How to embarrass yourself in front of your crush! - Page 27

Originally posted by: -midnightsun-

Lol as soon as I write it.. I shall post it here xD
And bold part! High five sister... thats totally me xD
ehh whatever move on xD This is coming from a person who hit her head on the metal poles around a construction site while walking down a busy street... (i was watching a minions video 😃)
I stood there.. swore at the pole then laughed at myself and walked away like a boss 😎
Accepted that m socially retarded :P

Originally posted by: -BadtameezDil-

Lol you guys are awesome! 😆

Another awkward moment was when my sister told her friend that I find her boyfriend hot, and on purpose my sister dragged me out with her friends and ofc he was there and looking fineee, I went to get drinks and as I was coming back he was like to my sister take a picture of me and send it to your sister since she can't stop staring at me😳 my life<<

Originally posted by: mochhug

Well I would've slapped him too except I told him over the phone. Trust me I'm not as brave as I sound😆And my brother did get mad at him, but they were friends too so he couldn't bring himself to beat the shit out of him😆

And about the letter incident. I'm over it, but I still feel bad in the sense that I let myself be dragged along with it. Since then I kinda stayed in my own bubble. I only really had one friend until highschool (even then I only made one other really good friend) but I preferred it that way. And what you said about writing to get over him with Asya, ME TOO.All the stuff I write is like my outlet haha cause I feel like my friends probably got sick of me talking about this guy I'm kinda, sorta, still in love with, but know he's a jerkface and should forget him. But tell that to my stubborn heart😆

LOL no need to apologize! I had the same thing happen to me recently. Except the other way around. We met and hung out a few times (in uni, but he's a grad student, this was literally 6 months ago). And it was cool we got along, had similar taste in music, food, etc, talked for hours. It was nice to have a guy friend after so long. But then we were watching a movie at my place (I live alone in Canada and this was after knowing him for like 4 months) and he's kinda touching me. Not inappropriately, just you know like putting his hand on my arm, on my knee when he says something, or trying to put his arm around me on the couch (should've realized with that one, but what to do, I'm obtuse when it comes to realizing that a guy is flirting with me). Hell he even got me a book when he came over. And then after the movie, we talked. We both go up and when he was in front of me, he tried to kiss me😳. And I panicked. But before his lips reached mine, I was like, (LITERALLY): "OH! Nooo..."🤣

The poor guy was like, "Oh that's ok" and I'm like "I didn't get that vibe from you at all" He was probabyl thinking I'm the most clueless girl in the world. But then we talked and he decided we should still be friends. But then a week after we texted a little, he COMPLETELY disappeared.🤣

So yeah, I seem to repel the guys I want, and attract the guys I like as friends. Sigh.

Okaay went for a prayer break and come back to find so many more stories. Neeed to catch up before that I had to reply to this. Loool! Awww I still would've punched him tbh. Aw, over the phone? Bless you, I would've cried if it was face to face don't worry i'm a baby when it comes to fighting and being angry.

Aww you write too to get over him? Which one? The dancing one? Aww bless you, sooo cutee. I'll be extra careful when i'm reading now ;) ahahaha, and from my writings you must've figured out what goes on in my stupid head now hahaha.
And OMG! Sorry don't mean to laugh but your reaction at the end had me rolling. You're soo innoncent Monica, bless youuu! WTH? He disappeared? Well he's an idiot and we all know what he wanted. Great you said no to him eurghh!
And don't say that, you do not repel anyone. Those guys were jerks, there were no real attraction there. Don't worry true love will come your way, who'll let you know he's flirting with you and accept all your embarassing moments. He'll laugh at you and then cover it up so that noone else can. Don't you worry beautiful, here take my advice; let go of your past, hold onto your present and open your arms for the future. Trust me when I say true love hasn't knocked on your door yet, when it does it'll bring a whole loada happiness for you.

Omg where's the box of tissues?

Originally posted by: ZAHARA.

LMAO if that story was awkward for me, then yeah I did embarrass myself in front of my crush! Okay so theres this guy that's in a year ahead of me and one day our class got merged and we were in the computer room and he sat right in front of me. And because our class together was small (about 10 people?) many went to different rooms or whatever so there was really, me, him and 2 other of my friends who are girls btw. Anyway, I was like telling myself 'okay don't do anything stupid' because knowing me, I'd trip somewhere or hurt myself LOL - and everything was going well, I didn't talk to him or anything because I seriously needed to finish off my assignment WHEN my teacher (not his) came into the room. Oh yeah, she's a really nice, hip teacher =P like she's cool and all, so she sat besides me and we were talking about something and then I got so enthusiastic about something that I completely forgot he was sitting in front of me! I ended up saying things that made me sound a little blonde! (LOL) and then realised he was there! I came out of the classroom just thinking 'what the heck did I just do?'

and another incident, the same guy (LOL) well basically he keeps himself to himself so he's not really as socialable or whatever =P, and anyway, you know when you like someone and if he says hello, you end up blanking him? YEP.Guess whose guilty?? *hands up* :( LOOOL. I was walking down the road to get to my bus stop when he walked passed me, I knew it was him but all my brain was saying was to keep on walking and not do anything. He stopped for like a second to say hello, whilst I just pretended I didn't see anything and then when he then walked passed. I stopped like 'what did I just do?' turned and instead of saying hello bck or something, my mouth decided to say out? 'HUH!?' And then he turned around as if what the hell happened? ANd I just ran to my bus stop. YEP.

That's how weird I am.

LOOL

Omg lmfaooo! The second one, feel your pain. Poor guy though!

Originally posted by: MrMrsAsyaKhan

Okaay went for a prayer break and come back to find so many more stories. Neeed to catch up before that I had to reply to this. Loool! Awww I still would've punched him tbh. Aw, over the phone? Bless you, I would've cried if it was face to face don't worry i'm a baby when it comes to fighting and being angry.

Aww you write too to get over him? Which one? The dancing one? Aww bless you, sooo cutee. I'll be extra careful when i'm reading now ;) ahahaha, and from my writings you must've figured out what goes on in my stupid head now hahaha.
And OMG! Sorry don't mean to laugh but your reaction at the end had me rolling. You're soo innoncent Monica, bless youuu! WTH? He disappeared? Well he's an idiot and we all know what he wanted. Great you said no to him eurghh!
And don't say that, you do not repel anyone. Those guys were jerks, there were no real attraction there. Don't worry true love will come your way, who'll let you know he's flirting with you and accept all your embarassing moments. He'll laugh at you and then cover it up so that noone else can. Don't you worry beautiful, here take my advice; let go of your past, hold onto your present and open your arms for the future. Trust me when I say true love hasn't knocked on your door yet, when it does it'll bring a whole loada happiness for you.

Omg where's the box of tissues?

i love this thread! ive never really gone through things like this but seen manyy girls goin through thosse tyms!

Originally posted by: -midnightsun-

Dear lord! I love this thread... ahem hi :)
Silent person who snoops around here n there occasionally... couldnt resist xD
You girls have amazing emotional tolerance :o

Okay here's mine. ☺️
Year 10 chemistry labs.. seems like a lifetime away xD
We had a boy girl seating system. Praise the lord i was seated next to him.. Lets call him X. So I had this soft spot for X. not a fully developed crush but a but of a spot. 😆

So we used to have talks in class and the naive old me only realised some time later that he must have sort of kinda liked me cause there used to be girl sitting on the other side of him.. who used to try hard for his attention. but naaahhh he used to talk to me.. but blah dah.. me being caption oblivious xD

So one lesson.. teacher was late and whole class was chit chatting... he told me a joke and i was laughing so hard. And at that moment (ohhh dear m cringing😔) my body functions chose to deceive me.. uncontrollable laughter and as soon as laughter stopping... snort!! and it was a bloody pig type loud ugly snort.. and is that the end of that u ask? nooo... social reputation murder lol

A second before that moment the whole class quietened there own chit chatter so literally everyone heard the snort... I was too busy wallowing in self pity and shame to notice his reaction xD

Ah good old school times... lol needless to say nothing happened between us... co incidentally i saw him a few days ago after years and damn he's still cute.. haha

Sorry i ramble xD

Omg blesss youuu! He totally had the thing for you. I bet he found the snort cuteee. Don't worry it happens. Have you ever felt nervous in front of a crush and by accident said something stupid but it's not that that embarasses you but the tone you said it in. I literally shrieked something in front of my friends and everyone and him looked at me like calm it brooo. I was so embarassed.

But oooh, you should totally go upto him and be like go out with meee!

Originally posted by: LoranMaddiLee

oh kk, BUT STILL dont ever let him treat you like that again.😳 next time just punch him in the face (... i guess in a friendly way 😛) and tell him to contact the other person sitting next to him to see if he is bleeding or not. lol (sry, i hate when guys try to embarrass girls) 😕

im here for uuu haha <3

Originally posted by: mochhug

Omg you're seriously so sweet. I teared up at that whole last paragraph. I wanna believe that so badly, trust me I do. But everyday I believe in it a little itty bit less and less. Hun you think you're emotional? Trust me whoever does come into my life will need a forklift to manoeuvre through my tonnage of emotional debris. I just don't usually share it haha. So I tend to come off as an emotionless person. I get super awkward. I can't even look a person in the eye for more than 5 seconds lol. Too intense. I still hope for it. I do. But oh well. Things happen when they happen, I guess.

Haha and the guy who disappeared, really didn't bother me. I never felt that way about him. But I did feel bad that he didn't manage to stay friends with me.

Thanks for the lovely advice though. I really love that quote: "let go of your past, hold onto your present and open your arms for the future"🤗

Okaay sorry couldn't get rid of the baggage above cus i'm on my phone. Awww blesss you lovely, don't worry we're both on the same boat. And no no, do not give up on love. The hopless lover in me refuses to accept that true love doesn't exist. It does and it will come to you. Trust meee, don't give up. Don't sit at home and cry when a sad bollywood song comes on like me but be happy. Be positive.
You know I have this feeling that tells me that no guy will be able to understand me because of this huge emotional baggage that I carry with me. I guess in some weird kinda way i'm seeeking acceptance... Like when I meet someone I tell them my whole life story... Not because i trust them but because I want them to understand me. Idk if that makes sense. I'm so weird. *sigh*
What is going on with our livesss?

Originally posted by: MrMrsAsyaKhan

Aww bless you. I know i have such a depressing story. I've tried moving on but aint happening. I'm still insecure about the way I look, idk if i'll be able to accept anyone because of my ugly face. Awww lovely, i've learnt one thing, don't sit down and sulk like me, enjoy your moment, the right person will come along. I've tried drilling that into my head, i think you should tooo.