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Posted: 12 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: Oldestfan

😃Hey, great post! Nice one, good balance between the blame game between nikhat and najma!

I posted a week or so back, titled Deconstructing Imraan ... Do readvand comment!

The forum is ablaze with firebrands blaming najma and judgemental posts blaming everyone else! 🄱 šŸ˜ƒšŸ˜†



I am fine until now, but wondering now that everything is out in the open what next? Lets see.

Can you give me a link of your post? Would love to read it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: KambakthIshq

Exactly!! Asad not clearing things with Nikhat and Ayaan before meeting Haseena Bi was a big NO..NO. He gave in to his sister and of course Naive Zoya.

Maybe Asad thinks its ok since he thought NIkhat moved on. but again, Did he not notice NIkhat that she was heartbroken? I was shocked when Asad sided Imran...like really?
anyways...makers wanted to show rift btw brothers by creading MU and they had to mess few things up to glorify Imran the jack Ass.
I dont want Billi to intervene now...I want Najma-Imran NIkha...but I have a feeling they are hell bent on showing Imran as a positive character.

I expected Asad to fume when he learns about Imran ...din't happen. I still cant get over the fact that he is OK with his sister getting married to Imran after knowing he is Haseena Bi's son... how can he do that? and he was so calm around her? and looks like he will not stress much on Nikhat's heartbreak as we got the spoiler of Haseen Bi feasting in KM :(

lets just wait and watch...I truly wish there is No Zoyaan in the name of twists. that would be awefull.

chal zyada mat soch :))


P.S. Najma is a selfish brat and I did not feel bad for Shireen. I can never sympathize with her.



I love how you say zyada mat soch, lol. Kya karun oh ladies, main hoon aadat se majboor. lol. U and i want the same things... expected Asad to blast Imran with his anger but did not happen. :)
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: sheilasandhu

The Sad part is that none of the Khan family members have asked WHY did Nikhat break the SAGAI if she loves Imraan so much.


It would answer loads of questions and clear lots of misunderstanding as well as teach Najma a thing or two about her M.I.L to be.😔😔



Yes right? But, cvs ke pas to logic hai hi nahi, lol.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Wonderful post, asks right questions.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: monaco

I have something to say about yesterday. Asad's response to Ayaan was "Wo jawab de chuka hai, Ayaan". Meaning the fact that he never really loved Nikhat, though he respected her, and always loved Najma. This is why, everyone, including Asad thinks that it is okay to move ahead with Najma's marriage with Imran. It is okay that he hurt Nikhat, several times. It is okay that she was abused several times for her cooking skills, her love for dancing, and the color of her skin. It is okay that she and her family had to bide into his mom's atrocious demands. Just that he loves Najma, it is okay.

Asad won't ask Imran, how he will live with the guilt of hurting someone? Yes, Not the guilt of hurting someone he loved, but still the guilt of hurting someone who loved him, despite all his flaws. The guilt of hurting someone who he showed dreams of a life together (including comments about moving out of his house with her, etc.) Asad won't ask anything of that sort to Imran. Just that he said he loves Najma, anything he did with Nikhat is justified.

Asad won't tell Najma to do anything about it. It does not matter that Nikhat is heart broken, because now suddenly rishto ke faisle destiny karti hai.But, then why is Rashid wrong? Just because he was married to Dilshad and had kids with her?

Yes, I am not advocating Rashid's behavior, but why this hypocrisy?

Why?

Does shadi nibhana, only mean not calling off a relationship?

Is it okay when Imran tells Nikhat that he respected her and he would never cheat on her if he was married to her? That's it? What about standing up for a woman who you respect? What about fighting the wrong? What about showing her false dreams? What about letting your mother abuse her? Control her?


I am floored at how coolly everyone reacted to Nikhat's heartbreak. For once, I felt bad about Shirin and all that her kids have to go through. Yes, she has a pea-sized brain, and she comes in Razia's plans easily but she is not evil. What has her poor daughter done to deserve this humiliation?

I am happy for Nikhat she deserves better... but still? If Imran did this to Najma, and went ahead with Nikhat, would Asad forgive that family? If Nikhat really lived in KM and Asad saw her crying over Imran,would he so easily be able to justify Najma's actions? No right? I don't say don't go ahead with the proposal - but hey slow down? Wait for the wounds to heal? Investigate, thoroughly and fully? Make sure your poor sister has said what she feels? Hug her? Say sorry?

For once, I want NajRan wedding to happen now. Tanu truth should only come out after that. And by then Nikhat should fine someone (at the cost of sounding as if only one family exists in Bhopal of Eligible Bachelors) probably Farhan, who is Imran's cousin/brother who treats her with respect, and love. So that Najma also understands what it is to be REALLY heart broken. You cant be so immature, convenient, and selfish - after all.

I know I sound mean, but sorry I have no sympathies for NajRan love-story - no matter how much they try to vindicate Imran's character, and no matter how much they try to make them sound like soulmates. Soulmates don't behave like that in my bakwaas dictionary.

And let's not even talk about how no one is suspecting Imran's loyalties or his suitability for Najma. I mean, hours of breaking his nikaah with Nikhat, he comes running to Najma, who surprisingly had gotten over him but due to the selective amnesia that the CVS have, suddenly went running into his cheap arms, and now wants to marry him.

yes i totally share all ur sentiments and view cud not have said it better. im glad that najma would have to deal with haseena as a mother in law also, the woman is rubbish and they want to gladly form a rishta with her,, well let them go right away .. good luck theyll need itšŸ˜†
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: KambakthIshq

also...why is no one in KM questioning as to why Nikhat broke her engagement? Imran calmly put the blame on Nikhat for their breakup...how convenient na?

quite true..šŸ‘
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Word.. I agree with each and every bit of ur post.šŸ‘
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Posted: 12 years ago
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šŸ‘ Too beautiful of a post for words but let me try.

First off, " Yes, Not the guilt of hurting someone he loved, but still the guilt of hurting someone who loved him, despite all his flaws." So poignant. Why does he get a free pass just because his true love is Najma. He did Nikhat wrong...no matter how you look at it. Maybe Asad doesnt know the Haseena-torture details but Ayaan has told him a number of times how evil Haseena is to Nikhat and at one point even bought her a house and all that just to save this rishta (btw, I didnt agree with that either...then whats wrong with the dowry system??)
Second, " If Nikhat really lived in KM and Asad saw her crying over Imran,would he so easily be able to justify Najma's actions? No right? " Right, Mona. He wouldn't. And honestly this is so contrary to Asad's character. I can't understand how they're acting so cool about everything. Yes, Asad today is different than Asad yesterday because he now knows what it is to be in love...but u don't sacrifice your own morals and values for love. And if you do, then is that a love worth having?
And last but not least, " So that Najma also understands what it is to be REALLY heart broken. You cant be so immature, convenient, and selfish - after all. " Najma so easily gave up her so called true love 3 years ago for the fear of her brother's anger. How come, now, nothing can come in her way? She is being selfish. The way she kept smiling yesterday, I wanted to slap her. Just one look at Nikhat yday or even at Ayaan's rage, shows that this girl really loved Imran so control yourself and have no emotion...dont get all excited that Imran said he loved you. He's a jerk and a coward...just not to you, Najma. Plus, if you know you're sister is involved with him, why not sit down and talk to her yourself instead of letting your family handle it (which they didnt) before they met him for lunch. Hello, this is India...there is no such thing as a casual meet the family for lunch...you knew (and so did Asad and Dilshad and Zoya) that this meeting was going to seal the deal on NajRan and everyone was okay with that knowing that Nikhat had no idea. Its really disappointing. Asad should have felt guilty instead of being defensive. I hate Shirin but she was kind of right about calling Nikhat a liar. I know he wasn't doing that with malicious content BUT why was that even a question you ask at that moment? So you can feel better about yourself? You still did wrong by your half sister and no matter how you try to replay the events in your head, at the end of the day Asad does not treat his sisters as equals (as he told Zoya he did when Najma had first mentioned Imran)

Okay, I'm done..lol...lovely post Mona! So many ppl were supporting Asad and crew yesterday so it was refreshing to see the other POV


Edited by priya713 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

In between "crying" for Najma and "settling" for Nikhat, he has a one night stand, or more like a "one weekend stand" with Billo rani!


šŸ˜† Perfectly said!
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Najma and imraan are the most selfish characters in this show...I feel for Nikhat...but even though she is broken now...time will heal her wounds...but when Najma gets hurt...healing is in the hands of destiny...just like her so called rishta with Imaraan is destiny called...

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