Originally posted by: -Shayari-
But they aren't married.
Why are people missing the fact that zoyaan aren't married cause even if they sign nikahnama, Zoya is Zoya farooqui and even they do sign nikah bana as Zoya farooqui and ayan Ahmed khan the real nikah is the way it's done properly with qazi reading and asking the couple if they accept. Here the two are confirming a nikah that never happened so how are they marrying?
And forget tat but even if Zoya is married. Why csnt she get divorced? That's the thing isn't it should these pathar ki lakeer rules be changed? Marriage isn't binding. It can he broken if it's unwanted. In fact it should be because marriage doesn't mean accepting a lifetime of unhappiness. If it's accidental and unwanted a couple has every right to get out of it if they want to.
I'm not Islamic so forgive me if I say anything that's wrong or hurtful cause I don't meant to be but I just think that what the cvs are showing is a rather important social message. Marriage u can sign papers and put names together but you cant force two hearts together. Unwanted marriages should be able to be broken. Cause ultimately what's important is the two people in the marriage and where their happiness lies.
ZoYaan are not married at first place I know that. 😊
But I am saying if they go with the concept of contract marriage acc to which the marriage after specific time period will be void, then it is not allowed. And to marry someone Only to get divorce afterwards is NOT allowed in Islam and Contract Marriage means the same.
First, there is no concept of accidental marriage. And yes the marriage can be broken when it is unwanted or unbearable for you to carry on but it's a respectable institution in the view of Islam; once the marriage is done couple should try their best to maintain it for its sanctity but still if they can't then it can be broken. Divorce is allowed in Islam but it should be avoided at the very best of the couple and there might be certain imp reasons for that.
Whether the couple is happy or not in a marriage, after the divorce their feelings, sentiments and hopes are shattered.
Woman especially has to face a lot after her divorce, she is labeled as a divorced woman.
In one of the previous episodes Shireen called Dilshad as "chori hui aurat" and Dilshad called Shireen, "dusri aurat". Our conservative society put these kind of offensive labels on women after they get divorced or when they get married for the 2nd time. It is sad and shouldn't be like that, but it's the bitter reality which exists in our society even in today's modern era.
I hope you get my points.😊
Edited by ...Binish... - 11 years ago
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