Just stop blaming zoya

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I had honestly taken a resolve to NOT make any posts until this whole zoyaan thing is out in the space (my small lil satyagraha) but people leave me no options at times

Can people just stop being asad ahmed khans and stop dumping the problems of the entire world on zoya? Its a request from someone who loves her to the core!

If she left her wedding that doesn't make her stupid or idiot or the other colourful words being used for her. it makes her selfless and considerate and loving for putting the happiness of Najma before her.

she has always been way down on her priority list. she has always been caring n she tries to spread happiness what does she get in return? hurt, blames and now even a husband like ayaan 👏

I agree she should've informed asad before going, i must say she should stop thinking she is some sort of superwoman
I agree she is impulsive
But newsflash everyone asad is also not always right and tanveer is always unpredictable did zoya get a dream that this will happen 🤔

SORRY if anyone felt bad

Bash me if ya'll want

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Posted: 11 years ago
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She being selfless can go to that extend to do anything for her loved ones. Feeling so bad for her 😭😭
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I guess the real person to blame is as Sujata had said : Gul.
But honestly, I dont agree. This was Zoya's carelessness and lack of faith in Asad and desire to fix everything on her own, result.

She loves Najma and reacted on that. I completely agree. She did what she did for Najma and she only means well. I know that.

But what ever is happening is happening as a lesson to her that she should really trust Asad and TELL the person whom she was planning on marrying, everything.

isnt that what life partners do? They dont keep secrets. They dont keep the truth and go make decisions by themselves. Asad himself told her not to go off without letting him know. If she didnt want to tell him where or for what purpose, then so be it. But she could have said I need to go out its an emergency and i cant tell you everything but its related to Najma and its important? Anything to alert him and let him know something rather than nothing.

She should know that much that Asad loves Najma. If she only had told him that she is suspicious or DOUBTS him, surely that would have been enough for Asad to have investigated and held off on the marriage.

im not completely blaming her, but what she did today was the height of overconfidence, in my opinion.

But yes, technically speaking, the character is only as good or as bad as the writer who created it.
Edited by -Shayari- - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I laaooo you for this post Saadiieee 🤗
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: --starstruck--

I had honestly taken a resolve to NOT make any posts until this whole zoyaan thing is out in the space (my small lil satyagraha) but people leave me no options at times


Can people just stop being asad ahmed khans and stop dumping the problems of the entire world on zoya? Its a request from someone who loves her to the core!

If she left her wedding that doesn't make her stupid or idiot or the other colourful words being used for her. it makes her selfless and considerate and loving for putting the happiness of Najma before her.

she has always been way down on her priority list. she has always been caring n she tries to spread happiness what does she get in return? hurt, blames and now even a husband like ayaan 👏

I agree she should've informed asad before going, i must say she should stop thinking she is some sort of superwoman
I agree she is impulsive
But newsflash everyone asad is also not always right and tanveer is always unpredictable did zoya get a dream that this will happen 🤔

SORRY if anyone felt bad

Bash me if ya'll want

👏👏😭
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Love_Surbhi

She being selfless can go to that extend to do anything for her loved ones. Feeling so bad for her 😭😭

😭
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Nice post Sadie...all I have to say is that I agree with you partially...yes I agree zoya had good intentions behind going out today but her not telling asad was just wrong...IMO had she told asad he would have believed her...and its high time she learns that you must share everything with your partner.
Having said that if someone says that she deserves ayaan now and doesn't deserve asad then they are completely wrong...yes she made a mistake but that doesn't mean she doesn't love and deserve asad and his family...she has done a lot for them and no one deserves that family more than her...hell that is her family there us no question of deserving..and a family sticks with their loved ones through everything...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Thanks for making this post 😊
I agree with u completely .i was thinking to make post on this topic but later in I leave it because of my lazyness 😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree with you Sadie!! But there were many situations were Zoya was right, and Asad was dumb!! But today, it was a bit of over confidence in her. And I agree she had so much affection towards Najma, but wont Dilshaad and Asad too have any care, love and affection towards their sweet kid?? She could have just handled this situation wisely like the Rajveer fiasco by alerting them without alarming them. By the way I am not bashing you dear!!! 😛
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: anushreemishra

Nice post Sadie...all I have to say is that I agree with you partially...yes I agree zoya had good intentions behind going out today but her not telling asad was just wrong...IMO had she told asad he would have believed her...and its high time she learns that you must share everything with your partner.
Having said that if someone says that she deserves ayaan now and doesn't deserve asad then they are completely wrong...yes she made a mistake but that doesn't mean she doesn't live asad and his family...she has done a lot for them and no one deserves that family more than her...hell that is her family there us no question of deserving..and a family sticks with their loved ones through everything...


Yes this i agree that i dont think Zoe doesnt deserve ASad. THATS TO MUCH. im not at all saying that she doesnt deserve him or something..

i personally dont agree with those who are saying this.

Im just saying that this is a lesson for Zoe. She needs to learn the hard way that she really cant be so impulsive anymore and while she means well, she needs to have faith in the guy she is claiming to love and wanting to marry. She needs to share things and not be the typical soap bahu's who go off on their own all the time and like being mis bond.

Asad leart to trust zoe with the Suhaag raat thing, and now this is Zoe's moment to trust Asad with information and share things.

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