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Posted: 11 years ago
#51
Awesome post! 👏
I don't disagree with you at all.
The only problem I had with yesterday's episode is Ayaan saying to Asad that what if it was Najma instead of Nighat. 😡
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Posted: 11 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: mochhug

I agree with all your points. Except 2.

Shireen is not using her grey matter. She is dumb and selfish. She only thinks about her daughter. And is taking advantage of Asad's selfless nature. I'm sorry, but even if he sautela, he's human. And this woman is irked by him and anything to do with him because he is Dilshad's son.

And two, Gul may be portraying something that is common in society. But she still butchered Zoya's character here. She's supposed to be modern, makes her own decisions, can take care of herself. Here? She wasn't even asked. She was forced to go to Ayaan's house.

If Asad had talked to her, explained to her, and begged her to oblige, and then she went. I would've still respected Gul's attempt. But the way they are showing Asad just dragging her there against her will, I'm sorry its really stupid. And is completely the opposite how she was supposedly trying to depict Zoya as a 21st century girl in Indian society.

Monica right ?
Thanks for your comment and explanations 😊
I know that she is Dumb and selfish, but not an idiot. Circumstances and insecurities made her like that . She feels that what she is doing is the best thing for her daughter, which in my opinion is not. Nikhat has been considered a bojh from Day 1. She was the pillar of strength for SM . But Shireen has always been like that. There are so many mothers , who just care about their own kids. So I agree completely that what she is doing is wrong, but had it been anyone else in her place , they would most like do the same thing. Usool and Adarsh sirf Kitabon main reh gaye hain !
Regarding second point, lets see what made Asad do it, I am very sure something else must have transpired for this to take place. Something much bigger, that forces them to do it.
Had I been in Zoya's place.. I would stand up for myself, never let such a thing happen to me but I am not as selfless and emotional as Zoya. Also I can never fall in love with such a character(Asad). Also they have to send her to SM.
Nikhat gave up on her love for Najma, agreed to marry the brother of Imran. But wahan Drama kam tha , She did it out of her own convictions. But the uproar when Haseena asked her hand for Farhan was not there, talk about incest was not there , why because they are not a lead pair ?
She is beautiful. But In India color is so important.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: Fimmy

Superb post I must say! It's amazing! More than amazing actually! I agree with all of your points except 1...and that is Shireen is an idiot...well logically u r right...but I guess I am super irritated with her dumbness and maybe that's why I don't want to accept the fact... 😕 😳

Thank you Fimmy !
I know that she is Dumb and selfish, but not an idiot. Circumstances and insecurities made her like that . She feels that what she is doing is the best thing for her daughter, which in my opinion is not. Nikhat has been considered a bojh from Day 1. She was the pillar of strength for SM . But Shireen has always been like that. There are so many mothers , who just care about their own kids. So I agree completely that what she is doing is wrong, but had it been anyone else in her place , they would most like do the same thing. Usool and Adarsh sirf Kitabon main reh gaye hain ! Ya phir Mr. Khan ke paas chale gaye hain !
Edited by gossipgirlxoxo - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#54
thank you Amber. I aGREE totally with you.

I dont think gul is doing anything wrong. Cause this really happens

But then she shouldn't have made a comment that this show is a feminist one. Cause i really had expectations. 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: GitaIyer

agree to every disagreement of yours.

Girl you are on a roll.
One after another dhamakedaar posts.
After so much negativity in the forum, your post comes like a whiff of fresh air.
I am loving Qh more than ever now, those who want to cry regressiveness and backwardness, do so. But I am loving this drama.

Great ! that we agree on disagreements 😊
and Thank you. I usually make light hearted posts, but sometimes I become philosophical 😉
The problem is that Indian society is regressive. Its not even about religion or small towns.
Females are considered mere objects.. I so wish that our society changes that women are given their dues, but sadly aankh band karne ke it will not go away. It will still exist.
America is still waiting for a female president.
What else can I say ?
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Posted: 11 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: MisHumptyDumpty

thank you Amber. I aGREE totally with you.


I dont think gul is doing anything wrong. Cause this really happens

But then she shouldn't have made a comment that this show is a feminist one. Cause i really had expectations. 😆

Hey Ankie,
Thanks to you yesterday I had Kebabs 😉
Till now Gul has not said that what she is showing is right and can be justified.
The biggest message here for the would be brides is Please do not leave your house on your wedding day 😉
Zoya is Gul's alter ego, so who aapke expectations par poori utregi.
First these issues will be addressed and then Rajveer type solution.
And she is doing it in a melodramatic way but AsYa are her babies...
Unki paak mohabbat paak hi rahegi.
Aurton ko daon par lagana Indian main koi nayi baat nahin hai... Saadiyon se hota aaya hai...
Draupadi was lost to duryodhan in a game.
But Krishna saved her from cheerHaran.
America is still waiting for a Female president !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Edited by Go4welkin - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#58
I am not denying that what you wrote is not true.
I am not justifying Asad's behavior. I am just saying that these things do happen albeit not in such a dramatic way .
Asad is a flawed character because of his circumstances.
He is completely in character.
And all that dragging is because Gul is trying to dramatize it.
And also .. when Zoya will give a big lecture on this.. This dragging scene will come !!
I hope that at the end Gul gives us a message ..
that Aurat ki bal har din chadti hai..
kabhi behan banker, kabhi maa ban kar, kabhi beti ban kar...
and we should put an end to it.
That is the reason that I will never fall in love with a guy like Asad.
They are too complicated for my liking !
Edited by gossipgirlxoxo - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#59
ANd I agree to your post
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: gossipgirlxoxo

Thank you Sana Baji ..

aapne apni Umr nahin batayi abhi tak :)


Abhi PM kiyaa hai dear & reason bhi likha hai 😊

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