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Posted: 11 years ago
#81

Originally posted by: niki_12

Agree completely! I have a feeling very soon this will change though. This was the final nail in the coffin. The minute something happens to Zoya he won't care about anyone.

This track will teach him Zoya is # 1 priority. Dilshad made him realize how Nikhat had her family but Zoya has no one. Then Ayaan came and he is banking on Ayaan to protect Zoya. And remember he even told Zoya you can take care of yourself? Well we all know she can't and once Zoya is hurt, nothing will even be above Zoya in the list of priorities. No sister no brother no mother. All this is needed for Zoya's part because like Ankie said she is going to be all alone then and it is very likely that Dilshad may support Rashid as well.

Finally, Zoya has been placed in her mayka, it is only right for Asad to claim her as his in front of all SM people and take her to his house.


yes Niki...that's what I am hoping for too. Something will trigger the resurgence of our lion soon...not after 3 months but SOON


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Posted: 11 years ago
#82

Originally posted by: debate123

I honestly think that ship has sailed...and we as audience need to move...there is a lot more interesting storylines still to be written...zoya ;s father...Tanveer...Imran and najma...nikhat and Farhan...I never watched for Asya and their love story was nice but very boring...Gul Khan has a chance to redeemed her self to her fans if she shows positive outcomes from these mistakes...like the accidental marriage...the separation of the lead pairs...we really need her as an audience of women to strengthen the women in her show and not make them so weak and sucidial


I know Gul's intentions are good. She wants to give a good message to the society but she just takes too long to get to the point and doesn't always mix the tracks properly. A negative track should be followed by a positive one right away, not months later
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Posted: 11 years ago
#83

Originally posted by: LaVita-E-Bella

Hey bheegi! Love the post!

Been wanting to comment on your posts, but just had a lot going on past few days =/.
Completely agree with you here, and I think this will be his biggest lesson. HIs sacrifice will not be noticed or appreciated, hell it's not being appreciated right now. Everyone in the damn SM house is going about their normal day as if nothing happened. Only people who are suffering are Humaira, Ayaan, Zoya and Asad. Even Nikhat does not realize or appreciate what they all did for her. And she contradicted herself when she said she feels guilty, and then at the same time says there's no guarantee about Haseena.
Even in reality, from personal experience, I've learned that no matter what you do for others, even your own family, it never pays in the end. That's why I understood his decision, yet was disappointed in it. I think they only way they can redeem him now is by showing HIM to be the one to fix this entire mess. Also, when the truth comes out about the doll factory and Zoya's father and mother, he will be the only one to stand beside Zoya.
He needs to put his foot down now and like you said claim his love back. THis is one thing that I have hated about what the writers did to Asad's character. Yes, some of the changes were good for him, but they completely changed him. The old Asad would have never allowed Zoya to step into the house he hates the most with a passion. The house that took away his mother's happiness and now took away his. Ironic isn't it? This is one parallel that I found not just between Asad and Rashid, but also Asad and Dilshaad. Years ago when her happiness was snatched away, she didn't fight for it. She didn't try to get it back. She had every right to, yet she stayed quiet. Took everything that was hurled at her.
The people who shocked me the most were Rashid and Badi Bi. At the end of the day, it kind of shows which family is more important to them. Badi Bi taking Zoya to Ayaan's room, and I have a feeling she's going to try to bring the two closer which will be such a huge disappointment. Asad and Zoya were the ones who saved you, yet you couldn't speak up for them? And Rashid, you know exactly what your son was going through because you went through the same 17 years ago did you not? You let your son make the same sacrifice you made. You didn't speak up for him. No wonder he hates you so much.


thanks Lavita. Yesterday's episode proved that everyone at the SM is selfish to the core and have no idea of the magnitude of AsYa's sacrifice

Rashid baffles me- he knows what it means to lose the love of your life. Wish he would show more empathy with asad- instead he was happily eating breakfast and consoling zoya with his hollow words

Ayaan- less said the better. What's the point of keeping everyone and especially Humeira in the dark?

Badi B- be an elder, couldn't she tell how reluctant Ayaan and Zoya were? Does she not know the Islamic laws?

Nikhat- guilty but coward

Nuzzat- clueless. She thinks sibling bond is everything.

Razia-Ghafoor- never expected anything from them. Ghafoor at least acknowledged the sacrifice (I never expected that)
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Posted: 11 years ago
#84
Hi Sangi,
The second part of your post where Zoya was referred to as a orphan made me really teary...in all this I completed forgot that she is an orphan...she was the one who lost her home once again in all this...she lost a mother above everything. But, I still cannot sympathize with her because I believe ones self respect is far more important than love...she trusted Asad once again and has been betrayed.

As for Asad...he will never realize the worth of Zoya because I don't think he has ever given her the required pedestal in his life...she should have been his first and foremost priority but he has failed her time and again.

Asad has lost Zoya's trust forever and this time I am afraid for good. He has betrayed her and she very well knows that...her monologue very well validates that...should a woman take back a man who traded her as a pawn...as a collateral...NO, definitely not.

As far as I am concerned Zoya should go as far as possible from these men. It's definitely not worth it.

Priyanka
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Posted: 11 years ago
#85

Originally posted by: anushreemishra

hi di...wow i had busy day and missed your post😭chalo better late than never😆

Great post di...Asad needs to learn where to draw the line between what he should and what he shouldn't do for his siblings...he has done a lot for them before but not once has he been appreciated for that and most of the times misunderstood and rediculed by the SM people...
Take for instance the case when Haseena bi broke the engagement for the first time and asad fixed that by giving haseena the bungalow...everyone in SM rediculed her yes ayaan stood up for him and nikhat knew about it but still none really stood up for him when he needed them...
Ayaan called him sautela,they all misundertood him during the SR fiasco,during nikhat najma fiasco...its like whatever he does isn't enough for them...everybody talks ki until their bhaijaan is with them nothing bad can happen they have always just expected him to do stuff for them but never understood what he wanted...even in this whole fake drama nikaah not for once did anyone in SM realize how much asad has sacrificed...nikhat wasn't bothered about him at all,i won't even talk about ayaan nd shireen those selfish jerks even rashid doesn't see how much he has sacrificed all he sees is that he has sacrificed for his brothers and sisters...
You know being sharif is good but being too sharif is very very dangerous coz people will take advantage of you and you won't even realize how wrong they are...i hope asad becomes a little selfish and gets zoya back because the more time he takes the greater will be the damage...
i just hope we see our lion back in action soon😃


thanks anushree...yeah, his step siblings love him as long as he does what they want.
As I told you in my PM, I hated every member of SM yesterday. Everyone from rashid to ayaan to badi b to nikhat are being selfish...from the others I never expected much anyways
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Posted: 11 years ago
#86

Originally posted by: bheegi



thanks sona.

Three important ingredients in a couple's relationship- love, trust, respect

Asad learnt how to love- it took a long time (Mangalpur)

Asad learnt how to trust- it took him an even longer time (Tanveer)

Asad will learn how to respect- it will again take long time (current track)


exactly he ll learn to respect zoya...n dat ll cumplete deir relation ...
n i guess in all dis mess zoya ll learn to confide in asad ...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#87

Originally posted by: Rupunzale

Hi Sangi,

The second part of your post where Zoya was referred to as a orphan made me really teary...in all this I completed forgot that she is an orphan...she was the one who lost her home once again in all this...she lost a mother above everything. But, I still cannot sympathize with her because I believe ones self respect is far more important than love...she trusted Asad once again and has been betrayed.

As for Asad...he will never realize the worth of Zoya because I don't think he has ever given her the required pedestal in his life...she should have been his first and foremost priority but he has failed her time and again.

Asad has lost Zoya's trust forever and this time I am afraid for good. He has betrayed her and she very well knows that...her monologue very well validates that...should a woman take back a man who traded her as a pawn...as a collateral...NO, definitely not.

As far as I am concerned Zoya should go as far as possible from these men. It's definitely not worth it.

Priyanka


Hi Pri. Yes, Zoya has been abandoned by her adoptive family. Even Dilshaad and Najma have not bothered to call her or try to understand what happened that night and how she is doing.

Because Zoya loves them so much and considers them family, I know she will forgive them but asad needs to show some action. At least try to figure out what could have happened that night. Inaction in my opinion is as good as abandonment. He will have to work really hard to get her back this time...and it needs to start NOW. In the real world, she would have gone back to NY as you are suggesting but this is a story and as we know AsYa are destined to be together so I'd rather just think in those terms.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sona_naksh

exactly he ll learn to respect zoya...n dat ll cumplete deir relation ...
n i guess in all dis mess zoya ll learn to confide in asad ...


what a price these guys have to pay to be together...phew😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
#89
Exactly!
Dilshad was very right when she said that Nikhat has everybody around her, for her! But Zoya has him only...
And leaving aside that, Asad knows Zoya's views about marriage! She has told him thousands of times! The time in their backyard on the day before nikah, ie, the backyard SubhanAllah romance, always comes to my mind whenever I think of her view about nikah!.and Asad can't forget or ignore it!
Okay..he loves Nikhat a lot, but was their no other way? He could have talked to Haseena Bi and she was right there..but still Asad choose to sacrifice his love for his sister, on the pleading of the lady who took away all their happiness! !
Ya it is act of selflessness, but this? Sacrifice and hurt your love to the core althpugh other methods could have been found out?? Not expected from you Asad miyaan!c


By the way, Asad could have tried to talk to Nikhat, right? And he knows Nikhat always listens to him! But no,he didn't do that..Actually I blame the CVs for this! I am not really impressed with the way they made Zoyaan! The nikah accident was okay..but Nikhat waala twist wasn't that convincing!

And Rashid's expressions irritated me to the core! He knows how much Zoya loves Asad. Still so normal? He really doesn't deserve a woman like Dilshad at all! And what did Gaffur say:

tin maheene ki baat hai! Kya ho jaega?

Really? He is supposed to love his daughter dearly and he knows the intensity of Humaira's love for Ayan.Still!*shakes heas disapproavingly*
And in all this mess, Humaira has been forgotten! She is the only one who is suffering without any fault of hers, expect perhaps falling in love with a guy who doesn't deserve her at all!


And you were right! The only good thing about this track is it shows that Surbhi is a fantabulous actress!*fangirling mode on*
But they have been dragging it for two episodes and it's very boring*yawns*
No matter how much I love Zoya aka Surbhi onscreen, AsYa are the charm for me, not Asad & Zoya!!

PS- Just saw how long reply I'm posting!
PPS- awesome post di!*fangirling*
PPPS-Can I say that I just love your ff Faasle...and was grinning like an idiot when Zoya used the term 'faasle' in the episode when she got Asad's call?
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Posted: 11 years ago
#90

Originally posted by: bheegi


Hi Pri. Yes, Zoya has been abandoned by her adoptive family. Even Dilshaad and Najma have not bothered to call her or try to understand what happened that night and how she is doing.

Because Zoya loves them so much and considers them family, I know she will forgive them but asad needs to show some action. At least try to figure out what could have happened that night. Inaction in my opinion is as good as abandonment. He will have to work really hard to get her back this time...and it needs to start NOW. In the real world, she would have gone back to NY as you are suggesting but this is a story and as we know AsYa are destined to be together so I'd rather just think in those terms.

what surprised me immensely was that not once has Dilshad or Najma called her...hasn't Dilshad time and again professed her as her daughter...so what happened? She did call her biological daughter Najma...even gave her some very regressive ideas like a woman's husband is her everything...but not once did she felt a necessity to call Zoya. So the reality is it's only Zoya who has adopted then as their own but not the other way around.
Yes, in real life she would have gone back to NYC but Zoya going back to the man who literally traded her is not a good message and definitely a very regressive one.

Yes this is a soap and the female lead cannot really move back to NYC for the matter and I am sure she will not be portrayed as a financially independent working woman either but Gul khan can definitely introduce a new man in her life after this 3months ordeal is over.

As a person although a romantic at heart I don't believe in the fact that people are destined to be together or in soul-mates so my thoughts are very straight about Asya not being together. I don't know what Gul has planned for the future but I believe this is her chance to really show her progressive thoughts...a woman doesn't need a man to live her life...a woman keeps her self respect intact...a woman has the capability to overcome betrayal and move on for better things.

I would applaud Gul khan if she really uses this opportunity to clear such misconceptions.

PS: I am actually glad that I am not watching the show anymore...just reading updates and it does it for me.

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