pure lack of self esteem...

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call me- East

@eastmeetswest

Voyager

Posted: 12 years ago

you know i have to wonder why would parents and a person subject themselves to such humiliation jus to make jodi, with someone who isnt worth it.. im sick of shireen and nikkat taking all that crap from haseena, is it that u thing ur daughter looks like a monster jus cuz she is a lil dark, im get really annoyed whenever i see that fat ugly pig making demands and rashid and family putting up with it,, 😡gosh u cant be that dumb man, i dont care how many rejections nikkat got in the past, the right one will accept ur despite whatever deficiencies u may have, its a repeated crap and imran is a totally nit wit, if nikkat thinks things will get better after marriage she has bounced her head, all the evidence of trouble is in front of you before marriage so get out of it, i hope haseena gets her disgraced when it shows that tanu has nit wit imran child, but talk about no self esteem.. come on enough is enough nikkat character needs to get some strength.

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CupofCoffeee

@CupofCoffeee

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

I hav no sympathies for Nikhat...she is a doormat tbh...she is so blinded in that useless Imran's love that she can't even see her family being insulted a no. of times by her sweet MIL nor does she realize her father's worries!

Last time wen her wedding wid that slimebag broke...she cried buckets of tears n her mom had to go n beg infront of that good for nothing Haseena n her family not to break the alliance🤢

n she has immense trust on Imran when that loser just stays quiet each time his mother insults Nikat n her family!!

the drama in SM is crap n intolerable, m sure most ppl fastforward that crap and are not interested to watch that except for AyRa scenes ofcourse😃

And no words for Shireen, she is getting what she deserves...she cursed Dilshad and her kids, and that curse has inreturn come back on her, no sympathies for her either🤢

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starsinmyeyes

@starsinmyeyes

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

I totally agree with u...and u know what the sad part is??

All of this happens...and worse...😒

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@ChaiTeaWali

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

Yeah, I don't feel sorry for Nikhat anymore ... like how can she just watch her dad stuff his hard-earned money down Haseena's throat? It's sad she's letting her dad get used like that, all because she wants to marry her "love"

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starsinmyeyes

@starsinmyeyes

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: MannieXO
Yeah, I don't feel sorry for Nikhat anymore ... like how can she just watch her dad stuff his hard-earned money down Haseena's throat? It's sad she's letting her dad get used like that, all because she wants to marry her "love"

Love and all apni jagah hai...this is not even about love...her mother has never once made her feel confident that inspite of not being quintessentially fair skinned, she is beautiful and she will get whoever she wishes...there is absolutely no self confidence in her...her mother treats her like a burden so she herself treats her that way...IMO it's not even love...for the first time somebody has shown admiration and acceptance for her and she is way too insecure to let it go...it's 50% the happiness of being accepted and 50% the fact that she thinks she is a burden on her family

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chicksoup

@chicksoup

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 12 years ago

It looks like she is going to take up Rajani's advice soon...😉

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Jayne

@Jayne

Dazzler

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

Nikhut is, unfortunately, a victim of her circumstances and environment.
Regardless of the fact that her family has contributed to her feelings of inadequacy regarding the color of her skin by always pitying her rather than taking offense at any such remarks right from the beginning, she also has her individuality.
A person with strength of will would not stand for such nonsense... (though privately may feel hurt... human, after all).
But Nikhut has defined the role of long-suffering martyr for herself.

She is unable to overcome this handicap and will continue to be a victim all her life.
As other members have mentioned, one cannot waste sympathy on those who are determined to act the martyr or be the victim.
They know what is right , they have been counseled on standing up for themselves, and they have even been shown the way by well-meaning relatives or friends.
If they choose then not to do so, they are a victim of their own creation.

Every family has at least one such person.
No amount of advice, monetary aid, or other forms of help will ever make any difference.

There are all kinds of people in the world...
Users and the used
Abusers and the abused

People like Nikhut have made their choice.

Jayne

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@ChaiTeaWali

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

Love and all apni jagah hai...this is not even about love...her mother has never once made her feel confident that inspite of not being quintessentially fair skinned, she is beautiful and she will get whoever she wishes...there is absolutely no self confidence in her...her mother treats her like a burden so she herself treats her that way...IMO it's not even love...for the first time somebody has shown admiration and acceptance for her and she is way too insecure to let it go...it's 50% the happiness of being accepted and 50% the fact that she thinks she is a burden on her family

Yeah I agree the fact that Imraan gives her some attention, makes her feel special, it's a first time something like that is happening in her life and she doesn't want to let go of it. & the fact that she has ppl in her life like Razia putting her down and lowering her self-esteem all the time makes it worse and harder for her to let go of Imraan; probably thinking she wont be able to get another guy. But still, she's being delusional, does she really think Haseena will let her son move out of the house? Does she really think she'll be able to live a happy married life? If Haseena can stop her from completing her studies, ha good luck Nikhat sweety convincing Haseena to let her and Imraan live alone together.

I can't remember, does Nikhat know that Asad gave Haseena a house? Or is Ayaan the only one who knows in SM? ... Anyways, whether or not she knows even her brother had to stuff money down Haseena's throat, it's still disgusting she's letting her own family get taken advantage of, her dad especially.

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@ChaiTeaWali

Sparkler

+ 3

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Jayne
Nikhut is, unfortunately, a victim of her circumstances and environment.
Regardless of the fact that her family has contributed to her feelings of inadequacy regarding the color of her skin by always pitying her rather than taking offense at any such remarks right from the beginning, she also has her individuality.
A person with strength of will would not stand for such nonsense... (though privately may feel hurt... human, after all).
But Nikhut has defined the role of long-suffering martyr for herself.

She is unable to overcome this handicap and will continue to be a victim all her life.
As other members have mentioned, one cannot waste sympathy on those who are determined to act the martyr or be the victim.
They know what is right , they have been counseled on standing up for themselves, and they have even been shown the way by well-meaning relatives or friends.
If they choose then not to do so, they are a victim of their own creation.

Every family has at least one such person.
No amount of advice, monetary aid, or other forms of help will ever make any difference.

There are all kinds of people in the world...
Users and the used
Abusers and the abused

People like Nikhut have made their choice.

Jayne