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Posted: 11 years ago
Wow...u ladies have been busy...serious discussion to trolling all in the span of one morning
So looks like there are a few who think ayaan will fall for zoya. I don't think so...but again this man is hard to predict

I too think we will see some humy/ zoya conflict...even if it is short term and one sided. I still feel Zoya will find out her relationshipwith Gaffur in SM

I am most interested in seeing Razia in action now.

If I were Zoya. .. I'd dump both men.

VS and SJ pairing...haha...🤣... we again get into the whole incest area...but I m partial to VS since Heena days.

I think I covered all points. Oh and I refuse to watch the BTS. The feminist in me will need to go borrow nikhat and humys khooni chaku.

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: monaco


Firstly the biggest fault is of every character's weakness/flaw.

Lets see how this situation came up.

What happened with Humeira and Ayaan was purely destiny (on the road). The love birds went out for some personal time, but got attacked. So, here the mistake is the CVs, or Muqaddar. :)

The next fault is of Zoya. She is always impulsive and in a Save the world mode. Her intentions were right, but, she was rash and it is one big big mistake now that has put so many lives at stake.

Then, the biggest fault is of Shirin - who has fed into Nikhat that she is good for nothing, causing her to take the extreme step.

Then, is Ayaan. Who was selfish to objectify his own bhabhi and ask her for saving his sister's life. After having known how much Asad and Zoya have been through, and being in love himself, he should not have asked this from him.

Asad's fault is not that he is making the sacrifice. He is gullible (and as Vikrant says, has always been taken for granted) and emotionally challenged. He has been deprived of love and always been the giver. So, he is compelled in his own morality and righteousness to do what has to be done. His fault is that he is (along with Ayaan) becoming insensitive to what Zoya wants at the moment.

Zoya is an orphan, who has no one to watch her best interest right now. Dilshaad is clueless, and her own aapi jiju are not around. she only has Asad to bank on, and just in a matter of few minutes, Asad has decided to drop Zoya off in this house, where she was once accused of murder, and slapped twice, and he himself knows the kind of people Razia and team are. Zoya is pleading Asad to not make her go through this - but being emotionally manipulated himself into believing this is the only way to save his sister, he is making her go through it. That is wrong.

Zoya wants to explain to everyone and clear the confusion.

He does not.

(atleast so it seems).

I am not angry at Asad for the sacrifice. I have a problem with the fact that Zoya is unwilling to do this, but still has to go through this.

As such, all three are at a loss - Ayaan, Asad and Zoya. No one gains from this arrangement, not even Nikhat in my opinion. Only Haseena does.

And, all three are to blame. In a way each's negative trait - Ayaan's taking Asad for granted, Zoya's impulsiveness and Asad's emotionally wrecked background - have brought them here.

No one is right, no one is wrong. All are right, and all are wrong.

Ayaan was clueless and is making a sacrifice for his sister. He hasn't even spoken to Humeira yet. How will he face her again? How will he face his brother again?

Zoya brought this upon herself. Yes, but should a woman be punished so harshly for a mistake of hers, that was originally only for saving your sister? But even now she has not told Asad the truth. /hiding the fact that Imran is the father of Tanveer's baby - is NOT RIGHT. No matter what her intention. If not anything Zoya should learn not to hide anything from Asad.

Asad is wrong too - not in doing what he did, but in oversimplifying a complex problem. I dont blame him, because he is too shocked to think straight either, but, I can not totally say that he is not at fault at all.

My sypmathies are with all three, but so is my anger.

But there is one person I have no sympathy and all anger - producer, Gul Khan. She really has made a mockery of Islam, marriage, and most sadly, women. Zoya who was supposed to be a proggressive, modern woman has been victimized and manipulated into doing something she detested IN THE VERY first episode. The Zoya I knew would not have done this.


I love your posts 😊 extremely well balanced. I agree entirely to what you said. I feel sorry for all the characters, some more, some less but at this moment everyone is doing what their characters would do at this point and from their POV I do not feel like I should be blaming anyone. Whatever is happening is a chain reaction, its happening because another character has done something that lead another character to take a certain decision or say some words.

As for Gul, I do feel that she could have handled this track more maturely, but as far as women are concerned, I see she is biased to Zoya 😆 hence I believe that YES atm she is showing something regressive, but she has to show the norm that is going on these days before she takes a step to show its wrong, in the future episodes. I believe she'll go ahead and highlight that what Nikhat is doing is weak and wrong, and marriage is not the end of the world, and same goes for the other tracks that are questionable atm. Not defending her, but Gul hasn't disappointed as such so yea 😊
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Ankita.M


I love your posts 😊 extremely well balanced. I agree entirely to what you said. I feel sorry for all the characters, some more, some less but at this moment everyone is doing what their characters would do at this point and from their POV I do not feel like I should be blaming anyone. Whatever is happening is a chain reaction, its happening because another character has done something that lead another character to take a certain decision or say some words.

As for Gul, I do feel that she could have handled this track more maturely, but as far as women are concerned, I see she is biased to Zoya 😆 hence I believe that YES atm she is showing something regressive, but she has to show the norm that is going on these days before she takes a step to show its wrong, in the future episodes. I believe she'll go ahead and highlight that what Nikhat is doing is weak and wrong, and marriage is not the end of the world, and same goes for the other tracks that are questionable atm. Not defending her, but Gul hasn't disappointed as such so yea 😊

also SJ only say this track also entertaining she is not even mention about Zoyaan will fall
yah there lot of drama will happen and AsYA reuniting will also happen



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Posted: 11 years ago
I am sorry I dont understand why Ayaan is going without blame here. True, Asad is at fault but he is being portrayed true to his character. Ayan was the one who came and asked for his bhabhi, disrespecting Zoya equally if not more than his brother. So this whole bit of him comforting his wife and then they both falling for each other, is crap for me.
And I dont blame Asad completely either. Ayan and Zoya did make a big mistake that has monumental consequences. If Asad was to say, Ayan and Rashid's family go to hell, I am marrying my love and something was to happen to Nikhat - would Asad and Zoya's love ever survive. Knowing the foundation of it. Zoya also understands that and this is why she is supporting Asad, even though she is heartbroken. I am also also for women's rights and choices, but this I cant seem to blame and hate Asad. Its a beautiful love story of Asad and Zoya and I hope its essence remains the same. Call me a romantic if you want. In love its not always about ME, me and me, its about us and what things are important to my partner:)
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: tingding

I am sorry I dont understand why Ayaan is going without blame here. True, Asad is at fault but he is being portrayed true to his character. Ayan was the one who came and asked for his bhabhi, disrespecting Zoya equally if not more than his brother. So this whole bit of him comforting his wife and then they both falling for each other, is crap for me.

And I dont blame Asad completely either. Ayan and Zoya did make a big mistake that has monumental consequences. If Asad was to say, Ayan and Rashid's family go to hell, I am marrying my love and something was to happen to Nikhat - would Asad and Zoya's love ever survive. Knowing the foundation of it. Zoya also understands that and this is why she is supporting Asad, even though she is heartbroken. I am also also for women's rights and choices, but this I cant seem to blame and hate Asad. Its a beautiful love story of Asad and Zoya and I hope its essence remains the same. Call me a romantic if you want. In love its not always about ME, me and me, its about us and what things are important to my partner:)



Ayaan is an ass - but asad is the man who promised to love zoya and he is forcing her to do something against her will for what? His manipulative ass of a brother!


And your line about it being about "us" vs "me". How is what asad is doing not about HIM and HIS family.

All these characters are asses and right now both brothers are the biggest of them all. Zoya running off does not mean asad gets to force a marriage she doesn't want on her. He can dump her and choose never to be with her but he can't make decision about her life.

And call me unromantic but asya is not love - it's obsession, immature and silly as all Indian romances are.
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Posted: 11 years ago
hye brow can i borrow ur wife and then he willlfalllin love isnot disgusteddd
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Posted: 11 years ago
I dont get GUL's obsession with the siblings bond. At times the way she potrays sublings bond is disgusting. She did the same in IPK where Arnav would go all crazy and would go to any extreme to do anything for his stupid selfish Di🤢. His "DI" was alwaysss his priority and Khushi was taken for granted.

Here i can see the exact samething. Asad's love for his step siblings🤢.Hes ready to go to any extent for his selfish bro and sis who just use him in the time of need and later call him sautela🤢. I wonder after seeing Asad's puppysick love for his bro Ayaan how will they have a clash???😕
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: delena90



Ayaan is an ass - but asad is the man who promised to love zoya and he is forcing her to do something against her will for what? His manipulative ass of a brother!


I am not even denying Asad's culpability here:) All I am saying is that just because Asad is at fault, doesnt mean that Ayan is a better fit for her. Saying that, as real life characters I can understand where these characters are coming from. As Ankita26 very beautifully explained their flaws and weaknesses. Asad and Zoya cannot build a happy life over Nikhat's misery. That Nikhat's in-laws are assholes is another question all together. And Zoya also realizes this. I think one of the reasons she is not standing up for herself is that she knows her mindless mistake has gone out of proportions in its consequences and second she trusts Asad. Its never black and white is it and I for one, am glad that character nuances are being brought about. If Asad would have said no to Ayan for Nikhat's life, I would have been disappointed with his character.

BTW love your analysis and your practical point of view, while sometimes not agreeing with you:)
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: tingding



I am not even denying Asad's culpability here:) All I am saying is that just because Asad is at fault, doesnt mean that Ayan is a better fit for her. Saying that, as real life characters I can understand where these characters are coming from. As Ankita26 very beautifully explained their flaws and weaknesses. Asad and Zoya cannot build a happy life over Nikhat's misery. That Nikhat's in-laws are assholes is another question all together. And Zoya also realizes this. I think one of the reasons she is not standing up for herself is that she knows her mindless mistake has gone out of proportions in its consequences and second she trusts Asad. Its never black and white is it and I for one, am glad that character nuances are being brought about. If Asad would have said no to Ayan for Nikhat's life, I would have been disappointed with his character.

BTW love your analysis and your practical point of view, while sometimes not agreeing with you:)



Thanks. But I think my way of looking at things is more because I don't really think any of these characters are good. I just enjoy drama and look to be entertained. So it doesn't hurt me when characters do silly things.

And I seriously am very unromantic 😛
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: delena90



Ayaan is an ass - but asad is the man who promised to love zoya and he is forcing her to do something against her will for what? His manipulative ass of a brother!


And your line about it being about "us" vs "me". How is what asad is doing not about HIM and HIS family.

All these characters are asses and right now both brothers are the biggest of them all. Zoya running off does not mean asad gets to force a marriage she doesn't want on her. He can dump her and choose never to be with her but he can't make decision about her life.

And call me unromantic but asya is not love - it's obsession, immature and silly as all Indian romances are.

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I am myself a romantic but everuthing isn't fair in love and this is what i learnt in past 2 episodes...i hope people stop justifying this kind of behaviour in name of love

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