boggled up emotions..

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Posted: 12 years ago
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What an episode! so many boggled up emotions and my mind is also boggled up after seeing today's full on drama... i seriously don't know who is right and who is wrong today.. everybody is a victim of misunderstandings, misconceptions coupled with mistrust in each other due to past grievances.

"WHAT'S PAST IS PROLOGUE".. Shakespeare's famous words hold so true today.. past history,mistrust, grievances influenced everyone's behaviour even today..


Shirin:
As usual Shirin was the one who escalated the tention and aggravated the situation by confronting the other family and saying these people always search for situations to put us down.. that was really uncalled for and Asad always hits the roof the moment Shirin opens her mouth and today was no exception. Loved how Zoya immediately held his arm to calm him down.

What to say about Shirin.. despite her attitude towards the other family i never blame Shirin because i don't know the real truth of their past and how Shirin and rashid got together in the first place.. Perhaps Shirin herself is a victim here who has got trapped in a loveless marriage and her only consolation is her children.. And her emotions have always been played with by raziya and her ears have been filled against Rashid's other family since the beginning.. so for Shirin its always very easy to judge them and blame them and come to bad conclusions regarding them.. And today Shirin's every reaction was based on Nikhat's broken marriage which is the most important thing for Shirin right now.

Asad: Shirin's next sentence towards Rashid saying "apke pichle zindagi hamei zaleel karte he" made Asad even more angry and made him tell Ayaan to make his mother quite.. i understand Asad's anger but Asad you should never have told that to Ayaan.. blood id thicker than anything and a mothers love and a childs feelings towards a mother run deeper than anything.. And just like Asad can never tolerate anyone saying anything against Dilshad, Ayaan cannot tolerate it when anyone says anything against his mother even if she is under a wrong impression and accusing others with baseless things.. the sensitivity of this mother -son relationship and their emotions is something Asad had failed to understand about Ayan even in the past.

Ayaan: Ayaan clearly still has to undergo a lot of growth emotionally. Ayan is too impulsive in situations like this and speaks without thinking.. i don't blame him for saying to Asad that he should have thought about Nikhat and her feelings.Ayaan didn't know that Asad had tried t talk to nikhat so it was justified.. but if Ayaan had even once calmly thought about his bhaijan he should have understood that the bhaijaan who means so much to him would never do anything to hurt them purposefully.. So what Ayaan said after this about it getting proven that Asad is Najma's brother and all that was not justified.. he should think before reaching to such conclusions... And isn't Najma Ayan's sister as well?

Najma:
One point that i would like to highlight here is that throughout today's epi, Haseena Bi kept on accusing Shirin, Rashid and the family saying that Nikhat broke the Rishta and not her and they have insulted her.. But very cleverly the CVs did not create any chance for Rashid family to explain why exactly Nikhat broke the rishta.

And similarly Imran never told Najma exactly everything that had happened between him and Nikhat and why Nikhat made that decision that day and broke the rishta.. Najma is under the impression that nikhat for some reason does not really want to marry Imran anymore.

I don't like the easiness with which Najma fell for Imran's tears after a 3 long year separation and apparently being ok with it all these days.. but other than that i don't blame Najma here.. Najma came to that house today with her family because of Imran's request to meet his mother.. She never expected the drama that got unfolded there and she was overwhelmed.. And when Shirin said that Imran and Nikhat loved each other, at that situation she can only turn to Imran for her defense and thats what she did.. she wanted Imran to clear it all to everyone else that she was there because Imran claimed to love her and had asked her and her family to come there.. And when Imran stood up for her she smiled with pleasure not because she was so callous and could not perceive Nikhat's hurt but because she was just happy that Imran cleared the air for her and told others why she was there.

Najma was always the protected little sister of Asad and silent in all the family feuds.. And today was no exception except when it came to directly involve her and fingers were raised at her relation with Imran and this made her and Zoya plead imran to stand up for her defense and prove that he loves Najma.


Imran:
If anyone is to be blamed here it's only Imran.i was happy to se him stand up for Najma and also asking Nikhat for forgiveness.. he said he had genuinely tried to make the relationship with Nikhat work and would have never betrayed her had they got married.. perhaps he truly did try but the way he always allowed his mother to insult Nikhat and her family was not something that i could forgive so easily... its entirely his fault that nikhat broke the marriage in the first place and he does know that Nikhat loves him so much.. So he was and is very insensitive towards Nikhat a girl who was never at fault in anyway.

precap: The battle continues and wow Raziya is back.. to add more fuel to the fire. because of Humaira the family is surly going to keep quite about Raziya and allow her to stay at home.😊

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Hey Kaussar..great post as always...but I beg to differ on one point...

It's Ayaan's mother who keeps insulting Dilshaad and he should not even lose his cool?

Asad has never been insensitive towards Ayaan in the past also...Ayaan once came to Asad crying over his father and mother fighting...that was insensitivity at it's peak...Asad has never..at least as far as my memory serves me..disrespected Shireen or asked Ayaan to takes sides..even when Shireen insulted Dilshaad at the Walima...just because Asad goes out of his way for Ayaan does not imply that Ayaan can take him for granted..IMO
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Great post Kaussar! Though I agree that nobody can be blamed entirely for the entire drama but I have a different POV regarding Ayaan. Why is it always expected of Asad to take care of his half siblings? And to be fair to him, he did call up Nikhat. She should have stepped out of the room when Asad was asking her such an imp question regarding her life. She told him that she is busy due to Humeira's birthday and she'll talk to him later. So he did think of Nikhat. But has Ayaan ever shown any concern for Najma? And I lost all respect for Ayaan the day he reached the conclusion that Asad might have slept with Tannu because he didn't want to perhaps marry Zoya. Is that what he thinks of his elder brother and how can we forget that Nikhat also blamed him for the SR fiasco. Plus its always Ayaan who jumps the gun and starts harping on who's saga and who's sautela.

I have no sympathy for Ayaan. He really needs to suffer IMO. He took Humeira for granted and is now realizing her value. Similarly, when he'll lose Asad, he'll realize his brother's value.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

Hey Kaussar..great post as always...but I beg to differ on one point...

thanks Dear.. didn't you make a post today? i love reading your posts though i don't comment often.


It's Ayaan's mother who keeps insulting Dilshaad and he should not even lose his cool?

i don't blame Asad at all for getting angry(did i come across as blaming him?).. i understand why and his anger is justified.. but the way he told Ayan to make his mother quite that was a little insensitive way.. his wording should have been different or perhaps he should have simply ignored shirin and talked directly with Ayan to clear his side.


Asad has never been insensitive towards Ayaan in the past also...Ayaan once came to Asad crying over his father and mother fighting...that was insensitivity at it's peak...Asad has never..at least as far as my memory serves me..disrespected Shireen or asked Ayaan to takes sides..even when Shireen insulted Dilshaad at the Walima...just because Asad goes out of his way for Ayaan does not imply that Ayaan can take him for granted..IMO. Agree. Ayan is always less sensitive towards Asad's feelings but Asad's behaviour towards Shirin also look insulting at times.. remember the Holi episode when Shirin came to great Dilshad?.. Shirin was really nice that day but still Asad rebuked her and came between Shirin and Dilshad.i think Asad holds the same emotions towards Shirin that he hold for rashid.. And i don't really blame him for that.😊

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Thank u...😃
I did make a post..here is the link

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3709959
Edited by starsinmyeyes - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: s120

Great post Kaussar! thanks Dear

Though I agree that nobody can be blamed entirely for the entire drama but I have a different POV regarding Ayaan. Why is it always expected of Asad to take care of his half siblings? And to be fair to him, he did call up Nikhat. She should have stepped out of the room when Asad was asking her such an imp question regarding her life. She told him that she is busy due to Humeira's birthday and she'll talk to him later. So he did think of Nikhat .Agree Asad always thinks of their well being and i don't blame Asad at all for the situation with nikhat as well.
But has Ayaan ever shown any concern for Najma? this is the question i also raised.najma is his sister as well
And I lost all respect for Ayaan the day he reached the conclusion that Asad might have slept with Tannu because he didn't want to perhaps marry Zoya. Is that what he thinks of his elder brother and how can we forget that Nikhat also blamed him for the SR fiasco. Plus its always Ayaan who jumps the gun and starts harping on who's saga and who's sautela. Agree


I have no sympathy for Ayaan. He really needs to suffer IMO. He took Humeira for granted and is now realizing her value. Similarly, when he'll lose Asad, he'll realize his brother's value. LOL you are really angry with Ayan today..😆.. i know a lot of the things Ayaan said were uncalled for and he is too impulsive and speaks without thinking.. Ayaan still needs to grow up a lot.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes


Thank u...😃
I did make a post..here is the link

http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=3709959


hey could not open the link.. tried with a new window also.. its coming as error.. content not found..😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: kaussar


hey could not open the link.. tried with a new window also.. its coming as error.. content not found..😊


I will PM u...😃
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Haha. Yes, in a way because he just thinks without speaking. I agree that's how he has been. Impulsive but then he needs to learn a few lessons. And I am glad that even Humeira is not with him at the moment. 😆 How can he say that Asad didn't think of Nikhat. Wasn't Asad the one who gave a part of his property to Hasina Bi for the sake of Nikhat's happiness.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: s120


Haha. Yes, in a way because he just thinks without speaking. I agree that's how he has been. Impulsive but then he needs to learn a few lessons. And I am glad that even Humeira is not with him at the moment. 😆 How can he say that Asad didn't think of Nikhat. Wasn't Asad the one who gave a part of his property to Hasina Bi for the sake of Nikhat's happiness.


did Asad ever tell Ayan or anyone about giving haseena Bi the property..this is something i really want to clear.. i think he didn't tell anyone.. If so i want it to come out into the open somehow and the other family to know about it including Nikhat.. i don't want any MUs between nikhat and Asad at least.😊

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