Asad forgives Rashid?

I have something to say about yesterday. Asad's response to Ayaan was "Wo jawab de chuka hai, Ayaan". Meaning the fact that he never really loved Nikhat, though he respected her, and always loved Najma. This is why, everyone, including Asad thinks that it is okay to move ahead with Najma's marriage with Imran. It is okay that he hurt Nikhat, several times. It is okay that she was abused several times for her cooking skills, her love for dancing, and the color of her skin. It is okay that she and her family had to bide into his mom's atrocious demands. Just that he loves Najma, it is okay.

Asad won't ask Imran, how he will live with the guilt of hurting someone? Yes, Not the guilt of hurting someone he loved, but still the guilt of hurting someone who loved him, despite all his flaws. The guilt of hurting someone who he showed dreams of a life together (including comments about moving out of his house with her, etc.) Asad won't ask anything of that sort to Imran. Just that he said he loves Najma, anything he did with Nikhat is justified.

Asad won't tell Najma to do anything about it. It does not matter that Nikhat is heart broken, because now suddenly rishto ke faisle destiny karti hai.But, then why is Rashid wrong? Just because he was married to Dilshad and had kids with her?

Yes, I am not advocating Rashid's behavior, but why this hypocrisy?

Why?

Does shadi nibhana, only mean not calling off a relationship?

Is it okay when Imran tells Nikhat that he respected her and he would never cheat on her if he was married to her? That's it? What about standing up for a woman who you respect? What about fighting the wrong? What about showing her false dreams? What about letting your mother abuse her? Control her?

I am floored at how coolly everyone reacted to Nikhat's heartbreak. For once, I felt bad about Shirin and all that her kids have to go through. Yes, she has a pea-sized brain, and she comes in Razia's plans easily but she is not evil. What has her poor daughter done to deserve this humiliation?

I am happy for Nikhat she deserves better... but still? If Imran did this to Najma, and went ahead with Nikhat, would Asad forgive that family? If Nikhat really lived in KM and Asad saw her crying over Imran,would he so easily be able to justify Najma's actions? No right? I don't say don't go ahead with the proposal - but hey slow down? Wait for the wounds to heal? Investigate, thoroughly and fully? Make sure your poor sister has said what she feels? Hug her? Say sorry?

For once, I want NajRan wedding to happen now. Tanu truth should only come out after that. And by then Nikhat should fine someone (at the cost of sounding as if only one family exists in Bhopal of Eligible Bachelors) probably Farhan, who is Imran's cousin/brother who treats her with respect, and love. So that Najma also understands what it is to be REALLY heart broken. You cant be so immature, convenient, and selfish - after all.

I know I sound mean, but sorry I have no sympathies for NajRan love-story - no matter how much they try to vindicate Imran's character, and no matter how much they try to make them sound like soulmates. Soulmates don't behave like that in my bakwaas dictionary.

And let's not even talk about how no one is suspecting Imran's loyalties or his suitability for Najma. I mean, hours of breaking his nikaah with Nikhat, he comes running to Najma, who surprisingly had gotten over him but due to the selective amnesia that the CVS have, suddenly went running into his cheap arms, and now wants to marry him.

And, ofcourse, not to mention that Asad forgot all the beginning episodes about how he told Haseena that he can show her who he is if she hurts Nikhat, and gave her that flat and all that jazz.

I totally agree that I do not support the NAJRAN relation! I think it is pathetic. Imran no matter how they try to vindicate him or redeem him is a total loser in my eyes!!

He agreed to marry Nikhat coz his "Bhaiseena mum" told him to! Ok! But after that he thought Nikhat was "nice", so decided to care about her and give her hopes of a future? But when Nikhat could not take his big fat cow mama's attiyachar anymore and calls off the wedding...he decides to call his "first love and collage sweetheart" Najma and do a "suicide drama"! Lo and behold he is "in" with her again!!

In between "crying" for Najma and "settling" for Nikhat, he has a one night stand, or more like a "one weekend stand" with Billo rani! Now he refuses to acknowledge that this women's presence could be a very difficult one for his future wife to deal with...especially if the child she is carrying turns out to be his! He has not thought about how this piece of information will effect Najma, his so called "Sachcha Pyaar"!

I won't go into Shireen, Rashid and Asad, coz they are all having clouded judgement right now! But Imran...NO way does he deserve either of the Khan girls!! The fact is THEY don't deserve to end up with a guy like him!!

I don't say don't go ahead with the proposal - but hey slow down? Wait for the wounds to heal? Investigate, thoroughly and fully? Make sure your poor sister has said what she feels? Hug her? Say sorry?

@MrDarcyFan Absolutely agree with everything you say!

Exactly!! Asad not clearing things with Nikhat and Ayaan before meeting Haseena Bi was a big NO..NO. He gave in to his sister and of course Naive Zoya.

also...why is no one in KM questioning as to why Nikhat broke her engagement? Imran calmly put the blame on Nikhat for their breakup...how convenient na?

😃Hey, great post! Nice one, good balance between the blame game between nikhat and najma!