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Originally posted by: kaussar

wonderful thoughts to ponder upon...👏

Was Dilshad's 10 day challenge right or wrong?

i won't say she is wrong . A mother in her place is not wrong...

So i feel Dilshad's challenge on that day was not an entirely correct thing hence the marriage didn't happen during the 10 day time frame.

Yeah maybe , as that decision was taken when she was on an emotional rollercoaster...

Shirin's curse will it come true?

NO...in real world it will seem like bad is winning but at the end only Good wins...

Shirin cursed that Dilshad's children will never be happy. Today it is proving to be right.. Asad is a completely broken man and if he marries Tanveer he will be sad for the rest of his life.

kaussar, shireen curse is that Asad might be the elder son of rashid but he will never get married...

Razia curse was dilshad's children will never be happy in their life...

and do u want me to say more...u know what is happening in siddiques mansion...

A lot of people believes in bad -dua and curses... But does it really come true.. I believe it comes true, if you don't have faith in yourself.. If you yourself believes that things will become wrong in your life, it will. and here first of all Dilshad didn't have faith. her decision was because of lack of faith in herself and fear of what Shirin said becoming true...

bad-dua don't come true if u r not at fault but that vibrations will hit the person being cursed first and as u say if that person do not have faith in themselves it will hit then to some extent and with the help of god it will backfire to the person who gave the curse...



Badi Bi and her challenge was it right?

yeah to some extent

Badi Bi i always feel should never have taken matters on her own hands and act as if she is Agatha Christi or Miss Maple..😆 Hadd hai yaar...poor badi bi...

But then even Badi Bi's intentions were good.. but still two wrong will not make one right...

Exactly... even badi's intention were good she was hurting humeira in her process. she was misusing her emotions...and the result she is suffering now...

Imran and tanveer:
Today's F 32 articles makes me wonder if there is still any love lost between Imran and Tanveer.. Is that the reason why he was wearing that necklace which everyone assumes is related to Tanveer.. What is Imran's story? does he really love Nikhath?

Or is he just selfish and getting married to Nikhath is because of his ambitions of achieving power and money just like Tanveer.. Is both Imran and Tanveer's power hungriness overcoming even their love and making them do selfish evil deeds and destroy others lives, that too of a brother and sister.. surely they will not succeed in destroying two innocent lives.

CPing mine and canadachick's discusion here

Did not tanveer said to Asad that she is married to a greedy man , stoned eye and what not... I think it about her, according to Imran it is she who left him for money , she is the stoned eye person... Didn't haseena said that they lived in Ahmedabad for sometime before shifting to Bhopal and even tanveer doesn't live in Bhopal...

So Imran and tanveer are indeed married and as u all say that's role of farhan to prove that tanveer was his bhabhi once... And in one way if nikath gets married to Imran, she'll be a sauten like her mother but it will be a lesson to shireen though nikath doesn't deserve it. But didn't she said once that in love u must be ready to do biggest of biggest sacrifices... Like dilshad maybe in future nikhat will accept imran with his child...

And regarding najma, I don't want them to show that she has fallen for the wrong guy... I want farhan to be a male version of zoya and fall for najma... Najma and nikath should live a same family... The former life will be a fairy tale love story... But the later has to suffer her mom shireen's sin... As her curse would have backfired by then...

Originally posted by: MisHumptyDumpty

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Originally posted by: kaussar

Was Dilshad's 10 day challenge right or wrong?

Even during the time Dilshad made that challenge, there was a nagging doubt in my mind whether what she did was really correct or not. but then under the circumstances she was perhaps justified in doing so. But now after everything that has happened since then, i am once again feeling that Dilshad should not have fallen under emotional pressure and made that decision that day. After all it was about her son's whole life and the decision to get him married should not have been made so abruptly just because Shirin her sauten cursed her children.
No she wasnt right, but then it she had enough, she lived enough humiliated life and had faith and trust in God first and her own upbringing to say that. There is always a time in ones life, when rationality in you are thrown out of doors

Dilshad has always lived life with dignity and pride and raised her children well... So she should have had more faith in herself and the ability of her children.. she has never done any wrong to them so she should have had more faith in Allah that he will not let her children suffer as Shirin cursed and she should have walked out from there with dignity without making that vow to get Asad married in 10 days just to show them.
I think her faith only made her do it

Agree Dilshad had some inkling that Asad loved Zoya even at that time and her hunch was proved right later so the marriage ultimately wasn't a forced one and Asad was happy with it. but what i am trying to say is that your children's marriage or any other important decision regarding their life should not be made under emotional pressure and fear because of something somebody said.. If somebody cursed you (as Shirin did), Karma will make them suffer and not you.
I think a curse from woman like Shireen and Razia to woman like Dilshaad was point they are trying to highlight. Agar aisi auraton ki baatein sach hone lagi to there wont be any faith in God. Their curse will strike back, but for giving into them like that, Dilshaad's also need some suffering. And we all know, parent suffers worst when pain comes off their chilren.

So i feel Dilshad's challenge on that day was not an entirely correct thing hence the marriage didn't happen during the 10 day time frame.



Shirin's curse will it come true?

Shirin cursed that Dilshad's children will never be happy. Today it is proving to be right.. Asad is a completely broken man and if he marries Tanveer he will be sad for the rest of his life.
Today yeah he is, but then there is always tommorrow, the guy is damn lucky that his future doesnt believe in past, have full faith in herself..

A lot of people believes in bad -dua and curses... But does it really come true.. I believe it comes true, if you don't have faith in yourself.. If you yourself believes that things will become wrong in your life, it will. and here first of all Dilshad didn't have faith. her decision was because of lack of faith in herself and fear of what Shirin said becoming true..
Again I think exactly opposite here and she strongly believed herself to put bet on her son..

And then Asad doesn't have faith and belief in himself.. As a result he is falling under Tanveer's manipulations.. But both Asad and Dilshad are good people and they never wished anyone any harm...they do not deserve this fate... Zoya has an abundance of faith, both in herself and in Asad as well. So Zoya is surely going to save this family from their plight.
I agree to this completely, and yes Asad has no faith in himself, thats why only he believed easily he can be animal and do something to his friend, he never questioned himself once on that😕. Seriously this irks me all the time, how he never loathed himself for that act..

And another point is that Shirin is also not a bad person at heart. what ever she said that day she did because of a MU created by Raziya and she looked genuinely sad on the day Asad's Nikah got broken.. So perhaps Shirin would now wish Asad well?
Shireen is brainless, after what she did on walima I cant even call her childish😕

But regardless of the circumstances, cursing someone with ill fate is not something good, hence Shirin's children are suffering equally today... It's time Shirin realized this. Perhaps she will when Nikhath's marriage gets broken again.
yeah hopefully..

Badi Bi and her challenge was it right?

Badi Bi i always feel should never have taken matters on her own hands and act as if she is Agatha Christi or Miss Maple..


But then even Badi Bi's intentions were good.. she wanted to expose Raziya and make her son and his family free from Raziya's evil clutches.. her methods are wrong but her intentions are not.


Badi BI's challenge, she made sure that it was in a way successful and she manged to throw Raziya out of the house by Humaira.. but Badi Bi won the challenge by hook and crook and not in an honest way and she wasn't actually successful in exposing Raziya. Raziya returned back.


But now it looks like Badi Bi's good intentions and wishes might come true in the form of Rajini...Badi Bi challenged Raziya that she will make Humaira throw her out of the house and it didn't really happen that way but now Rajini , Humaira's alter ego would expose Raziya and bring Badi Bi out?

They have made badi Bii chatacter a joke and its not even funny anymore😕 I wish they show some improvement here..

Imran and tanveer:

Today's F 32 articles makes me wonder if there is still any love lost between Imran and Tanveer.. Is that the reason why he was wearing that necklace which everyone assumes is related to Tanveer.. What is Imran's story? does he really love Nikhath?

Or is he just selfish and getting married to Nikhath is because of his ambitions of achieving power and money just like Tanveer.. Is both Imran and Tanveer's power hungriness overcoming even their love and making them do selfish evil deeds and destroy others lives, that too of a brother and sister.. surely they will not succeed in destroying two innocent lives.


I really believed he loved Nikhat before they changed the actor itself. He wanted to confess all his deeds to her, didnt want to marry under false pretence means he did love her. But then all changed drastically, now dont care of their story. If he loves her then why behaving like this!! Wont even say they deserve each other, as in all this Imran is weak(but then who is strong in QH) but he didnt go on killing hunt and betrayed a best friend in worst possible way and remember Tanveer started this man hunt way before she knew of pregnancy. She deserves worst death and no child deserve to be born from woman like her..Imran need to suffer sure, but dont think he is after money. He wanted to settle with good girl, but again isnt that everyones wish. I hope his karmas catch up with his luck soon with Tanveer at his doortep😛 and then rest I dont give damn..

Originally posted by: CanadianChik

The 10 days challenge ' I had initially been sooo disappointed that Dilshad lost but now let's reassess:

Razia did indeed win:

• She did indeed manage to get Ayaan and Humeia engaged but before the accident the ring was with the actual Rajni and not Humeria - in my books that engagement was therefore broken.

• Today her own daughter does not recognize her ' I think sub consciously Humeria always knew how wicked her mom could be and she couldn't handle the reality along with Ayaan rejection. IMO if Razia would not have tried to manipulate the situation then Ayaan and Humeria would eventually have gotten together. Now her daughter (over whom she has no control emotionally) might end up being the reason for her downfall!

Shireen did win as well

• Asad did not get married ' but neither can her son get married now to a girl who thinks she is Hindu and already married

• She has had to accept to a certain point that her husband can never fully be hers as he loves Dilshad

• Her daughter is engaged to Hassina bi's son Imran (need I say more?)

• She almost committed suicide after getting insulted by her daughters in laws. Btw those instructions were given by her own bhabi (foreshadow: in that episode in one of the drawers there was a book called dairies of a demented wife)

• She threw her son out of her house which is soo different to the welcome he always gets from Dilshad ' need I say more on how much respect she has of her kids?

Bari bi did indeed win as well

• But Razia came back with more force and made both her grandsons miserable ( Its coz of Razia help that Assad's wedding got cancelled and Ayaan went through a month of hell in guilt of not being able to find Humeria and now she doesn't recognize him)

• Today Bari bi is alive but is in veg state and no one knows where- this was essential to the plot and it tells me that the Cvs are laying the ground for future tracks. Bari bi is the only one other than Gauffer who knows what actually happened at the factory ' the state Razia has her in now will be nothing compared to the torture it will it be for her knowing the truth but not being able to tell Zoya or Rashid the actual truth of who killed Zoya's mom!

Yes our dear Dilshad lost the 10 days challenge but

• Zoya and Asad will eventually get married now where their relationship will be stronger than ever before as it has matured, depended and grown to a completing different level.

• She will have the peace of mind of knowing that her DIL will always be there for her son and love him and Vice e versa

• And the best of all - at one time her husband and son could not even be in the same room and now that will definitely change 😃 maybe her son and DIL will prove her husbands innocence?

So in conclusion IMO Dilshad is the actual winner even though she lost the 10 days challenge.Good things happen to good people so one just needs to have patience and faith in God. IMO QH is about accepting ones destiny!

Originally posted by: kaussar

comments in purple - u and i r pretty much on the same page😃

Originally posted by: MisHumptyDumpty

Main Res maarun kinda long rewply :p

Promise i will unres it 🤣

QUOTE=kaussar]

Was Dilshad's 10 day challenge right or wrong?

Even during the time Dilshad made that challenge, there was a nagging doubt in my mind whether what she did was really correct or not. but then under the circumstances she was perhaps justified in doing so. But now after everything that has happened since then, i am once again feeling that Dilshad should not have fallen under emotional pressure and made that decision that day. After all it was about her son's whole life and the decision to get him married should not have been made so abruptly just because Shirin her sauten cursed her children.


Dilshad has always lived life with dignity and pride and raised her children well... So she should have had more faith in herself and the ability of her children.. she has never done any wrong to them so she should have had more faith in Allah that he will not let her children suffer as Shirin cursed and she should have walked out from there with dignity without making that vow to get Asad married in 10 days just to show them.


Agree Dilshad had some inkling that Asad loved Zoya even at that time and her hunch was proved right later so the marriage ultimately wasn't a forced one and Asad was happy with it. but what i am trying to say is that your children's marriage or any other important decision regarding their life should not be made under emotional pressure and fear because of something somebody said.. If somebody cursed you (as Shirin did), Karma will make them suffer and not you.


So i feel Dilshad's challenge on that day was not an entirely correct thing hence the marriage didn't happen during the 10 day time frame.

Very Well Explained 👏 👏

Thank U Dear.😃

Shirin's curse will it come true?

Shirin cursed that Dilshad's children will never be happy. Today it is proving to be right.. Asad is a completely broken man and if he marries Tanveer he will be sad for the rest of his life.


A lot of people believes in bad -dua and curses... But does it really come true.. I believe it comes true, if you don't have faith in yourself.. If you yourself believes that things will become wrong in your life, it will. and here first of all Dilshad didn't have faith. her decision was because of lack of faith in herself and fear of what Shirin said becoming true..


And then Asad doesn't have faith and belief in himself.. As a result he is falling under Tanveer's manipulations.. But both Asad and Dilshad are good people and they never wished anyone any harm...they do not deserve this fate... Zoya has an abundance of faith, both in herself and in Asad as well. So Zoya is surely going to save this family from their plight.


And another point is that Shirin is also not a bad person at heart. what ever she said that day she did because of a MU created by Raziya and she looked genuinely sad on the day Asad's Nikah got broken.. So perhaps Shirin would now wish Asad well?


But regardless of the circumstances, cursing someone with ill fate is not something good, hence Shirin's children are suffering equally today... It's time Shirin realized this. Perhaps she will when Nikhath's marriage gets broken again.

Yes she would, because when she heard that Asad's marriage broke, she was shell shocked. But then i want to bring out a point, Rashid said 'Your curse came true, Asad didnt get married before your son!' So does that mean Asad and Zoya has to suffer till Ayaan gets married? 😒

No Dear.. Asad and Zoya will not suffer.. i feel that Dilshad lost her challenge and Shirin and Raziya won in a way.. so ultimately in the end Dilshad will be the true winner and they will loose.

Also, Shirin was forced by Razia to give the curse, i hope it will be Razia and her daughter along side Ayaan suffers.

Its already happening isn't it? they lost Humaira for one month and now Humaira is still lost to them because she thinks she is Rajini and they have to act along.

Not a believer in Badd-duas cause in Bengali there's a saying 'That the eagle's curse doesn't kills the healthy cow' 😆 that's a nice saying...even i don't but some people around me also believe in them.. But i really believe it happens to people who fear this and lack faith in themselves.. If you have a strong belief in yourself, that nothing would bad would happen to you and that God will always protect you, then nothing will happen.

So if i go by F32, according to them in their post, they stated that Baddua's have their assar first. So i think, the badd-dua's assar has taken place now its time for good 😳 Yea the asar will go and good will over take now.

Badi Bi and her challenge was it right?

Badi Bi i always feel should never have taken matters on her own hands and act as if she is Agatha Christi or Miss Maple..


But then even Badi Bi's intentions were good.. she wanted to expose Raziya and make her son and his family free from Raziya's evil clutches.. her methods are wrong but her intentions are not.


Badi BI's challenge, she made sure that it was in a way successful and she manged to throw Raziya out of the house by Humaira.. but Badi Bi won the challenge by hook and crook and not in an honest way and she wasn't actually successful in exposing Raziya. Raziya returned back.


But now it looks like Badi Bi's good intentions and wishes might come true in the form of Rajini...Badi Bi challenged Raziya that she will make Humaira throw her out of the house and it didn't really happen that way but now Rajini , Humaira's alter ego would expose Raziya and bring Badi Bi out?

Baddi Bii didnt take help of Ayaan or somebody, i understand her logic cause she didnt want to harm anyone of her family tree. Now as she mentioned Razia to be thrown out by Humera, Humera in from of Rajni will do so.

So the 10 day's challenge will now be fulfilled, Rajni will expose Razia with Asad and Zoya getting married 😳 😆 definitely should happen..

Imran and tanveer:

Today's F 32 articles makes me wonder if there is still any love lost between Imran and Tanveer.. Is that the reason why he was wearing that necklace which everyone assumes is related to Tanveer.. What is Imran's story? does he really love Nikhath?

Or is he just selfish and getting married to Nikhath is because of his ambitions of achieving power and money just like Tanveer.. Is both Imran and Tanveer's power hungriness overcoming even their love and making them do selfish evil deeds and destroy others lives, that too of a brother and sister.. surely they will not succeed in destroying two innocent lives.


Questions came in my mind was, Was it a N? And why is Najma mentioned? Nikhat could have been mentioned too. But then i dont think Najma is related to anyone of these, cause if it was so, ause if it had been soo Najma would have been hiding and calling and blushing and feeling scared 😆

Remember the locket is more than 2 months old. So Najma cannot be a possibility

Was Najma mentioned in the epi Ankie? i think Najma was just a theory by some members.. Delena gave that theory in one of my posts because i said how come Imran is wearing a pendant related to tanveer when he acts as if he doesn't love her at all.

Imraan and Tanveer, match Made in Heaven 😆 Am sure Tanveer will be married to Imran and Haseena Bii will have a good time 🤣.. LOL.. my day will be made then. 😛

Originally posted by: starsinmyeyes

First of all..an amazing post Kaussar...u have raised some really valid questions...

thank you Dear

Dilshaad was not correct in announcing the challenge..but then she was not thinking rationally...she had held herself up with dignity all these years because people were taunting her..talking about her..never about her kids...when Shireen targeted Asad...she lost it completely..so i really do not blame her there...and the positive was that Asad came out of his shell and accepted his love for Zoya...

Yea she lost it completely that day and like you said the reason was because her children were the target.. i also don't balme her at all and understand her plight.. And Yea some good anyway came out of her decision and because of that and her emotional state on that day, we cannot really blame her.

Shireen is someone who does not think at all...she just cursed Asad..but as u rightly put...the lack of faith and belief in your own self makes these curses come true...insaan ko sirf uska darr hi maar sakta hai..aur kuch nahi..

Agree completely.

Badi Bi needs to confide in Ayaan about this..he has no reason not to believe her..he knows what Razia is made of...she should stop taking matters in her own hands...it can get her killed one day...

Yea Badi Bi is acting foolish by not confiding in anyone.. Agree Ayaan would definitely believe her so why can't she tell him?

I always feel there is a lot more to the Imraan-Tanveer crapfest...something much more sinister than a love story gone wrong...i have always felt that he married her secretly...he must have fallen for her, lied to her that he is rich and then married her...she left him for a richer man but had to come back when she found out she was pregnant...because Imraan gives her money...I don't think that is blackmail coz she has nothing to bargain with, she can't say u give me money or i will expose our relationship..she would not do that...no...i guess somewhere Imraan feels responsibility and harbours real feelings for her..why else would he still wear that locket (I am sure woh tanveer ne diya tha)..he was dumped but he still feels for her somewhere...IMO

Thats an interesting theory.. now that you said it, i wouldn't be surprised if they were married and he actually still have feelings for her.. and that would explain a lot as well why Imran appears to hate her but still would even wear a pendant in her name.. good thinking..😃