Why can't they fall in love and consummate??

First Previous

Page

Next Last

Frequent Posters

Rorschach

@Rorschach

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan
Personally I have NO issue with the consummation of a marraige, be it a love marraige or otherwise! I just wonder though, if Zoya and Ayaan are both in love with other people, how practical is it for them to end up sleeping together right off the bat?? When I say sleeping together I mean sex, not just sharing the same bed or same room!

I think IF they eventually fall in love and want to take the realationship to the next level that is fine!!

But just to have sex because they are MARRIED is not good enough! NOT when they both just made promises of undying love to different people! It would make a mockery of it all if they move on that fast!!

@bold completely agree, but now you are married, what should be the next step?

to embrace a life time celibacy and pine for your lost love or to take steps to make your marriage work, be respectful to other halves, gradually fall in love and consummate.

And if you are not able to do that take a divorce immediately, why to wait for 23647855900 days to take divorce making yours and other lives miserable.

Edited by Rorschach - 11 years ago

Quote

Rorschach

@Rorschach

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: lasya13
well said 👏

Thanks😆

Quote

Looks like you are new here. Register for free, learn and contribute.

Rorschach

@Rorschach

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: -Aswini-
Standing Ovation👏 I've nothing to say

This all consummate and not to conummate are BS from Gandhiji ke zamana😆.

If Zoya marries Ayaan and vows to stick next step should be to fall in love and consummate.

Quote

Rorschach

@Rorschach

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: ashikakapoor
as a girl i can tell u so much that if i trust my fiance with my life i'm ready to consummate before marriage n i knw u ppl v'll hate me but it is true n i'm nt that type of girl like lord sita (with due respect i like her a lot)
but i believe in one man women
if i consumate then he is my husband for life unless he turn out to b idiot or asshole

in case of asya don't even ask me😆

There is nothing wrong in going in physical relation with one'sr fiance or lover and no one gona hate anyone for that.

I believe we are living in 21st centuary and not in cave age, i might be wrong though

Quote

Rorschach

@Rorschach

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: tnusredey
I agree with you.
When they are married, they have every right 2 fall in love & consummate. There shouldn't be any fuss about it. 😆

There is no wrong in Asad accepting Zoya after ZoYaan consummation & divorce. 😆

but however its the end of AsYa 4 me if Zoya-Ayaan ever gets married. 😆

The moment Zoya marries Ayaan and they vows to stick with marriage, AsYa is over.

And yes if Zoya divorces Ayaan and come back to Asad he should accept her given that he remain single and irrecovably in love with her.

Edited by Rorschach - 11 years ago

Quote

Rorschach

@Rorschach

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: Missvishtoofani
wht?😕

Surprise😆😆😆😆

Quote

Saathfan

@Saathfan

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: Rorschach

I think you missed the point, we are saying that if we are ok with a girl marrying two brothers then we should also be ok with the term 'consummate'.

I guess so for me the fact that they married a girl with a younger brother and are saying that Asya is end game is gross itself. Two living brothers now after marriage with or without consummation there should be no Asya. If zoyaan nikah happens, Asya is dead for me.

Quote

-Aswini-

@-Aswini-

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: Rorschach

Surprise😆

😆

Quote

Rorschach

@Rorschach

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: Saathfan

I guess so for me the fact that they married a girl with a younger brother and are saying that Asya is end game is gross itself. Two living brothers now after marriage with or without consummation there should be no Asya. If zoyaan nikah happens, Asya is dead for me.

The moment Zoya marries Ayaan and vows to stick with marriage, AsYa is over. Its as simple as that. There is no confusion about that.😊