqaddar. And he has done her a great wrong, for the sake of a life he had sworn to protect.

Logic and action: I expect it only from Gul's female leads..😆..at least for the first half of the love story.😉

The second half should be different.😆

Plenty of knight and damsel in distresss...






I feel by showing the male lead passive and weak for such a long time can cost the story a lot of viewers. I love strong female leads but I want a strong male lead to complement her strength.

I know Gul is a staunch feminist but are all men in her life really that weak???

I hope the second half of the show has started NOW😆
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: bheegi


asad and ayaan still have the same relationship

ayaan asks, asad gives...


if ayaan had come to asad's house and told him that he wants to marry zoya because he is in love with her! I assure u! Ayaan would have been dead meat! don't forget that situations/destiny played a big part in the whole giving away zoya temporarily thing
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: bheegi


I feel by showing the male lead passive and weak for such a long time can cost the story a lot of viewers. I love strong female leads but I want a strong male lead to complement her strength.

I know Gul is a staunch feminist but are all men in her life really that weak???

I hope the second half of the show has started NOW😆


Losing viewers with a weak male lead:

He is not weak...just shareef...which is what every mother and sister out there wants. The forum is a totally different world, because many of the people who come here, come for the pretty leads- we are advocates of a love story. Not necessarily so with the TV audience.

They are the ones who use the remote... focus on a love story for too long, bores them..because they have plenty of choices..they need a maha twist. Unless U want to make and sell a show like YRKKH or DABH or BV- which is too preachy for Gul. She likes a bit of everything...and if she keeps the hero blatantly wrong, it is only to add to the romantic value.

All women love a woman wronged..and they want revenge...I guess.


It is not that men in her life are weak...the men in her life are quite strong. And she derives inspiration from them, I guess. Being strong does not mean macho or making the right decsions...it is the ability to accept U R wrong, and then make amends. All her heroes do just that.

On the second part coming now...

😆 Gul is best at keeping her leads apart.😉

Right now, Asad does not believe he has lost Zoya.

Twice he thought he lost Zoya...and both times he went back for her...

1. Mangalpur

2. Pre Ajmer.

Right now, he feels cheated too...If she had not left that night...if she had not foolishly got married..he keeps wishing.

But he knows deliverance is at hand...he can control this...when things get out of control, I guess we will see the Lion.
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Posted: 12 years ago
meeraaa Assshhaaaddd đŸ€Ł
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Posted: 12 years ago
seriously asad has d knck of holding on sharafat wen it is barely neededđŸ˜”
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: chicksoup


Losing viewers with a weak male lead:

He is not weak...just shareef...which is what every mother and sister out there wants. The forum is a totally different world, because many of the people who come here, come for the pretty leads- we are advocates of a love story. Not necessarily so with the TV audience.

They are the ones who use the remote... focus on a love story for too long, bores them..because they have plenty of choices..they need a maha twist. Unless U want to make and sell a show like YRKKH or DABH or BV- which is too preachy for Gul. She likes a bit of everything...and if she keeps the hero blatantly wrong, it is only to add to the romantic value.

All women love a woman wronged..and they want revenge...I guess.


It is not that men in her life are weak...the men in her life are quite strong. And she derives inspiration from them, I guess. Being strong does not mean macho or making the right decsions...it is the ability to accept U R wrong, and then make amends. All her heroes do just that.

On the second part coming now...

😆 Gul is best at keeping her leads apart.😉

Right now, Asad does not believe he has lost Zoya.

Twice he thought he lost Zoya...and both times he went back for her...

1. Mangalpur

2. Pre Ajmer.

Right now, he feels cheated too...If she had not left that night...if she had not foolishly got married..he keeps wishing.

But he knows deliverance is at hand...he can control this...when things get out of control, I guess we will see the Lion.


Maybe I should re phrase it- Asad has lately been too passive

As a woman viewer, I want a real hero to match a real heroine. So, yes can't wait for my lion to wake up and roar again


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