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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: GredandForge



Exactly! If a stitch is not proper Tannu will tear the entire thing and ask Haseena to stitch the whole thing again


😆 A girl can always dream...

Tanveer se yaad aaya...did I just read u and Ranjini taking Tanveer' side when Razia insulted her at Imraan's place...on Pri's thread?? *faints with shock*😆
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes


😆 A girl can always dream...

Tanveer se yaad aaya...did I just read u and Ranjini taking Tanveer' side when Razia insulted her at Imraan's place...on Pri's thread?? *faints with shock*😆



*sprinkes water*
Its no shock. I told you she's a fan😆

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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: GredandForge



*sprinkes water*

Its no shock. I told you she's a fan😆


😆..that she is...she misses her more than all of us combined...😆
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: .MadHatter.

Good afternoon all 🤗 I'm so late, damn. These Eid preps are unending...you would think I'm calling up the whole city for Jashn-e-Eid like Asad 😆


And I read through all of the amazing analysis you guys have penned down. Just one thing I would like to add: Najma wasn't at fault for not letting the family know about this situation of hers. I have seen men like Asad. They don't allow anything against the status quo and if it does happen, they flip out. And in their dictionary, it's against "tehzeeb" to have boyfriends and girlfriends. They think if the women in their house are going to college or to work, they gotta have pallus on their heads and their eyes lowered. So I can see why a 16 year old would have been scared of voicing out the truth and disrupting the peace of the house. Though I don't see why she never told Dilshad- she's one understanding mother, no? I think when kids are hiding stuff from parents, it is the parents who are at fault for not encouraging their children to share with them everything good or bad that's happening in their life. You should have a certain comfort level with your children so that they don't keep secrets from you.

But I agree with Shruti. It never was true love from Najma's side. You can't just leave true love like that. What made her come running into Imran's arms after 3 years was her insecurity about her appearance. As for Imran, I don't know. Calling someone suddenly after 3 years? Nah, not true love. But that's the writers' fault. They have just thooso-fied this in the story recently and hence we're the ones confused 😆


PS. If I hadn't seen the previous 9 months of QH, I would have thought Asad and Zoya are siblings consoling each other 😆 No kidding! I'm going to Forum 32 and telling them to just STFU with this puppy-dog love. One more episode of these cheesy dialogues and no-sex-no-passion romance, and I'll probably gouge my eyes out 😡
On second thoughts, I don't wanna become any Billo Rani so I'd rather just break my TV screen 😆


Hey girl...🤗...we missed u...

Yeah parents should make a comfortable environment..my only point was that because Najma was not going to go against her brother anyways..so she should have thought twice before entering into a relationship...whether she was upto it or not...

As far as Imraan calling up Najma is concerned...he is always in the habit of clinging to someone...emotional parasite he is...Najma left him toh he went to the likes of Tanveer...and then got engaged to Nikhat..now that she has left him...he goes back to Najma...not difficult to understand..a very common reaction by the likes of him...and I have a real life incident...this friend of a friend mailed her ex after 4 years...but they found their happy ending...they met, sorted it all out and got married.😊...I don't want the same with Immy-Najma😆..anyways..he ain't in love with her either...otherwise he would not have lied through the skin of his teeth yesterday...he had started seeing a life with Nikhat, but he just did not think she was worth going against his mother...so he went to Najma...and stupid girl...she came also...😆

I want a hug at least..what's with the no hugging...everyone else does it freely...

And Eid Mubarak..in advance...🤗
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Posted: 12 years ago
Lol guys..You made it seem like am a closet Tannu fan😡 Actually i was one of the very few who din feel bad for Tannu when she was insulted by Haseena and Razia in that epi😆 I remember the entire forum was sympathizing with the bitch at that point😆 The point is Imran was exceptionally insensitive in that epi..I pointed this out in Del's thread..The moment Asad got to know Tannu was pregnant, he din think twice before deciding to marry her..He din even ask her for proof..On the other hand, this guy not only disowned the child but enjoyed all the abuses hurled at Tannu who was pregnant with his child..Thats probably one of the main reasons why the bitch became that vengeful..If only this wimp had taken responsibility, we might have been spared of all the humbistar crap😆 Imran is not only week but self absorbed as hell..So yeah, i still hate him man😆
P.S.Eid Mubarak in advance guys🤗 Will miss you MadHatter
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Posted: 12 years ago
MadHatter, you had the patience to read through all those very long posts. I salute you ya! 😛

Its true. I've seen men and women who consider that having a girlfriend or a boyfriend is a sin. I understand why she's done that. But it could still be love. Maybe not in Najma's case but in real life that happens. I've seen people who have done that and yet couldn't get over their lovers.

I haven't seen the episode so never felt anything about Tanveer. But I understand it was a catalyst in her trials for Asad.

I miss Eid at my friend's house. She's going to her brother's place to celebrate.
Eid Mubarak!🤗 We will miss you😭
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Posted: 12 years ago
Lol actually i don blame Najma at all..She was just 16 years old and we all know how rigid and unapproachable Asad was in the beginning of the show😆 I have seen that happen a lot in real life..Two of my friends actually fell for eachother during the second year of college..The girl is a Punjabi and the guy is a Mallu..And girl knew for sure that her family will never consent to the relationship..So she actually told him this wont work out and refused his proposal.. The end result was that officially they weren't a couple but they ended up behaving and doing everything couples do😆 Now after four years. their relationship status is complicated and they are too far gone yet the girl hasn't formally consented to the relationship😆 So yeah, such things do happen..Atleast Najma broke up and din complicate things to such an extent😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
We had a guy in our class who was a big flirt. He was in a relationship with a girl from 8th standard. Then in college, by habit, he flirted with a girl and she fell for him. Later the guy committed to her breaking up with the previous one. This classmate of mine, the girl was warned about the guy. Lets say Guy is G, School girlfriend is A and college girlfriend is B. B came to know he was a flirt and tried to stay away from him. But couldn't. A came to know about all this and was heartbroken. A got married last May.
We thought line is clear for G and B. B's parents also came to know about it. They gave the relationship a chance too. But G never spoke up. Now B is getting married to another guy this month. She still loves G.
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Posted: 12 years ago
Lol good for the girls man..The guy seems confused..Am sure she'l get over it..The problem is these people don think of the consequences before falling in love..Once you commit to a relationship, there is no use thinking about the pros and cons..You should do that before committing to the guy..Something which Najma should have done but such things do happen..You can fault her here..There are very few people like Asad who think a million times and analyse whether its the right thing to do before falling in love😆 But if Najma now agrees to get back to him, i think thats totally wrong on her part esp. because she knows he is Nikhat's fiancee..To top it, she knows the kind of volatile relationship the two families share..I hope she is sensible enough to not fall for it cos if she does, she is actually making things worse for her mom and brother..
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Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: .MadHatter.


I won't be active much from tomorrow, so you all better miss me, okay? 😆

Hmm. Najma leading on Imran when she knew she won't be able to carry on with this relationship. Do you think it really was "leading on" from Najma's part? Or was it something she had no control over? It might not have been true love, but she did fall for Imran. So she should have controlled her feelings and got on with her nose in the textbook?

Yeah. See, I have called Imran a spineless wimp but I never hated him or anything 😆 It's Ranjini who hates him because he laughed when her beloved Tannu was called a wh**e 😆

But he did wrong Nikhat. He should definitely apologize to her. Here, he lead her on, made promises and then dumps her at the 11th hour. And don't you think he wronged Tanveer too (not that I love that bitch, unlike Ranjini 😆)? He said he doesn't want to take responsibility of the kid now that he's getting married and he isn't even sure whether the kid is his own. Compare that with Asad's decision and you'll see what I mean.

Lol see, I point out flaws in each and every character. No discrimination whether or not the characters are played by dimpled beauties 😆

And thank youuu! I'm less happy for the rozas finally getting over and more happy that we'll (hopefully) get rid of this sibmance 😆


Yeah for Najma..it was teenage love..so yeah she had no control over it...she was young and scared..but still..what she did cannot be totally justified..same with Imraan..

So basically they were not up to it then and they are not up to it now...at least currently...we could give them the benefit of doubt that time...but now they are expected to behave like mature individuals...Imraan se I do not have many hopes as he is a quintessential Devdas...but Najma really needs to show maturity...if u look at it one way, she was correct to a certain extent in letting him know the moment she realized she could not take it forward...chahti toh aur der laga sakti thi...Imraan would have been more heartbroken in that case...

That time also he handled it stupidly and yesterday also...and yesterday Najma joined him in his stupidity...by going there...he wallows in self pity, and Najma comes running..he says a few words of love..Nikhat comes running...Although he is not completely at fault...they all are in some way or another...

So objectively looking at things, both of them sought the easy way out and will continue to do the same...of course all characters, dimpled or not have flaws..in fact one of the dimpled characters has an army of flaws but he is not a bad human being..so all his faults seem less prominent...😆..and I cannot compare Imraan to Asad..Asad is morally way high than him...Imraan has always been weak and immature...had he been smart enough, assuming he was her senior, he could have become something in life and do it the right way, formally asking Asad for his sister's hand...but nahi...he wanted to be Devdas...so what can we do..look where he landed up...😆

Sibmance🤣...we will miss u girl...but till when are u going to be less active??


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