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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan


I totally agree! I think if Zoyaan don't want this marriage, then they should annul it right away! I dont think a marriage that happened under such circumstances should be considered as a real marriage!

However,IF they decide to continue with this marriage regardless, then by all means they should both try to move on! Their respective relationships should be considered as "over for good" and THIS marriage should be their priority!

IF this be the case, then all attempts must be made to sustain the marriage and make it real! This includes normal relations between a husband and wife!! The marriage MUST be consummated and I agree Zoyaan SHOULD be the end game in that case, not coz they have slept together, but coz they have decided to make their marriage work!

In that case, ASYA will be that beautiful "first love" that never ended in a marriage! Sad, but it happens ALL the time!!


@bold yes let AsYa be a tragic love story

Having said that, in case if marriage does not work out ,even though Zoya and Ayaan giving hundred percent and if Zoya divorces Ayaan and come back to Asad, he should accept her given that if he remains single and irrevocably in love with her by the time. there should not be any fuss about 'who consummate with whom'.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Rorschach


@bold yes let AsYa be a tragic love story

Having said that, in case if marriage does not work out ,even though Zoya and Ayaan giving hundred percent and if Zoya divorces Ayaan and come back to Asad, he should accept her given that if he remains single and irrevocably in love with her by the time. there should not be any fuss about 'who consummate with whom'.
@bold condition applied, aakhir uske baare me bhi to sochna hai😆


Okey...Why should he remain single and irrevocably in love with her by the time she MAY decide to come back to him...I mean, really...?? 😲 Can't he try to move on...?? If this all happned then Gul HAS to make him try to move on too and Not WAIT for her...

I mean, Gul has already made him look like an "Abla-nari"...he was almost raped, not believed by his love and parents, abandoned like a girl by his family, called the weak one, cried like a girl day and night...IF Zoyaan happened, at least not even then he has to act like a poor "Mandap-pe-chori-hue-larki"...Zoya isn't the only woman in the whole QH world...so there is not need for Gul to be that kind to let him have Zoya in the end...If she wants Zoyaan, then she can have to for whole QH...There is no need to make one brother borrow her from one and another...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Really well said! I don't understand why people are finding this so wrong and "immoral"... We ALL know that AsYa are in love and we also know that oftentimes when people are married they learn to love one another in some way!
Most arranged marriages lead to consummation and people moving on from their past to some degree... As for Zoya divorcing Ayaan and going to Asad, her love for Asad was, is and always will be the strongest emotion she feels. Even if she does marry and/or consummate with Ayaan it's not like that's going to change or make her love "impure".
At the same time, I think people need to stop hating the idea of a ZoyAan marriage because them getting married will most likely be a twist of fate and if Zoya and Ayaan stick to their marriage then that would show strength in the beliefs that Zoya and Ayaan have shown up until now.
More than hypocrisy this is the old-fashioned thinking that causes people to feel forced into loveless relationships that never achieve the full potential of a relationship instead of choosing freedom and love. People need to change their thinking and even if you aren't okay with this in real life yet, at least stop criticizing dramas --- these sorts of twists are for entertainment and if you don't like it then you should leave rather than ruining it for those who do!

I think everyone should just sit back and we'll cross that bridge when we come to it. No matter what happens we shouldn't start imposing our personal views on others because you don't what really happens in people's lives.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: A.Hajnal


Okey...Why should he remain single and irrevocably in love with her by the time she MAY decide to come back to him...I mean, really...?? 😲 Can't he try to move on...?? If this all happned then Gul HAS to make him try to move on too and Not WAIT for her...

I mean, Gul has already made him look like an "Abla-nari"...he was almost raped, not believed by his love and parents, abandoned like a girl by his family, called the weak one, cried like a girl day and night...IF Zoyaan happened, at least not even then he has to act like a poor "Mandap-pe-chori-hue-larki"...Zoya isn't the only woman in the whole QH world...so there is not need for Gul to be that kind to let him have Zoya in the end...If she wants Zoyaan, then she can have to for whole QH...There is no need to make one brother borrow her from one and another...


Definitely he should try to move on, there is no point to linger with past. The point was made from Asad perspective. Even if zoya divorces whats the guarantee that Asad will remain single and in love with her. There is no necessity for asad to embrace her with open hand.

This concept of having a girl oscillating between two brothers is downright disgusting and nonsensical. So once Zoya marries Ayaan, end of story. After all this AsYa as end game, no never.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: KgirlLuvsD3

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Really well said! I don't understand why people are finding this so wrong and "immoral"... We ALL know that AsYa are in love and we also know that oftentimes when people are married they learn to love one another in some way!
Most arranged marriages lead to consummation and people moving on from their past to some degree... As for Zoya divorcing Ayaan and going to Asad, her love for Asad was, is and always will be the strongest emotion she feels. Even if she does marry and/or consummate with Ayaan it's not like that's going to change or make her love "impure".
At the same time, I think people need to stop hating the idea of a ZoyAan marriage because them getting married will most likely be a twist of fate and if Zoya and Ayaan stick to their marriage then that would show strength in the beliefs that Zoya and Ayaan have shown up until now.
More than hypocrisy this is the old-fashioned thinking that causes people to feel forced into loveless relationships that never achieve the full potential of a relationship instead of choosing freedom and love. People need to change their thinking and even if you aren't okay with this in real life yet, at least stop criticizing dramas --- these sorts of twists are for entertainment and if you don't like it then you should leave rather than ruining it for those who do!

I think everyone should just sit back and we'll cross that bridge when we come to it. No matter what happens we shouldn't start imposing our personal views on others because you don't what really happens in people's lives.


I am only emphasizing that if we are expecting AsYa as end game even after marriage between Zoya and Ayaan then we should be ready for this also.
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Posted: 11 years ago
#66
If Asya is the endgame, then make them together or kill them and end the game.
Tired of this merry go round.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: GitaIyer

If Asya is the endgame, then make them together or kill them and end the game.

Tired of this merry go round.


Kill them , ultimate solution. End of all misery.😆
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Really lovely post
I agree to many of your points
Yes if ZoYaan agree to the marriage and decide to go ahead and continue then they should understand the sanctity of this relationship and move on from their respective patners too
People are like I want AsYa to romance after marriage
I disagree this is infidelitiy if ZoYaan have agreed to stay as husband and wife then they should give their 100 percent
Or either they get divorce which is not possible cause till 1 year we cannot file for divorce so at least they can dissolve the marriage till then
I like your point so many people have a past so what
Agreed many people have a past and move on
As for asad yes he should not have any problem accepting zoe back cause people do get married for the 2nd time
True love can wait for each other till years
But still as an AsYa lover
I dont only want ZoYaan to happen at first place
But how does it matter I have already left the show 😆
Edited by MisZoobieDoobie - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
#69

Originally posted by: MisZoobieDoobie

Really lovely post

I agree to many of your points
Yes if ZoYaan agree to the marriage and decide to go ahead and continue then they should understand the sanctity of this relationship and move on from their respective patners too
People are like I want AsYa to romance after marriage
I disagree this is infidelitiy if ZoYaan have agreed to stay as husband and wife then they should give their 100 percent
Or either they get divorce which is not possible cause till 1 year we cannot file for divorce so at least they can dissolve the marriage till then
I like your point so many people have a past so what
Agreed many people have a past and move on
As for asad yes he should nit have any problem accepting zor back cause people do get married for the 2nd time
True love can wait for each other till years
But still as an AsYa lover
I dont only want ZoYaan to happen at first place
But how does it matter I have already left the show 😆


Me too an AsYa shipper and do not want this nonsensical drama to take place even in a distant dream.

But this concept that Zoya and Ayaan will/should not consummate becuase AsYa are end game is hard to digest for me.
Edited by Rorschach - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I am sorry i dont think i understood your post.Are you saying that Zoyaan can consumate their marriage when they are not in love with each other or just for the sake of trying to make marriage work?
Hmm i dont think so if zoyaan do consumate their marriage it will be becuase they are in love with each other or atleast are over their ex lover(asad and humeira).Its not like they will still be in love with their respective ex lovers and just for the sake to making marriage work sleep with each other that is not possible.If they do consummate their marriage it will be becuase they are in love with each other or are out of love with asad and humeira.Then how come zoya going back to asad and asad accepting her makes sense?How can zoya just then fall out of love with ayaan and in love with asad.And how can asad accept her no matter how much in love he is she was his brother's wife who loved her and she loved him back.So asad accpeting her back will be worng because she was his brother's wife whom he loved and she loved him back.
End point is leave consumation apart if Zoya and ayaan fall in love.Asya and AYra need to BE over.BOth asad and zoya cant go back to each other until unless ayaan dies.But if ayaan is alive and zoya did fall in love with him she cant go back to asad nor can asad accept her becuase not only is it wrong its highly unrealistic and illogical

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