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Posted: 11 years ago
It is a sorry state of affairs indeed! Pathetic is the word for it! Even some of these so called day to day dramas are showing women going to work or helping their family business etc AFTER marriage! They are slowly trying to move with the times!!


But women like Gul and Ekta who are career women themselves, MAKE all their money selling cliched and outdated ideas about women's roles to the masses to apparently gain TRP's!! Women's only ambition in life is shown to be marriage, and if they don't get that, then they would rather commit suicide than live? Seriously? Appalling message to send to young women!

I am not Indian and I live in a western country, so to ME the stuff they are showing is totally unacceptable and unpalatable! But I am sure even audiences in India surely cant be THIS regressive that they ENJOY this sort of objectification of women? Having said that... The Lamp and Wick show which is one of the most pathetic shows, has the highest TRP! But at least in that show, the woman has ambition, but again, needs a MAN to help her fulfil her dream! Coz if not for her husband, by now she would have been trampled under the boot of her nasty and regressive mother in law!

WHY is it that Indian dramas thrive on showing educated females as underlings of men or other women who control households? Why are the female leads shown as self sacrificing and crying? Why are the MEN expected to be self sacrificing to prove they are good sons, brothers etc? But they are NEVER expected to sacrifice themselves to be a good husband or lover? Its pathetic and always send the message that a man has the right to objectify a female! I don't care WHO he is sacrificing for! He has NO right to force a women into a situation she did NOT chose!


I cant believe they get away with showing such utter crap even in this day and age, and dress it up as Drama?
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Aww..But is it for the main post or for someone else's post?😆

Your main post your reply to someone's post...man there was power outage here for 24 hours and believe me i m so frustrated i don't know what to say its nice that someone can voice our opinion as good as you do
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

I swear man..Especially given the state of the society, am just appalled that they show so much regressiveness on Indian Telly🥱 Am no feminist but its beyond me to appreciate this kind of crass drama

I was a feminist but usually you can become a vocal advocate at the cost of relationships... your happiness... because change does not happen overnight ... Many females will be sacrificed before something changes... Miles to go before I sleep ! After all is said and done...I am Happy Coz Roger Rocks...
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

It is a sorry state of affairs indeed! Pathetic is the word for it! Even some of these so called day to day dramas are showing women going to work or helping their family business etc AFTER marriage! They are slowly trying to move with the times!!



But women like Gul and Ekta who are career women themselves, MAKE all their money selling cliched and outdated ideas about women's roles to the masses to apparently gain TRP's!! Women's only ambition in life is shown to be marriage, and if they don't get that, then they would rather commit suicide than live? Seriously? Appalling message to send to young women!

I am not Indian and I live in a western country, so to ME the stuff they are showing is totally unacceptable and unpalatable! But I am sure even audiences in India surely cant be THIS regressive that they ENJOY this sort of objectification of women? Having said that... The Lamp andWick show which is one of the most pathetic shows, has the highest TRP! But at least in that show, the women has ambition, but again, needs the MAN to help her fulfil her dream! Coz if not for her husband, by now shewould have been trampled under the boot of her nasty and regressive mother in law!

WHY is it that Indian dramas thrive of showing educated females as underlings of men or other women who control households? Why are the female leads shown as self sacrificing and crying? Why are the MEN expected to be self sacrificing to prove they are good sons, brothers etc? But they are NEVER expected to sacrifice themselves to be a good husband or lover? Its pathetic and always send the message that a man has the right to objectify a female! I don't care WHO he is sacrificing for! He has NO right to force a women into a situation she did NOT chose!


I cant believe they get away with showing such utter crap even in this day and age, and dress it up as Drama?

WORD..The female lead is supposed to be an educated woman from NY..Do these people even remember that she has a family there and they have no right to take such life altering decisions on her behalf? What has this got to do with the love she has for Asad? Am felt sick after watching the TT video where Zoya is literally running away but am guessing Asad is gonna force her to come back and sign the nikahnaama🥱 Can Zoya just call the police and tell them how a whole family is forcing a marriage on her?😆 So much for her being a progressive woman who can stand up for herself😆
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: anushreemishra

Your main post your reply to someone's post...man there was power outage here for 24 hours and believe me i m so frustrated i don't know what to say its nice that someone can voice our opinion as good as you do

Haha lol..Thank you..I doubt its gonna make any difference😆
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Haha lol..Thank you..I doubt its gonna make any difference😆

don't worry i am the one who believes one can make a difference and waise bhi kuch nahi to apne dil ko hi tasalli mil jati hai😆
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: gossipgirlxoxo

I was a feminist but usually you can become a vocal advocate at the cost of relationships... your happiness... because change does not happen overnight ... Many females will be sacrificed before something changes... Miles to go before I sleep ! After all is said and done...I am Happy Coz Roger Rocks...

I understand it cant happen all of a sudden but how difficult is it to show a strong female lead who stands up for her rights and doesn't let people walk all over her? I know shows are meant to entertain and its not necessary to give out social messages but they need to show some social responsibility right? Am i expecting too much/😆
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: anushreemishra

don't worry i am the one who believes one can make a difference and waise bhi kuch nahi to apne dil ko hi tasalli mil jati hai😆

Haha lol..I feel good after ranting😆
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

Haha lol..I feel good after ranting😆

i know i feel good too when i realize that i don't like something that is wrong and actually am able to voice it
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: rogerrocks

WORD..The female lead is supposed to be an educated woman from NY..Do these people even remember that she has a family there and they have no right to take such life altering decisions on her behalf? What has this got to do with the love she has for Asad? Am felt sick after watching the TT video where Zoya is literally running away but am guessing Asad is gonna force her to come back and sign the nikahnaama🥱 Can Zoya just call the police and tell them how a whole family is forcing a marriage on her?😆 So much for her being a progressive woman who can stand up for herself😆



Isn't it IRONIC that Zoya was shown slapping Rajveer because he "objectified" her? And now she is being objectified by the man she loves and his family?


Isn't it ironic that this is the SAME Asad that beat Zoya's first fiancee and his family's goons to a pulp coz they tried to "force" Zoya into marriage against her will?

Has Gul forgotten her OWN characters and what they stand for ALL in the name of cheap TRP? This is a total DISGRACE!
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 11 years ago

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