Please Read Urgent-Ruksar UPDT READ PG29 8/2/13 - Page 23

It's Shazia again. I am so sorry for the late update regarding Ruksar. It's been a crazy few days and I just didn't get the time.

Well first of all I would like to thank you guys all for your support and all your prayers and duas for Ruksar!

Especially you Monica! I mean your just on here waiting for her to return. I really can't thank you enough for all that you have done! It's just simply amazing! An your just simply amazing!

Thanks a bunch Monica!

Well moving on so I have fantastic news! Ruksar is not as crazy as I thought she was when she dropped all the charges from her ex. She explained the whole situation to me and told me why she did what she did.

So as of tomorrow in the morning Ruksar's ex and her ex's friend are about to get arrested! OMG I am so happy!! I so totally can't wait for it! When Ruksar told me everything I was like literally yelling and laughing, jumping and running around the house just to how happy and relieved I was.

It's a short update I don't have much time so if you guys do want to know why she did what she did then just let me know and I will talk the time out later on today to post up the situation it's a lot to write and it's late and I also have to walk up for sehri in like 3 1/2 hours and it's going to be a long day so I need to rest I am like just so exhausted.

But please do let me know if you want to know why she did what she did and I will post it up. As for anything else regarding her health and what not let me know if you guys still want updates.

Thanks for reading!

Shazia

Sorry my excitement got the best of me 😆

but I'm REALLY happy. So happy she's come to her senses. So happy she's decided to move on. And so happy she's decided to throw him out of her life. He really doesn't deserve any sympathy.

But seriously hun, you just made my night. I AM SO FLIPPING HAPPY RIGHT NOW

I am so glad to hear that Ruksar is doing so much better. I am new to this thread so at first I really didn't know what was happening until I posted on this one thread and from there I was told by Monica about Ruksar. She gave me a link to this thread and I read all your updates on all of the threads.

OMG I was literally shocked I literally cried reading at what she wen through and what happened to her. Her ex is the most disgusting thing ever he should be in a mental asylum where he belongs or even in jail where he should also be. He shouldn't get such an easy punishment for all the crimes hes done against an innocent pure soul.

My heart really goes out to Ruksar. It really does I feel so bad for her truly I will pray for her and always have her in my prayers. I am glad she is recovering and getting better and please do tell us why she at the beginning decided to drop the charges. I knew when I read it she must have had a really good valid reason to do that.

Hope to get and update from you soon Shazia and also can't wait to talk to Ruksar when shes back on the forum. I am so excited for her to come back I am just waiting eagerly. I've literally been stalking her profile I really can't wait to talk to her and get to know to her. She seems to be a very wonderful, kind, sweet, loving, caring, person and I would love to have someone like her in my life. Btw I say that in one of the posts you said you guys are in California. Where exactly? Cause I also live in California. To be precise I live in the bay area. I mean if you don't want to post it openly on the thread its okay PM it to me.. I was thinking I could probably come and visit.

An btw Shazia, Ruksar is really lucky to have a friend like you. I wouldn't consider you a friend I would consider you to be her real sister.

Hope to hear from you soon.

It's Shazia again..

It's a short update. Not the best. Ruksar's ex wasn't arrested or his friend. They found out and they have ran away somewhere. Currently the police are looking for them but they haven't had much luck.

So the cops have asked Ruksar to contact her ex and met with him so it can lure him out and they can catch him. It's not a good idea I told her but she insists on doing it. She said she would text him today sometime but lets see what happens.

I know if they met things will not go good. He knows this all happened cause of Ruksar and he's really going to hurt her badly this time. I just know it. I am still not going to give up on trying to stop Ruksar from doing this. It's like a suicide decision. I really can't see her getting hurt anymore by that pig.

She's been really strong, happy, and good these past few days and well if she meets him that will change in a blink of an eye. I just hope things don't get that bad or else Ruksar will completely break this time.

I am going to step out for a bit but when I come back I will do an update and explain what Ruksar did which is causing her ex to be like this.

Thanks for the support for all of you that are still following these updates. It truly means a lot to me and all of you that do I will always and forever keep you in my dua and ask Allah to grant all your wishes and make sure you all have a successful happy life.

Thanks again Monica! You never give up! You have been a great supporter and I just have no idea of how to thank you! You have done so much for her and it really just makes me very happy. So thanks so much Monica! You truly are the best and I am sure you and Ruksar will really kick it off. I have this feeling you two will get along really well.

Shazia

OMG. Aww I'm glad she's doing better. I had a feeling arresting that bas***d wouldn't be that easy. But hun, as much as you're afraid for her, I do agree that luring him out is the best way to catch him. Although, if he knows what she did (waiting anxiously to know what that is) then even he might be heistant to meet her out of the blue like this. I mean she was avoiding him this whole time right? So her texting him might be odd. But it could still work.

I know you're afraid for her. Totally understandable given the previous history. But I strongly feel that if she pulls this off, she'll be able to get him arrested and FINALLY be rid of him. I totally understand that you're worried for her safety, and her mental health. I am too. But sometimes, one must make a small sacrifice for a bigger good. And her getting rid of him is that bigger good.

And no need at all to thank me hun. I'm just glad she's doing better. I don't know why but I feel really connected to her. Maybe it was her writing or the constant updates of her situation, but I feel like I already know her. And I'm really looking forward to talk to her when she does come back on the forum.

I'm glade she's recovering n doing better. I know you r afraid about her, i'm too.i know that if Cops asked her to call & trap him than sure they w'll protect her but still i'm worried about her.

I'm updating on Shazia's behalf. Ruksar was doing good like she said before and another IF member who happened to live nearby visited her and the three of them had a nice time talking.

But out of the blue her ex showed up. He broke into her house and was hurting her. He had a gun, but Ruksar was brilliant and brave and stood up to him. She stared him down, and said "Shoot me." She went up to him and whispered something in his ear. First it made him a little startled, and he lowered the gun. He asked her to forgive him, and hugged her. But then he lost it and tried to force himself on her and kissed her. She fought back, and in that whole hoopla the gun went off. Ruksar is fine. Just has a slightly deep gash. And no one else was hurt.

He was finally arrested. Thank god. And then she broke down. She was crying all night. She barely ate for sehri, and was really weak. She shut herself in her room the whole time. And about 3 hours ago, she stopped answering her cellphone, texts and calls.

Shazia's brother came and broke into her room. She had passed out from weakness and lack of food. She was weak from crying too. The fall had caused a head injury and her arm's stitches to open. Shazia and her brother, and Zarah (the fellow IF member who lives near Ruksar and went to visit her) rushed her to the hospital.

She regained consciousness about an hour later, thanks to some meds the doctors gave her. Now she's been discharged and is on her way home.

She kinds broke down seeing Shazia and Zarah when she woke up, but were hoping it's because she wants to open up.

Let Shazia know if you guys would like more updates.

Please keep Ruksar in your prayers. She really is a sweetheart and knows about the thread. She's really grateful to all who have commented and prayed for her.

Monica