Understanding Zoya's behavior - Page 2

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: moniloveasya

Yes agree after that fire incidence zoya never go through tough situation n jiju n appi treat her like princess n now asad so this track is really needed

This track will certainly help in her much needed growth...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ranz

True but she needs to understand she is in India---a foreign country and you need to realise th edifference between U S of A and India!

Yes ... on top of it her defiance only for the heck of it...
NY downtown is one of the most deadly places in USA. Moreover... one should not argue just for the sake of arguing...
returning earrings next morning, bouquet of flowers, text messages... she knows deep down that these are the signs of a classic stalker ! she is going to land in big trouble...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I can understand that at the beginning she roamed around freely so she wouldn't have wanted to limit herself, but seriously since she's been in India she has gone through so much crap that I expected her to have learnt her lesson.
With almost dying a million times, meeting twisted people, and finding herself in danger you'd at least expect her to be a bit more cautious. I just think her behaviour is unrealistic.

But whatever the case ever since she got back with Asad and had Tanveer kicked out of the house she seems to have lost her common sense and has at times come across as not understanding people's feelings re Nikhat. I liked the Zoya who actually used her brain when Tanveer was around.


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Posted: 11 years ago
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gr8 post amber👏
& 4 dis cn i gift u idli-sambar😆😉
both veers try 2 teach asya lessons...bravo gul😛
btw i luvd ur mention of parallel thingy...so frigging ryt & dey need it desperately😊

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: ras224

gr8 post amber👏
& 4 dis cn i gift u idli-sambar😆😉
both veers try 2 teach asya lessons...bravo gul😛
btw i luvd ur mention of parallel thingy...so frigging ryt & dey need it desperately😊

Thanks dear ! will wait for idli-sambhar !! These Veer's will make AsYa Veer and Vijayi !! You know I have seen many marriage break because no doubt love is there.. But Love is not enough... these are practical issues a couple faces... difference of opinion...
More than love Compatibly , Compromise and Understanding others point of view are important..
Here we all understand that Asad is right...
In real life most of the time ... there is no clear right or wrong ...!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I understand her and knows how she feels bc I go outside at 12am just to take a walk and I feel free to do it.but shes in india and ny and india are different countries and have different atmospheres.asad knows how India is that's why he's so concerned about her safety!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: butterfly15..

I can understand that at the beginning she roamed around freely so she wouldn't have wanted to limit herself, but seriously since she's been in India she has gone through so much crap that I expected her to have learnt her lesson.

With almost dying a million times, meeting twisted people, and finding herself in danger you'd at least expect her to be a bit more cautious. I just think her behaviour is unrealistic.

But whatever the case ever since she got back with Asad and had Tanveer kicked out of the house she seems to have lost her common sense and has at times come across as not understanding people's feelings re Nikhat. I liked the Zoya who actually used her brain when Tanveer was around.


Also she gets very easily excited.. and is sometimes very loud and annoying...
I think usko Zor ka jhatka dheere se laga hai...
She needs a bigger Jhatka...
Poor Z .. she will learn it the hard way...
She will soon be out of her La La Land !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Amerra

I understand her and knows how she feels bc I go outside at 12am just to take a walk and I feel free to do it.but shes in india and ny and india are different countries and have different atmospheres.asad knows how India is that's why he's so concerned about her safety!

We also go out at all times during the night .. sometimes to get milk from from Walmart at 2:00 a.m. all by myself but I try to go to a safe and 24 Hr Walmart ..
Z was caught in a bad situation... then she kept on digging...
She will learn her lesson.. when in a hole stop digging...!!
She should have said sorry and accepted her mistake.. but no she is all the more defiant ..
Now she will do a bigger mistake of not sharing that guys truth with Asad...
and boy ! will that get her in more trouble .. Oh Yeah !
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Posted: 11 years ago
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loved your post...
yup...let her make her mistakes and learn from them...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: GitaIyer

nice post.

Yes, they need to come on the same page. Such fights happen between couples. Being married myself, I can say that while fighting, noone stops to think who is right or wrong, we just want to prove that we are right.
But when things cool down, how you react is what shows your maturity.

Agree completely... and in real life there is no def right or wrong.. you are at crossroads so many time...
being a couple is about compatibility and compromise ... Love is important but I feel that understanding and respecting others point of view is also equally important...
and for Zoya .. everything is still about Shayari's and counter arguments...
She will learn it the hard way... after tanveergate was over her growth curve has stagnated .. it will go up again !

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